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So only a tiny minority of men if any at all, would be likely to masturbate while viewing a site like this one.
Methinks you are wrong...
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Dancing_Doll
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Methinks you are wrong...
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Mmmm... old men on bicycles who are willing to spoil me with a cup of Nescafe?
Damn, that's a hard one to resist.
He must be quite the Don Juan Valdez.
Damn, that's a hard one to resist.
He must be quite the Don Juan Valdez.
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Quote by Magical_felixI'm sure there are lots of guys out there like you that don't like the taste of their own cum but are open to swallowing another man's cum.
It's sex, so it's all personal preference.
Hey look I fixed it for you.
haha... I knew you'd pick up on that one!
Alpha Blonde
Quote by stephanie
Hey Felix!!!!
I can only be honest, and re-reading my post I understand that I should probably submit to immediate therapy!
But I've answered honestly as I always endeavour to do.....
Shrink: "So you won't taste your own come but you're quite happy to taste someone else's....."
Me: "Yes and I can't explain it and I don't need to since it doesn't bother me a jot!!!!"
xx SF
(Real Men???!!!! I write as Stephanie, for Christ's sake!!!!! Oh My God I'm getting concerned now.......)
I'm sure there are lots of guys out there like you and Felix that don't like the taste of their own cum but are open to swallowing another man's cum.
It's sex, so it's all personal preference.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Magical_felix
Because spitting it out is way un-sexy.
Cumming on a women is sexy and her swallowing is sexy. Spitting is sorta gross and doesn't spitting make the cum taste linger in your mouths longer?
What if she keeps it in her mouth and then kisses you with a mouthful of cum so that you can share? That can be very sexy...
PS. I already know your reaction to this 007, so I'm just yanking your chain.
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When you say "I am done " wcu.....what do you mean?
It means that she dumped his ass...
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I'm not really into the formal 'over the knee' spanking fetish, but I'd be game for it if it turned my partner on or if was part of an occasional role-play. It's not something I'd crave regularly though.
I definitely do love a few hard slaps to the ass if I'm being fucked from behind and/or during anal but I kind of see that as different from the 'true spanking fetish' that a lot of people have.
I definitely do love a few hard slaps to the ass if I'm being fucked from behind and/or during anal but I kind of see that as different from the 'true spanking fetish' that a lot of people have.
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I don't demand or expect anything, but it's definitely encouraged... unless it's a hot quickie or you're doing some kind of role-play situation where it's not part of the game.
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Quote by DamonX
I think anyone that has been rimmed knows how great it feels. How many of you girls return the favour?
Well.... you obviously already know my answer to this question...
Edit. wow, this is an old thread!
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Quote by spriteQuote by DamonX
I think anyone that has been rimmed knows how great it feels. How many of you girls return the favour?
i actually enjoy giving more then recieving, when it comes to rimming... i'm funny about my bottom - unless i'm a little high, or drunk, i usually shy away from getting analized
Then clearly you need to get drunk or high more often!
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the Lelo Soraya looks good, but a little pricey. It is on my wish list though, and if it as good as you say it is I just might invest in it.
Last weekend, I had 12 well spaced and full-blown orgasms with the Soraya in one day, with each being just as powerful as the first. Of course, I don't usually masturbate all day (this was more of a project with a purpose... don't ask.. LOL) but anyway, it's just to let you know how impressive this vibe is. I can't think of another vibe in my toy-box that could do the same. And yes, this one definitely is way pricey but it's a good one to consider if you're looking to make an investment in one really brilliant toy.
Alpha Blonde
If she's in England, try this service, or one similar to it. They will also deliver prescriptions if mobility is an issue.
http://doctorcall.co.uk/doctorcall-services/visiting-doctor.html
http://doctorcall.co.uk/doctorcall-services/visiting-doctor.html
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The hitachi magic wand is like a 5-pound club with a massive vibrating head. I know a lot of women rave about this thing, but I think it's more popular because people feel like they can buy it and store it in their house without having to admit that it's being used as a sex toy. I see nothing erotic about it and when I've held it buzzing in my hand, I think the size of it will just create an overall buzz that doesn't allow much room for variation or hitting 'just the right spot'. That might be why you're at that middle-grade orgasm level, instead of being able to hit those peaks.
Most people will know from my posts that I'm a bit of a sex toy slut, and if I could only have one, there is no doubt the Lelo Soraya would come out as the best thing I've ever bought. It's the first time I've used a toy where I can cum in literally seconds, and actually keep myself at that high orgasmic pitch for as long as I want. Most of the time, I have to pull it away because it's just such an over the top screaming orgasm that the sensations just become too intense after a while. There are many settings you can use on this and it's waterproof... plus the clit arm is very bendable so you can use it just as a clit toy or the combination of the dual-armed internal/external vibrator. And it's rechargeable like an ipod, so no need to worry about wasting batteries.
I think maybe you just need a new toy that gives you more options and hits the right spots....
