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I don't get the opportunity to read very much. I love to read, but with two kids it's hard to get enough quiet time to do it.
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The Hangover, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, Glory, Intimacy, Love Actually, lots and lots more.
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Topic: Harvey Weinstein
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 15:03



you're not really blaming Hillary for Bill's actions, are you?

That reply was to someone who said, "The Groper in Chief? All his gross friends? Do you mean the party who doesn't see anything wrong with a man who grabs them where and when he wants to?" By that person's logic, friends and an entire party are complicit in the actions of our current President. If her logic is that the party who doesn't see anything wrong with a man who grabs when he wants to, then that same logic should be employed against the other party when the person stumping for Hillary is a know assaulter and possible rapist.

To further the point if President Trumps friends are "gross" by association with him and his pussy grabbing comments, then Harvey Weinstein's friends must be equally gross. Hillary would fall into a Harvey friend category. If that's her logic, it has to be deployed across the spectrum or else it's just grandstanding.

Topic: Another hypocrite scumbag politician
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 13:39


Are you sure that it will not kill you? Having feelings that are in total conflict with all you know and believe can lead to serious depression, especially in an environment that will never accept you, and we all know what that can lead to.

It may well be this guy is big hypocrite, bit he could just as well be wrestling with the conflict between his upbringing and his feelings. Did he make the wrong choices? Yes, I believe he has. Did his life and his circumstances allow him to do it differently? I don't know and I bet you don't either.


I guess the next thing you'll tell me is that being a gay male can kill you because of HIV/Aids because that's a gay disease.

Depression kills lots of folks. Gay men, overweight people, survivors of rape, teen angst, not being pretty enough, not being a good enough jock. All sorts of things. Even if someone commits suicide because they can't find acceptance, it isn't their actual homosexuality that kills them. Or having the butt sex.

He can wrestle with his inner conflict on his own dime. When he's in office, he can refrain from staunch anti-gay grandstanding. He can spend his time in office on issues about crime, economic growth, infrastructure, tax reform, pro-life, any any other sort of platform that he and his constituents believe in. If you like having sex with other men, avoid the issue whenever possible. He chose to be a vocal opponent of the LGBT movement. He could have just as easily chosen to remain mostly silent.

Speaking from my own experiences. I grew up in a very religious home, I went to Sunday School every week until I was in high school. Even then, I was extremely active in my church's youth group, I had great experiences there. Later, I became a youth director for a couple different churches. In my 20's I was going out and getting laid on Friday and Saturday, then leading church groups on Sunday. I refrained from any program or presentation about sex and/or abstinence. I knew it would make me a hypocrite to tell those kids they shouldn't be having sex, while I was doing so. I may not have been a great Christian, but I wasn't a hypocritical one.

Topic: Another hypocrite scumbag politician
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 11:50


Does it? What if he was a sinner in his own eyes, who was trying to stop others committing the same sin? Is a smoker trying to convince others not to smoke a hypocrite? Is a drugaddict who supports the war on drugs one? Or are they all just people who believe that their own behaviour is wrong, and who are trying to prevent others from going down the same path?

We should be careful with our judgement when we don't know all the circumstances and facts.

Being gay is not even remotely comparable to having an addiction to something that can kill you. Being gay won't rot your teeth, contaminate you lungs, give your cancer, or kill you. Having a chemical addiction (even if you yourself caused the addiction by starting the chemical in the first place) is a medical/health issue. It isn't a sin. Within the confines of christianity, being gay may be a "sin", but that has no bearing on the legalities of civil law and order. Passing/writing laws that inhibit the lives of others, based on sexual preference while secretly living the life you bash publicly, that's hypocrisy.

Topic: Another hypocrite scumbag politician
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 10:52


Homophobia is often not fear of gay people, but fear of the feelings they evoke.

Whatever it is, this guy built a career of trying to hold down the LGBT community. I'm sure he opposed their progress in any and all fashion. That makes him an asshole. One of the few things I dislike more than an asshole, is a hypocrite asshole.

Topic: Another hypocrite scumbag politician
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 10:37

Anti-LGBT politician resigns after being caught having sex with a man in his office

So much for his "family values". It's bad enough to be a homophobic S.O.B. but now you're a hypocrite and a self loathing homophobic S.O.B.

Topic: Harvey Weinstein
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 08:01

Might I suggest a search on YouTube about the Groper and what he says about his daughter on the View tv show.

That's who got elected. A man who brags and assaults women. A man who wants to date his own daughter????


Really??!?

Then I'll stand alone and proud.

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I sure hope you didn't cast your vote in years past for Obama/Biden, since Biden is well known to be a groper. Furthermore, if you voted for Hillary Clinton in 2016, after her multiply accused rapist husband campaigned for her; your point is invalidated.

Topic: Harvey Weinstein
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 07:27



The Groper in Chief? All his gross friends? Do you mean the party who doesn't see anything wrong with a man who grabs them where and when he wants to?

There are transgressions with both parties but one party doesn't care.

To them, being groped and assaulted by the Groper in Chief is an honor, right?



And here you have why everything has to be political. This notion that people who voted for Trump are somehow equally responsible for his actions, is why the right is enjoying leftist politicians being caught doing the same things. You're right though, one party doesn't care. The right doesn't care what Trump did or may have done. The left doesn't care what Franken did or may have done.

