I used to know a guy that literally deep fried everything... he got pretty creative with it.
I still have to question the person that came up with deep fried butter though... ugh!
Leggings... (ugly).
BabyDoll Dresses... (they make everyone look pregnant and uniformly unflattering).
Men who wear belts with everything and always tuck in their shirts... (makes one look uptight... when you're dressing casual, keep it casual).
Overly tight t-shirts on guys... (yes, we get it... you work out).
Man-jewelry... (cheesey).
And pretty much anything 80's influenced (but just my opinion on that one).
Great answer SweetPenny!
Honeybee, if you're more concerned about birth control rather than protection from STDs then the pill is definitely the easiest way to go. I definitely prefer it. If it's the annoyance of remembering to take a pill, you can also go for the deepo provera 3-month shots (my friend did that and preferred it because she didn't have to think about it afterwards).
You're not getting any STD protection unless you're using a condom though, so just make sure you know your partner and feel comfortable with those risks etc.
If you're done with having kids, and you hate the idea of the hormones in birth control pill, then I'd go for the IUD.
I will 100% do this one day, even if we do it, watch it a few times and erase all the evidence.
Yes, I know it's risky, but it's just too much of a turn-on to not try at least once...
And it's always been a fantasy of mine...
I was 19...away from home and in university... curiosity got the better of me, and it seemed like the time to experiment. Like LadyX, it has never been an emotional thing for me. In fact, when I sense emotions are involved I turn and ran the other way... and did this on a few occasions with the girls that spiced up my university years... I did have quite a bit of fun though... My first was a cute blonde I met at a house party. She had a fight with her boyfriend that night and I was consoling her even though we were basically strangers (but we were both drunk and I make friends easily... lol). Anyway, we were in an upstairs bathroom and things just happened naturally. It was definitely not her first time, and I liked that she was the aggressor.
I recently came across a profile where a guy had actually used his dick for his background wall-paper. I mean... really?
I guess we all come to Lush for different reasons, but surely there is more to a guy than his dick. I don't like to see it as an avatar. If someone wants to add a dick-pic to his image gallery, then more power to him. If your image gallery is 20 pics of your dick at various angles and close-ups, then you might want to reconsider the image you are projecting.
To me there are definite assumptions made about a guy whose sole focus is to show off his genitals, and prefers to represent himself that way to strangers. And to be honest, I typically reject friend requests on the basis of that.
Hmm... at different points I'm a little bit of all versions of "non-quiet"...
I have had noise complaints at a hotel before and once from my condo neighbour... So I can definitely get pretty vocally enthusiastic during really hot sex.
Definitely not a yelling/shrieking type though. I've watched porn that I've had to mute before because I find the woman's vocal antics too annoying.
Conversely I can also be completely silent with my orgasm if I'm doing it in public and need to be discreet.
It depends on your definition of "older"... I think when the age difference hits the 20+ mark, the creepy factor starts to emerge.
Society pretty much casts the ideal sexualized girl as between 18-25 if we look at magazines or porn, so I can appreciate much older guys will have a certain lust for the younger girls. I'm sure there are some out there, that enjoy a significantly older guy, but I don't think it's the norm... especially if you're talking about girls in their early twenties.
If you're a 60 year old guy crushing on a 40 year old woman, it doesn't seem to be as much of an issue compared to lusting for that hot 19 year old.
Yes, but they are set to 'private' and heavily cropped, discreetly posed, or "artworked" to keep them vague.