About lafayettemister

Regular guy with regular guy needs.

John Deaux
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Alabama, Alabama, United States
Nothing special.. I like the same things everyone else does. Movies, music, sports, sex...
Favorite Books:
I don't get the opportunity to read very much. I love to read, but with two kids it's hard to get enough quiet time to do it.
Favorite Authors:
Too many to list.. although the last book I read was by Wally Lamb.... I Know This Much Is True. Great book.. I'll definitely have to read more of his stuff.
Favorite Movies:
The Hangover, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, Glory, Intimacy, Love Actually, lots and lots more.
Favorite Music:
I like most music. The only thing I don't really like is rap, just not my thing. Well, I don't really care for polka music either. hahahaa
Date Joined:
04 Oct 2010
Last Visit:
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Topic: Blow jobs
Posted: 17 Apr 2015 06:07

Because not all guys are gay or bisexual. Very simple. No one is going to suck dick or eat pussy or whatever with someone they aren't in to. Even in a threesome scenario, a MFM.... I'd be willing to do that, but I have zero desire to do anything with the other dude. I don't want to suck him off or stroke him or kiss him, nothing. Because, I'm not into guys. That's like asking why lesbians don't like giving blowjobs. They aren't into dudes. Same thing with strictly straight women, I bet most of them love having their pussy eaten, but that doesn't mean they want to eat pussy.

I have a friend that is (well, was) a swinger. She LOVES giving head. She and her husband went to many swingers parties and had lots of sex, but she never fooled around with another woman. In her words, "The only pussy I have any desire to taste is my own".

Topic: U.S. Politics - Religious Freedom Bill
Posted: 06 Apr 2015 13:49

Earlier you made reference to an illegal racist organization, the KKK. As shitty as that group is, it isn't illegal.

There is a distinction that is being missed. A bakery cannot deny service to someone who is gay. They can't refuse to sell a donut to any gay person that walks in the door, that would be discrimination. Denying to bake a wedding cake for a gay wedding, something they are religiously opposed to is a different story. It would make that baker an asshole and a bigot. But, it isn't necessarily anti-gay person as much as it is anti gay marriage. At which point, the community can rise up and quit using that baker for anything. Which will cause the baker to, either go out of business or change his business habits.

It isn't a matter of Freedom of Speech, it's Freedom of Religion.... and the right to not be prosecuted for practicing your religion.

Topic: Do you enjoy playing sports, basketball etc with the guys, why?
Posted: 31 Mar 2015 09:51

When I was in HS I played baseball with the boys. I was as good or better than a lot of them. I wanted to play on my HS team but they would not allow girls so I had to play on girls softball team.

As an adult I played in a co-ed volleyball league and I did well against the guys. The advantage they had was in height but I still did OK. I have played basketball and softball with guys. Softball I do well, guess I was always pretty good with a bat of one form or another in my hands. LOL. Basketball not as well but I am a pretty good shooter.

I guess I enjoyed it because I love sports and I am very competitive.

How about a game of Strip Horse?

Topic: Current Favourite TV Shows
Posted: 26 Mar 2015 13:27

Game of Thrones, The Blacklist, Person of Interest, DaVinci's Demons

Topic: Is it a big deal being a guy's 1st?
Posted: 24 Mar 2015 13:15

It probably depends on the situation. If you're both teens (legal age of consent teens) then it'll have a certain importance.

If he's saved himself for marriage, and you're his first, on his wedding night, at the age of 35.... yeah, it'll be a huge deal to him.

If he's awkward or shy or otherwise unlikely to easily get laid... and he's had years of failed attempts to get laid... it'll be a big deal to him.

If you're his first and he doesn't get laid again for 5 years.. it'll be a big deal.. for at least those 5 years.

If he's in his first year of college and away from home for the first time and you're his first... but he gets a different lay 2 weeks later... then it probably won't be a big deal to that guy

Topic: The Gun Control Debate Thread.
Posted: 24 Mar 2015 07:22

The US has guns, we're going to continue to have guns. Guns aren't the problem. It's people with bad intentions that are the problem. People can kill others in many different ways. Just a couple weeks ago someone killed their baby with a circular saw. Mass murders via firearm are just a minuscule percentage of homicides. There are thousands of of instances of people saving their lives and/or the lives of others by using a legally owned firearm.

There's a common thought about women and rape. Some morons say things like, "she was asking for it" "she was drunk" "I was drunk" "she flirted with me" "she was dressed sexy" blah blah blah. All a bunch of bullshit. Many people have pointed out that women should be able to drink and dress however they want... .Don't tell a woman what to do to NOT be raped... teach boys and men not to rape. Damn good advice. Men should respect women enough to NOT rape.

By the same token, instead of taking away a weapon that can be replaced by somethings else that is also capable of ending a life... we need to teach people not to commit crime. Not to rob and steal and invade homes and fucking kill people. Until we convince our society that life is sacred, that the beating heart of every individual deserves to continue beating... nothing will change. Guns are only a symptom of a much larger problem.

