My husband and I met when we were very young...I was only 14 and he 16....and neither of us dated anyone else once we were together. We were married when I was 20 and we were both virgins at the time we were married.....and as I say to anyone who invariably will say that to either me or my husband "sure he/she was" with a roll eyes...trust me... we were virgins. The rest of our lives have pretty much proven that. Prior to marriage we had engaged in some light petting through our clothes but nothing more. Looking back on all of this, what sticks out, was that my husband never forced the issue. I never gave any indication that I "would" and so he never really "tried". At the time I thought it a good thing. Now I'm not so sure.
After we were married we had a very slow introduction into sex. Neither of us had any experience....at all....and neither of us seemed to be well schooled in what to do when we got there. It was a long time before we had oral sex....and I'm speaking in terms of a couple of years and not days or months and most of what we did do was in the missionary position. After a while we began to relax and we tried some newer positions and we got comfortable with oral and even anal when I was particularly aroused.
My outward appearance which has always been what I guess would be considered elegantly sexy...liking dress clothes...nearly always in heels....always made up well and not cheaply...lots of jewelry....sort of belied my inner sex drive which was extroadinarily cautious. Since my husband was also inexperienced, shy and cautious this had our sex life together move at a snail's pace and led to what I now know as inhibition and reluctance to ask for more or variety on both of our parts. My husband has always loved the way I dress, almost showing me off in public but would simmer down a bit behind closed doors. He has some fetishes which I've always been willing to appease such as clothes and a love of woman in high heels which was easy for me. He also has a gum fetish....he likes women who chew gum "elegantly"...not like a cow. He showed me a woman who he thought was attractive chewing gum and I copied her. To this day he loves it. He also is attracted to women who smoke. So I spent about six months learning to smoke in the fashion he likes with help from a girlfriend who smoked at work and surprised him one day. I managed to limit myself to only smoking for his benefit whether in public and private although more recently I've "cheated" in that respect as well as I'll smoke socially around other people now as well. Even appeasing his fetish needs did not bring out a great change in my husbands aggressiveness in the bedroom and his lack of aggressiveness or willingness to suggest anything new made me shy to do the same. My husbands fetish nature being focused on situations or actions he can observe rather than participate in has made me wonder if he'd like to be a third party observer watching me with another man or men but there isn't a chance in hell I would ever bring it up to him. It would ne so far outside anything we've ever discussed that it wouldn't go over well at all. So all of this inhibition on both parties was going around in circles for years until it got to the point of my first experience which I've already sent you. Now we can move on to some more salacious experiences I've had.
This is a real short recap of a cute little situation my husband and I had a few weeks ago. It was during the week and my husband had a vacation week so he was home and doing a lot of fixit up stuff around the house all week. I, on the other hand, have be...
