Here are the issues with this situation.
1. He stayed in a relationship where he wasn't happy enough to stay honest/faithful but wasn't unhappy enough to leave (so in essence he is playing both women until he can figure out what he wants).
2. Instead of leaving that relationship to be single for a while and sort himself out before making another commitment, he jumped from one relationship directly into another relationship (fear of being alone).
3. When things start sliding in his primary relationship, he's already has a trend or habit of looking for a new upgrade, and doesn't have an issue with carrying on at least two emotional/sexual relationships at the same time without much guilt (he's good at rationalizing his betrayals).
4. While you might be that upgrade right now, how likely is it that your relationship will never enter the complacency of point #1 at some point in the future thereby making you the old model that he is looking to trade in?
Yes... it will happen again.
There are some exceptionally talented poets on this site just like there are some very talented story writers ... all embedded within a lot of mediocre fare. You have the good and the bad in both art forms. I enjoy both (my list of favourited pieces on this site includes both stories and poems).
I do have a pet peeve about seeing spelling mistakes in poems. Given that this is a very short piece of writing, there really shouldn't be any excuse for a misspelt word.
I'm not sure about rejection difference or trends. A moderator would probably be able to better answer that one.
I don't notice very much man-hating from the 'real women' on this site.
Yes, there are a lot of annoying men that can be very crude, annoying and/or stalkerish but to be honest, they really do target certain profiles which are usually the fun/slutty, "I'm up for anything" ones that have less substance and a lot of nude pics OR seem to belong to a younger, more naive girl that might be 'nice enough' to not immediately just tell them to fuck off. Seriously girls, it's pretty easy to just ignore those PMs or IM's. It's not like you have a live man standing there ogling you in a creepy way or grabbing your arm to get your attention. Just click the button and make it disappear from your screen. It's the same as how in real life you would just roll your eyes and walk away. If you can't handle a pervey comment online, then how do you women handle men in real life? It's really not that big of a deal, and certainly nothing worthy of throwing an "I hate men" tantrum over.
A lot of the openly man-hating profiles appear to belong to flushies anyway and sure, if a guy is running a profile and pretending to be a hot female cyber-model, then he's probably going to want to avoid dealing with horny guys so putting out an aggressive "stay away" sign on the lawn is a likely tactic.
I've never heard of the "I won't be friends with anyone who has men on their friends list" before. But seriously though... why would you want to be friends with them anyway then? They are either dudes in disguise or totally neurotic headcases. Either way, let them have their own corner of the universe and enjoy your own.
A lot of gay guys love the prospect of a 'convert'... I know many that take pride in their ability to have a special radar for those that might be curious enough to indulge in a bit of experimentation.
I think there are those people that are definitely straight whether it be more based on lack of same-sex attraction/desire or being socially wired to never consider any experimentation because of judgement. Then there are those that definitely gay and could never consider playing the hetero world, but I think there is a larger majority with a more fluid sexuality. I think that location/opportunity can determine whether that person ever considers experimenting or just relegates their curiosity to their fantasy world. Those are the ones that are seen as potential converts. Gay guys often have a knack for identifying and zero'ing in on that subtlety.
Push her down roughly, grab her wrists and then pin them up over her head, lower your body against hers in increments (teasingly) as you run your tongue along the outer rim of her ear, softly biting her earlobe, whisper something dirty into her ear then move your lips lower down along her neck, kissing, softly sucking and biting, wait for her to arch her neck (or run your hands into her hair, pulling her head back until her neck is arched)... then move your tongue into the hollow of her throat and let it linger there, kiss and lick along her collarbone, all the while grinding your lower pelvis against her. Let her feel you hard for her as you devour her neck.
Something like that...
Then you can mix/repeat some of those suggestions for as long as it takes until she's begging you to fuck her. Pay attention to her responses and breathing changes or gasps or the way her body pushes up to meet yours. It should give you a good indication that you're doing things right.
First - Garbage (Shirley Manson) ... it was amazing!
Worst - Celine Dion (I got roped into it by some conservative/girly friends ages ago... props to Celine, but it's just not my kind of music).
Best - without a doubt, it was Portishead. I was right at the front of the stage in a very small venue and it was such a trippy and intimate experience.
I am set to away when I don't feel like chatting one-on-one with anyone (for whatever reason).... which is usually 95% of the time. LOL
It has nothing to do with cyber (for me).
I still get plenty of IM's though, even when I'm set to away, which I'll usually reply to if I have a bit of time (as long as they aren't creepy or obnoxious). Sometimes I put my auto-reply on for IMs if I'm not up for it at all.
If I'm lurking/reading/posting and not interested in any contact with anyone then I am set to invisible. I know that many people don't obey this rule, but when someone is set to invisible and you notice they have just scored a story or posted in the forums (so you are aware they are probably lurking), please don't rush to IM them. Chances are they don't want to talk to anyone or don't have time to. That is why they are set to invisible! I have a handful of people that I'm ok with doing this because I'm good friends with them and because we are often all set to invisible most of the time. But for someone you don't know really well... just send a PM (that's just my opinion). I'm far more likely to respond to a proper PM than a "hey how r u?" IM. If I'm invisible, usually I'm multi-tasking so my attention is scattered as it is.
I've dated both kinds of guys (metrosexuals and rugged/sporty ones). Metrosexuals can come with a lot of vanity and ego, which can piss me off over time. I had an ex that used to keep a spare change of clothes in the car so that he could have the option of switching things up depending on what bar we were going to. A high maintenance man is never a good thing. They need a lot of attention.
I prefer somewhere in the middle. Someone who wants to look good and is well groomed but casual... and definitely not too pretentious, vain or fussy about it. And someone who can rock whatever look he has going on for the whole night without needed an emergency spare-outfit or vanity kit in the car.
Insert a finger so that it's curved slightly upward (towards the belly) and apply gentle pressure to the vaginal wall... around 2 inches inside you will notice a rougher, slightly swollen area that feels a bit spongey (around the size of a quarter). When you apply pressure, you will definitely feel pleasurable sensations. Just stimulate and enjoy. Two fingers are probably better than one, but if you are a virgin, just try with one finger and use some lube.