All Republicans have been lumped in together as the bad guys. They're why we have bad people. We all know Pres. Trump is a pathological liar, why is it that we 100% believe his comment about pussy grabbing? The first thing pathological lying guys lie about, is how much pussy they get. Pres. Trump's pussy grabbing statement reminds me of The Shermanator on "American Pie". Maybe he has grabbed women by the crotch, but I'm not taking him at his word for it.

This notion that some dude working as a plumber in Podunk, USA who is scrambling to make ends meet and decided to vote for a person whom he thought would improve his life and situation is somehow complicit in sexual assaults or racism or homophobia... only by way of a vote, is ludicrous.

As someone who is more centrist than left or right, I see the extremism on the far left and far right to be equally troublesome. Leftism (not to be confused with liberalism) is the new theism. You must believe what they believe, 100%, no deviation no independent thought whatsoever. If you agree with 95% of their idealism, that isn't enough. You must stand on the altar of social media with contrition and accept your fate.

Topic: What should be done about Roy Moore?
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 06:10



*shrugs* if you think this is all about politics and Rep/Dem, you're completely missing the boat. it's about what we will allow and what we won't. For me, it's not about party or labels, it's about what a person does or doesn't do. zero tolerance.

It isn't all about politics, but some of it is. At least in the way the general public reacts and deals with it. I admire your zero tolerance position and you never waiver from it. Your point of view on this topic doesn't change and you give no slack to anyone because of any extraneous affiliation. That's the way it should be, so you'll get no argument from me there. The offender is the bad person who needs to be dealt with.

Politically speaking, the bigger picture (not to demean or say the actual event is the 'little picture') is how society plays a part in it. The left has done a very good job of connecting Republican voters to the personal/private actions of those they elect. The voters on the right have been long blamed and held liable and complicit in the "good ol' boys" patriarchy. It's as if the republican voting base is somehow more responsible for the bad deeds of their elected officials than the democrat voting base is for the bad deeds of theirs.

The entirety of the right is to blame for the actions or Moore while the entirety of the left is exempt from the actions of Franken or Biden. Or Clinton!

It bleeds into non politicians too. Weinstein is a monster and his actions are his to be held accountable. But if it were teh CEO of Chick Fil A or Hobby Lobby, the left would hold all of the right as accountable.

To paraphrase Nina Turner, a staunch advocate of Bernie Sanders. "Not all Republicans are flaming racist, just as all Democrats aren't some kind of freedom fighter."

Of course, the right does the same shit. Ignore the hypocrisy within their own ranks while calling out the smallest hint of wrong doing on the left.

I guess my point is, no one group of people has the market cornered on being shitty.

Topic: Harvey Weinstein
Posted: 16 Nov 2017 14:05



I was not censoring you. You are free to express your opinion within the site's rules, as am I. My view is that labelling the perpetrators politically serves no purpose. I also abhor when people point out malfeasance or ignore it depending on the D or R label. Countering perpetrators of one party with perpetrators of the other as if somehow keeping score does not address the root problem. They are all shameful excuses for human beings.

I'll repost this here...

Wow. I just saw that you are the person that started a thread about Roy Moore and have the gall to chastise me about left/right when I speak about Al Franken. You literally made a post about a sexual harrassing politician and wrote the sentence... "As someone who would be a Democrat were I an American, I admit that I take some delight in the GOP having this mess to solve"... Sorry P, you're a hypocrite.


I'm not saying you can't express your opinion, I'm saying you can't tell other people they can't express theirs or tell them what is or isn't on topic in my thread. I'm saying you cannont and I do not give you permission to dictate who can say what in my thread.

Furthermore, I don't see how to justify "Countering perpetrators of one party with perpetrators of the other as if somehow keeping score does not address the root problem." and "As someone who would be a Democrat were I an American, I admit that I take some delight in the GOP having this mess to solve." and not see those two statements as contradictory and hypocritical. You're talking out of both sides of your mouth.

Topic: Harvey Weinstein
Posted: 16 Nov 2017 13:46



I have said this earlier in this thread and will repeat it now. The issue is not a left-right one, but rather a right-wrong one. This is about men using their power and entitlement to harass, abuse and assault women. There are plenty of examples at both ends of the political spectrum and in between.

Topics often meander and shift to many related aspects of the original topic. Within this particular one, it is right-wrong but as often happens, but there is also a level of surprise and shock as to who is actually committing these offenses. My point is that there is evil in all walks of life. Furthermore, Al Franken IS a politician, a vocal Democrat/liberal politician. I can guarantee that if it were a conservative politician (see Moore, Roy) his political affiliation would definitely be a point of conversation. As well it should be. I abhor when people point out the evil doings of one person while ignoring or absolving another for the same thing, all dependent on whether they have an "R" or "D" behind their name.

Secondly, I am not a fan of censorship in any form or fashion. People can speak on whatever they wish. By the way, I'm the person that began this thread so if anyone can say what this thread is or isn't about, it's me. I would greatly appreciate you not telling me what I can talk about on the very thread I created.

So, you won't have to repeat it again, refrain from telling people what they may contribute to this particular topic. Unless they break site rules, your censorship is unwanted and unneeded and contrary to the wishes of the thread originator. Me.

Edit.... Wow. I just saw that you are the person that started a thread about Roy Moore and have the gall to chastise me about left/right when I speak about Al Franken. You literally made a post about a sexual harrassing politician and wrote the sentence... "As someone who would be a Democrat were I an American, I admit that I take some delight in the GOP having this mess to solve"... Sorry P, you're a hypocrite.

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