Most people will know from my posts that I'm a bit of a sex toy slut, and if I could only have one, there is no doubt the Lelo Soraya would come out as the best thing I've ever bought. It's the first time I've used a toy where I can cum in literally seconds, and actually keep myself at that high orgasmic pitch for as long as I want. Most of the time, I have to pull it away because it's just such an over the top screaming orgasm that the sensations just become too intense after a while. There are many settings you can use on this and it's waterproof... plus the clit arm is very bendable so you can use it just as a clit toy or the combination of the dual-armed internal/external vibrator. And it's rechargeable like an ipod, so no need to worry about wasting batteries.
I think maybe you just need a new toy that gives you more options and hits the right spots....
Alpha Blonde
There's probably a doctor house-call service in her area. That way the doctor can visit her at home and she can avoid the hospital.
She needs a doctor who can write her a script for an anti-inflammatory like Naproxen and probably some Tylenol 3 with codeine for the pain. Likely, with rest and meds this is something that may take 3-4 weeks to heal completely. Unless it's something more serious like a slipped disc herniation in which case, she will definitely need proper medical intervention anyway.
Continue on with some kind of "Icy Hot" menthol rub and bath soaks when possible.
There are no herbal cures that will work beyond some kind of placebo effect. Keeping hydrated is important, and in terms of non-medical suggestions, that's the only one that I can think of that has any real value.
She needs the real drugs... call something like "Med Visit" and get those prescriptions sooner than later.
She needs a doctor who can write her a script for an anti-inflammatory like Naproxen and probably some Tylenol 3 with codeine for the pain. Likely, with rest and meds this is something that may take 3-4 weeks to heal completely. Unless it's something more serious like a slipped disc herniation in which case, she will definitely need proper medical intervention anyway.
Continue on with some kind of "Icy Hot" menthol rub and bath soaks when possible.
There are no herbal cures that will work beyond some kind of placebo effect. Keeping hydrated is important, and in terms of non-medical suggestions, that's the only one that I can think of that has any real value.
She needs the real drugs... call something like "Med Visit" and get those prescriptions sooner than later.
Alpha Blonde
I think some of the most entertaining sex scenes ever was Ben Stiller and Malin Akerman in "The Heartbreak Kid". They were hilarious...
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MMonroe has it right... always make sure your fingers are gently curved... not ram-rod straight and stiff. ie. most of the porn you watch is way wrong with technique.
A bad fingering technique is a total mood-killer. Watch to see that she is moving against your fingers enthusiastically and not squirming to move away from your fingers. When I was younger I endured some bad technique because I didn't want to ruin the moment by telling him that he was doing it all wrong. I had only hoped that my reactions to his persistent stiff-fingered warp-speed stabbing would have give him the clue that his technique sucked (which almost never worked). I've learned to be a lot less subtle as I gained more sexual experience.
So keep the fingers curved (towards the belly, not the back), concentrate on G-spot stimulation/massage more than aggressive 'in and out', and pay attention to how her body reacts to you.
Happy fingering...
A bad fingering technique is a total mood-killer. Watch to see that she is moving against your fingers enthusiastically and not squirming to move away from your fingers. When I was younger I endured some bad technique because I didn't want to ruin the moment by telling him that he was doing it all wrong. I had only hoped that my reactions to his persistent stiff-fingered warp-speed stabbing would have give him the clue that his technique sucked (which almost never worked). I've learned to be a lot less subtle as I gained more sexual experience.
So keep the fingers curved (towards the belly, not the back), concentrate on G-spot stimulation/massage more than aggressive 'in and out', and pay attention to how her body reacts to you.
Happy fingering...
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Quote by obscuraQuote by Dancing_Doll
Rolled up or cuffed jeans make me cringe. It makes women look exceptionally dumpy, and makes the jeans look cheap. This trend needs to end.
Oh.. What about on men? And what if the jeans were purple?
Mmmm.... purple jeans. I'll have to make an exception. It's impossible for them not to look devastatingly sexy.
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My first toy was the pocket rocket, otherwise known as the 'gateway-drug' of sex toys. You start small with this one, and next thing you know, you are a bonafide sex-toy junkie. Not that there is anything wrong with this kind of addiction, in my opinion. 
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Yeah, I'm a bananas and chocolate milk kind of hangover girl myself.
But if it's been a really intense party night, I'm lucky if I can hold down water.
I tried vegemite once when I was in Australia and it was a traumatic experience, even without the morning-after spins.
But if it's been a really intense party night, I'm lucky if I can hold down water.
I tried vegemite once when I was in Australia and it was a traumatic experience, even without the morning-after spins.
Alpha Blonde
Mmmm.... Good to know! With my next hangover, I'm gonna go straight for the vegemite, garlic and oysters! 
Alpha Blonde
Unless he has a cuck fantasy (which is possible, based on his reaction to reading about your recent sex-ploits), then your relationship might be done.
Maybe give him a little more time to return your call. Maybe he is sleeping after all the sex you guys had. Or maybe he's dialling every number in his little black book to get back at you.
Hard to say....
Just chill out and wait for him to contact you. If you don't hear from him by Sunday, then a long apologetic voicemail or email along the lines of "omg, I didn't know what I was doing when I had that college orgy last weekend" might be in order.
