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Dancing_Doll
Over 90 days ago
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When I was very young and 9 months pregnant with my first child, I found out that my man had been with my best friend. I was upset and wanted to kill her at a party one night. A bunch of friends pulled me away and out of the house and that was the end of it. It was over between me and the man as soon as I herd about their union but, a years later, the woman asked again that I forgive her and I did. Forgave him too -after he was dead. Does that count?

Since then, there's been one other time where I found myself in a situation where I could of fought for a man. Instead I wished them wellness and all the happiness they could muster. : )


Wow, what a terrible story!

It's true that some bitches don't know their boundaries... even when they claim to be your friend. Kudos to you for being able to forgive her. I know I wouldn't be able to do it.
I used to know a guy that literally deep fried everything... he got pretty creative with it.

I still have to question the person that came up with deep fried butter though... ugh!
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Oh, I have to stand up for the Uggs... I love them. The are the most comfortable things in the world. But you have to wear them right... And they do look best with bare legs...




comfortable or not... absolutely hideous... i had a no ugg clause in my dating policy... if she owned a pair she was instantly out...


Better not move to SoCal then... or you'll condemn yourself to a lifetime of masturbation...


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Is this what people are talking about when they mention leggings? Cause I think this look is pretty hot.





No, those are tights... and yeah they're hot...


These are leggings... And with lace running down the sides, it makes it all extra hideous...


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These boots people wear, they look so ugly when you see someone from behind and there feet are just caving in.


Oh, I have to stand up for the Uggs... I love them. The are the most comfortable things in the world. But you have to wear them right... And they do look best with bare legs...


Leggings... (ugly).

BabyDoll Dresses... (they make everyone look pregnant and uniformly unflattering).

Men who wear belts with everything and always tuck in their shirts... (makes one look uptight... when you're dressing casual, keep it casual).

Overly tight t-shirts on guys... (yes, we get it... you work out).

Man-jewelry... (cheesey).

And pretty much anything 80's influenced (but just my opinion on that one).
No need to fight. Girls know when they are outmatched...

Joking!

Actually, fights between girls occur when a guy is playing both sides... either due to a need for attention, or just honest indecision.

I wouldn't want to be with a guy if fighting off another girl was required to be with him. He should want to be with me, irrespective of the 'other girl'. If he's playing games, I'll walk. In my experience he usually follows.

If he doesn't, then it's not someone I'd want to be with anyway... problem solved.
Great answer SweetPenny!

Honeybee, if you're more concerned about birth control rather than protection from STDs then the pill is definitely the easiest way to go. I definitely prefer it. If it's the annoyance of remembering to take a pill, you can also go for the deepo provera 3-month shots (my friend did that and preferred it because she didn't have to think about it afterwards).

You're not getting any STD protection unless you're using a condom though, so just make sure you know your partner and feel comfortable with those risks etc.

If you're done with having kids, and you hate the idea of the hormones in birth control pill, then I'd go for the IUD.
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I have a few secret crushes on Lush whom I wouldn't mind meeting up for some casual sex lmao


Me too!



Time to make your move ladies!


yeah why not I'm a movin Doll.............whoosh!


Woohoo! Go Honeybee!
Good luck Lisa!

May you have an easy and speedy delivery!

Congratulations to you and your family...
When I first 'size a man up' on a physical level... I go for face first, chest/torso second. For me, face will always take precedence over the body 100% of the time.

Having said that, I do love a 'classic V cut', defined but athletic/lean body. I am actually turned off by overly-bulky or steroid bods.

After that, people can start getting picky with things like 'concave dips' or exact shaping or abs. I've never dated a guy just because he had a great body. There's a lot more to it than that. An athletic build will get my attention first and foremost but my attention can drop pretty quickly if that's all he has going for him. Conversely, once I'm attracted to who he is, I'm not going to dump someone because of some perceived physical imperfection.

This is all within reason, of course. For me, moobs would be hard to overlook... just being honest.
I will 100% do this one day, even if we do it, watch it a few times and erase all the evidence.

Yes, I know it's risky, but it's just too much of a turn-on to not try at least once...

And it's always been a fantasy of mine...
I was 19...away from home and in university... curiosity got the better of me, and it seemed like the time to experiment. Like LadyX, it has never been an emotional thing for me. In fact, when I sense emotions are involved I turn and ran the other way... and did this on a few occasions with the girls that spiced up my university years... I did have quite a bit of fun though... My first was a cute blonde I met at a house party. She had a fight with her boyfriend that night and I was consoling her even though we were basically strangers (but we were both drunk and I make friends easily... lol). Anyway, we were in an upstairs bathroom and things just happened naturally. It was definitely not her first time, and I liked that she was the aggressor.
As Jackknife said, it might be all rubbish. I'm on the fence with astrology as to its accuracy, but I definitely don't believe in putting any weight on "this star sign is a perfect match for that star sign". Even in the realm of astrology, star signs paint a pretty broad brush stroke.

For those interested, here's a link to a cool site (the best I've seen) that will give you a free short portrait based on all aspects of your astrology chart (sun, moon, ascendent, and where all the stars were aligned at the exact time of your birth). You do have to use your time of birth and location to get an "accurate" report. You can also get free reports for "relationships" and "love sex and flirtation" if you know the details of your partners birth data.

http://www.astro.com/cgi/atxgen.cgi?btyp=apx

I just look at astrology as a "fun thing"... I wouldn't make any life or relationship decisions based on it. Having said that, I do see some interesting accuracies when you look at someone's chart as a whole...
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I totally agree with this. I have some purell in my car, but I don't obsess over sanitizing everything. I think society has gotten germ-obsessed in recent years. Our immune system is meant to handle a certain degree of bacteria. Unless you have a compromised immune system or special health issues, then obeying the basics of washing your hands with soap and water when necessary should be just fine. I've always been that way and I'm rarely sick. You can't live your life in a bubble.



This works...until you have kids. And they go to school and bring home every single illness. If I get sick, then there's no one to take care of them.


I have heard that kids who go to daycare get sick more often but that it builds a more robust immune system. Kind of like how doctors are around sick people all day but don't get sick constantly because their immune system has become stronger over time.

But yeah, I agree in theory. Pretty much everyone I know who has young kids is constantly dealing with one thing or another.
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I think we're too sterile, and it's making our immune systems weaker. Children these days seem terrified to play in the mud even, overprotective parents are largely to blame.



I totally agree with this. I have some purell in my car, but I don't obsess over sanitizing everything. I think society has gotten germ-obsessed in recent years. Our immune system is meant to handle a certain degree of bacteria. