D is for all the dirty things that you whisper into my ear
A is for my ass cause you know I love to take it in the rear
M is for those urgent moans as you fuck me from behind
O is for the orgasmic triggers your tongue will always find
N is for all the nasty fantasies and desires that we share
X is for the X-rated kinks that only you and I would dare
My first question is... how long is 'long'?
Do you need to break it into two parts? All of my stories are routinely in the 8,500-10,000 word range on this site. I think you're more likely to lose readers if you don't have a strong sex scene somewhere in the first chapter of the story unless you are an exceptional writer. How long will your overall story be? More than 10,000 words? If it's shorter than that, then I'd post the whole thing as a single story.
All of my stories have plot and character development before the sex scenes. If you can hold the readers attention with your writing and storyline while you're doing the initial 'teasing' and 'slow burning flirtation' between the characters, then most will be happy to stay with the story for the big "climax" scene. Or the impatient ones can always skip ahead, but at least you have it contained in a single story rather than leaving readers on the hook at the end of chapter one being disgruntled because there wasn't any sex.
To my understanding though, if you consider posting it in the "love stories" section, then sex isn't even required, so you can always work with it that way if the category fits.
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If you had a bad experience with it, I can see why you'd be hesitant to try it again. Unless you're relaxed and well lubed and with a considerate partner, it has the potential to be painful or uncomfortable. Having said that, I've only had one 'negative' experience while having anal where it was just too much for me (and that was a lube issue). Every other time, I've really loved it and often initiated it! Once you’re relaxed and things are in progress, I’m almost always begging for it harder. It’s a great feeling… very different to vaginal sex. A little more primal, submissive and dirtier. It’s a shame when girls have a bad experience and get turned off permanently. It’s not like you want to order it off the menu every time you have sex, but it just opens up a different kind of sexual connection and pleasure-source for you to explore.
But like every other sexual activity, your first experience often affects your desire to try it again. If the first time you ever gave a blowjob, you had a guy grabbing you by the ears and ramming himself down your throat, you’d probably be a little wary about going down on a guy again. I see anal as pretty much the same way. An open attitude, a relaxed physical state where you’re super turned on and lubed and a partner who knows what he’s doing, and it can become a very intensely erotic experience that you’ll definitely want to be trying again.
My only advice would be to experiment with yourself through anal play and see if you enjoy it using your own fingers or a small toy without any man involved in the situation. You might enjoy it if you’re setting your own pace. But of course, don’t do it to ‘please your man’, do it because you’re curious and want to experience something new.
I think the forbidden aspect was a bit of a fetish for me in my early twenties. Either that, or I just happened to be attracted to and connecting with men that were married. I've had sex with three... (two at the same time actually... what can I say? I was having a slutty summer). The first two I had somewhat of an emotional connection to as well, while the third was obviously just a one-time only threesome 'prop'. A one night stand is one thing, but that often inevitably leads to more, and once emotions get involved, it can trainwreck pretty quickly. After my "summer of married men", I decided I no longer wanted to be involved with complicating other people's lives nor my own. There were no children involved in any of those marriages (a line that even I refused to cross) but overall I'm just over the whole concept of it as offering any kind of elicit thrill and have rejected married men ever since. There are better ways to explore my kinks than playing second string to a man's libido.
Diane Lane in Unfaithful (the stairwell scene) is incredibly hot and intense.
I liked Jessica Alba's sex scenes in The Killer Inside Me as well.
I like both... it really depends on my mood.
"Smooth and sensual" sex requires a certain level of intimacy though. I need to feel some kind of emotional connection with someone to enjoy that.
This would actually be an interesting question for guys to answer as well.
Human emotions are difficult if not impossible to control completely. Everyone seems to go into these things with different expectations. That's why swapping and threesomes can be dicey for an established couple.
Do you tend to have recurring themes (or characters) in all your erotic stories?
Most of my stories have the recurring theme of the “good girl gone bad” due to some circumstance that overwhelms her inhibitions and causes her to indulge her inner slut. I like the transformation of a woman being liberated from the social pressures and expectations of what a ‘good girl’ is supposed to be and giving into her darkest fantasies. I think a lot of women are afraid of their sexuality and where they would ultimately let themselves go if they removed their self-imposed boundaries and limitations, and I like to play with that theme.
Do you prefer writing stroke fiction or do you aspire to creating high end and complex literary tales?
I’m somewhere in between. I write to entertain the mind as well to drain the balls and soak the panties.
Does your style involve the use of humour, quirkiness, or tongue-in-cheek satire?
I’ve added some humour to my Sex Rehab series to break up the intensity that frames the sex scenes, but it’s not my usual style otherwise.
Do you relish the dirty details or do you prefer to leave more to the imagination during sex scenes?
I write relentlessly explicit, no holds barred very dirty sex scenes. I’m not afraid to get into the details or draw the scene out or write about ‘ ’ sex practices. I love to turn the reader on by pulling them out of their comfort zone sometimes.
Do you prefer writing stories with romance and intimacy?
My stories tend to be more about raw intimacy and connections or just dirty hardcore sex. The scenes are not traditionally “romantic” but if I’m writing about a male and female coupled pairing, there is always an element of a lustful connection between them. The dirty talk isn’t just a random throwaway plot device. I like the couple to be connecting with each other on a primal yet intimate level, both physically and verbally.
Do you mainly write true-life tales from your sexual past?
There’s an element of reality with many of the stories I write, whether it’s the ‘characters’, the style of sex scene, the location, or the connections. I’m always drawing from real life, and blending it with a fantasy element.
I actually know an older woman who told me that for the last 10 years of her marriage, she would go to sleep in her makeup every night and then set her alarm (even on weekends) to wake up an hour before her husband so that she could wash her face and redo her makeup and then crawl back into bed and pretend that she just 'woke up that way'. I couldn't believe her dedication to this, since she seemed like she would have been perfectly attractive even without the makeup. How's that for high maintenance?
And that's to say nothing of the women who have professionally 'tattooed' their makeup on so that they always look like they are wearing perfect eyeliner and lipstick.
Some women will go to crazy lengths...
It's actually one of my favourite things on my tongue. Even if it ends up on my hand as I'm stroking him, I have to lick my fingers. I love it, especially when it makes the head of his cock all slippery soft.
I can't imagine someone 'disliking' it. Not sure what you were getting at with the question?