For the record, I own a hunting rifle and my grandfathers old 12 gauge shotgun. The rifle has been shot a handful of times in the last few years for the purpose of lining up the scope. I couldn't tell you the last time the shotgun was fired. Both are locked up in my closet. There have been some very brutal invasions and murders not far from here, which has caused me to seriously consider buying a handgun. I'd hope to never have to use it, EVER. And maybe I wouldn't be able to get to it in time to make a difference. But I'll take a maybe so over a definitely not any day when it comes to protecting my family.

Topic: Should I have asked this question earlier?
Posted: 06 Mar 2015 06:03


And about the rules concerning donating blood: what is so specific about male-on-male sex that straight couples don't do? And is docking or rubbing two cocks against each other really that more risky than a straight fuck?

It's not really about what couples do as who they do it with, at least in the eyes of the CDC and FDA. Here are some posts from a Think Tank thread on this exact topic.

According to a CBSnew report, the CDC says , Of the estimated 12,200 new HIV infections that occurred in 2010 in the 13-to-24 age group, 72 percent were in young men who have sex with men.

This is also a common practice across the globe, not just the States..

According to Wikipedia most countries have a 1 year deferral on blood from MSM (Men who have Sex with Men). Which means, in countries like the UK, men cannot give blood if they've had sex with another man within one year. Because, the virus may not be detectable within the first few weeks of contracting.

Current blood testing is not able to detect the HIV virus within the Window Period, and MSM are much more likely to have HIV according to statistics.

According to an article by The LA Times , "The FDA estimates that HIV prevalence is 60 times higher among men who have sex with men than it is in the general public, and 800 times higher than it is in first-time blood donors, who are typically healthier than the general public."

I don't think the FDA, Red Cross, United Blood Services are being discriminatory. They're playing the averages, and protecting their financial asses. There are no doubt thousands of homosexual men and women working as doctors and nurses and phlebotomists and administrators of blood. If they aren't up in arms over it, I'll wait to throw mine up.

Blood is tested, of course it is. The problem is that HIV can be present in a person's blood and still be undetected by modern blood tests within the "Window Period". It can take anywhere from 2 weeks to 6 months for enough HIV antibodies to be detectable in a person's blood. So..

Tom has sex with another man in January, unknowingly contracts HIV
Tom gets tested in April and passes his HIV test
Tom has sex with Mary in Sept, Mary unknowingly contracts HIV
Mary goes to the blood bank in December to donate blood and is rejected as a candidate
Mary attempts to give blood the following year, does so, her blood is tested and is discarded.

According to aids.gov...

"Although MSM represent about 4% of the male population in the United States4, in 2010, MSM accounted for 78% of new HIV infections among males and 63% of all new infections2. MSM accounted for 54% of all people living with HIV infection in 2011, the most recent year these data are available1."

Those are the rules set forth by the federal government, some blood banks may choose to be even stricter. None can legally be less strict. I'm not saying whether the policy is fair or unfair, only pointing out that the CDC and FDA are simply playing the percentages.

edit.... also of note, women who only have sex with other women are not precluded from donating since they are statistically of no risk of having HIV

Topic: Should I have asked this question earlier?
Posted: 05 Mar 2015 14:03

I think it's unfair to characterize your cancelling the encounter because he had gay sex. That's unfair. Your original post shows exactly why that's a problem. Giving blood is more important to you than sex. And in your mind, whether or not any of us agree, you feel misled or misinformed or whatever. Your choice to not meet up doesn't need anyone's approval. According to the FDA, having casual sex and having casual sex with a man who has had sex with another man is two different things. The topic of gay/bisexual men and blood donation has been discussed in the think tank already. However, here is a segment of the official FDA blood donation questionnaire...


Topic: Should I have asked this question earlier?
Posted: 05 Mar 2015 12:01

Hindsight is 20/20, but don't beat yourself up over it. I do find it interesting that it took this long for him to ask you if you've been with another woman (which prompted you to ask if he'd been with a man), usually that comes up fairly often/regularly while flirting/chatting/cybering. However, if he knew about your passion for donating blood AND he knew that blood banks don't allow blood from men who've had sex with other men, and by association ALL of their sex partners (male and female), then it was a lie of omission. Maybe it was intentional, maybe it wasn't, or maybe he didnt' think it was a big deal. It doesn't necessarily mean he's a bad guy.

I commend you for your devotion to giving blood, even in the face of it damaging a possible relationship.

Topic: What Song have heard or like that has blatant sex in it
Posted: 05 Mar 2015 10:14


an excerpt...

I'm looking in your eye
I'm looking in your big brown eye.
(Ooh yeah)
(and I've got this to say to you)

Girl I want to make you sweat
Sweat 'til you can't sweat no more.
And if you cry out I'm gonna push it some more.
Girl I want to make you sweat
Sweat 'til you can't sweat no more.
And if you cry out I'm gonna push it
Push it push it some more.

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