Maybe give him a little more time to return your call. Maybe he is sleeping after all the sex you guys had. Or maybe he's dialling every number in his little black book to get back at you.
Hard to say....
Just chill out and wait for him to contact you. If you don't hear from him by Sunday, then a long apologetic voicemail or email along the lines of "omg, I didn't know what I was doing when I had that college orgy last weekend" might be in order.
Alpha Blonde
Rolled up or cuffed jeans make me cringe. It makes women look exceptionally dumpy, and makes the jeans look cheap. This trend needs to end.
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Happy Birthday DM... hope you have many dirty martinis and many dirty memories to celebrate!
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Hmmm... did he tell you that you were all he needed too, or were you assuming this based on how you were feeling and how well you felt that you were connecting.
I know instant connections happen, but just noticing on your profile that you've only been on Lush for two weeks, it might be a little early to start thinking about exclusivity when it comes to a cyber-lover? Maybe he just enjoys multiple-account chatting, but if you notice that these accounts were only set up since you started talking to him, chances are he's feeling a little smothered.
Maybe take a step back and let him pursue you more... Or you can just ask him about the other accounts. Keep in mind that if these suspected accounts aren't actually him, you will basically start appearing stalkerish.
My vote goes for scaling things back and giving him the benefit of the doubt for whatever he's wanting to do online and let him set the pace of how things go between you for the next little while.
I know instant connections happen, but just noticing on your profile that you've only been on Lush for two weeks, it might be a little early to start thinking about exclusivity when it comes to a cyber-lover? Maybe he just enjoys multiple-account chatting, but if you notice that these accounts were only set up since you started talking to him, chances are he's feeling a little smothered.
Maybe take a step back and let him pursue you more... Or you can just ask him about the other accounts. Keep in mind that if these suspected accounts aren't actually him, you will basically start appearing stalkerish.
My vote goes for scaling things back and giving him the benefit of the doubt for whatever he's wanting to do online and let him set the pace of how things go between you for the next little while.
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I admire and am impressed with the way the Japanese are handling the aftermath despite the concerns about the potential nuclear meltdown. Considering what has happened, everyone is working together for the greater good of survival, politely standing in line for water and basic food supplies. The culture really asserts a level or order and calm and community.
I strongly suspect that if the same earthquake/tsunami disaster hit North America, the aftermath would not quite be as orderly, and in fact would probably escalate into total anarchy, looting and violence (if we look at Katrina as a kind of preview). Another reason to hope (possibly in vain) that the same kind of natural disaster doesn't hit this continent.
I strongly suspect that if the same earthquake/tsunami disaster hit North America, the aftermath would not quite be as orderly, and in fact would probably escalate into total anarchy, looting and violence (if we look at Katrina as a kind of preview). Another reason to hope (possibly in vain) that the same kind of natural disaster doesn't hit this continent.
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I guess it depends on how you have your profile set up. If it implies that you're only here to read/write and enjoy a bit of light online socializing, then I don't see anything wrong with it. I can see how he might have an issue with a more sexually suggestive profile. I think the thing S.O.'s tend to fear is more of the emotional connections and ties that can develop (more so than the cybering itself). I can somewhat understand his fears, although in actuality you're just as likely to connect with someone on facebook or myspace if we're talking about the online environment. The key is understanding how strong/secure your relationship is. If it's a new, or loosely committed relationship or you're going through some rough patches, then he's probably a little wary of what you're doing. Then again, do you really want to feed the insecurity by caving to his demands, because I'm sure this won't be the only factor he tries to control. The next thing you know he's telling you that you aren't allowed to go out on girl's nights or is checking your cell phone for evidence of betrayal. A secure relationship should be able to withstand a little Lushing provided that you're transparent about why you're here and what you're looking for.
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Quote by Freshyoungmeat1Quote by Dancing_Doll
My first question is... how long is 'long'?
Do you need to break it into two parts? All of my stories are routinely in the 8,500-10,000 word range on this site. I think you're more likely to lose readers if you don't have a strong sex scene somewhere in the first chapter of the story unless you are an exceptional writer. How long will your overall story be? More than 10,000 words? If it's shorter than that, then I'd post the whole thing as a single story.
All of my stories have plot and character development before the sex scenes. If you can hold the readers attention with your writing and storyline while you're doing the initial 'teasing' and 'slow burning flirtation' between the characters, then most will be happy to stay with the story for the big "climax" scene. Or the impatient ones can always skip ahead, but at least you have it contained in a single story rather than leaving readers on the hook at the end of chapter one being disgruntled because there wasn't any sex.
To my understanding though, if you consider posting it in the "love stories" section, then sex isn't even required, so you can always work with it that way if the category fits.
Thank you so much! I will most likely be putting it into the love stories, so far it's maybe 1,500 to 2,500 words. There will definitely be oral sex for sure and I want to take this story into a series. Your advice really helped! Thank you thank you thank you!
You're very welcome Danielle! Good luck with the story! Sounds like a good one if you're taking this kind of time to strategize and plan how to make it the best it can be. I always find that stories written about people in your life that you have that real connection with tend to have an added level of natural intensity, so I'm sure that it will be great.
