It was decades ago, but I successfully lived with a woman in a 2 bedroom 1 bath apartment without sex. We got along great for 6 months sharing bills and chores. It fell apart when her boyfriend moved in from the other side of the country. Mostly money issues. We all vacated the apartment at the same time. They rented a house and I rented a one BR and we stayed friends.
Yep, naked. Both of us. Even in the winter when we switch to flannel sheets.
Some grammatical errors jump right out at me and throw me off, but bad grammar is sometimes a characteristic of the character and helps to add realism to the story. So rather than stumble, it adds to the mood. It's probably more negative than positive in most cases.
Distract yourself by thinking about something boring or unpleasant. Use a condom. Focus your mind on that spider crawling across the ceiling or on the neighbor's dog barking. They keep you from enjoying the sex much, but women don't like hearing, "You're just so damn sexy, I couldn't wait."
I've never tried it and I can't really see the point. I have a mental block to people knowing when I'm masturbating and I also think it would cross the cheating line.
On top of that, I type too slowly and habitually precisely and I can only imagine how much slower and more distracting it would be to type one-handed.
I would enjoy knowing that anyone (F or M) got off on one of my stories. That would not cross the cheating line because the stories aren't targeted at a specific person.
I notice when a woman's hair doesn't fit her face. I also notice red hair more quickly and from a greater distance. I've been smote by redheads and brunettes, but not blondes. I don't know if that's related to hair color, though.
The saying "What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander" might apply. Neither you nor your husband can control what either of you desire and by the same token, he can't control what he would desire if he caught you being unfaithful.
So, you've flirted with this guy. How would you feel if your husband flirted with someone?
Perhaps you've crossed another line by mutually fantasizing with this guy. How would you feel if your husband did the same with someone?
Would you give your husband the same "free pass" that you want to give yourself?
The line is crossed when something of you that is presumed reserved for your spouse is given to another. There might have been a phrase in your wedding vows like, "forsaking all others". Your spouse can't presume to have your mind reserved, because you can't control what you desire, but he/she can presume to have your body reserved. So mutual agreement on what to presume reserved is required.
But then there's another saying. "It's better to beg for forgiveness than to ask for permission." You might want to ask yourself if that would be true in your case.
1) Yes.
2) Not unless I'm having sex with another woman.
3) No.
Sometimes the curious scientist in me leaks out. Do you have to factor in the effects of nipple erection? Does that change the diameter? The volume that the pastie has to contain? The requirements for the binding agent that holds them in place?
It's an interesting question and, assuming it's okay for a guy to comment, it depends on on whether you think fucked implies penetration. A person who was speared or stabbed couldn't really say they speared or stabbed the guy who speared or stabbed them. Even if they very actively assisted in their impalement, it would still have to be something like "I thrust myself upon his spear". But that's all just semantics. Since fuck has become such a flexible word, you can even say "we fucked" and although penetration is implied, who penetrated whom becomes irrelevant or presumed. But the intent of words is to convey information. If I hear a woman say "I fucked him" and she doesn't add "in the ass", I assume she meant she actively impaled herself with his cock.
Four. The first offered chance to lose my virginity. The rest were women I was willing to try for a long term relationship with. I think a slut is someone who has sex with no intent to attempt a long term relationship. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
Misunderstanding, reconciliation, make-up sex
Bang? Less than 10 minutes. If I take too long, my arthritis flares up and kills my erection. It's kind of a PITA, but we've worked around it.
1. Stories by the authors I follow. The follow function makes sure I don't miss stories by the authors I enjoy reading.
2. Stories by friends, but there is a lot of crossover between them and the authors I follow.
3. Stories that start with a great hook in the title, tags, one-liner, or first few lines, although I usually skip the stories in categories that seem to have few gems. I like novels.
It's been so long since I've had sex with anyone other than my wife, I can only speak to that standard. If a guy wants to avoid making waves, he will not be more honest than the gal can be trusted to appreciate. In other words, If he thinks there will be negative repercussions if he's honest low, he will exaggerate high. There's no benefit to being too honest.
I prefer the slow burn, but I'm also a writer. You'll be doing yourself a favor if you just focus on having fun writing. Experiment if you want or stick to a winning formula if that's what does it for you.
In my stories, I am often very deliberately confronting my personal demons, revealing much about how my brain works and displaying my insecurities and complexes. Perhaps that is scaring away the potentially curious. I haven't had any "fans" probing for more intimate knowledge of me, but I don't have many followers or friends and I'm not sure if that's personal or because my stories don't inspire them. Maybe I've done something to alienate even the harmless among the curious, which is not intentional, but I do have to protect my privacy.
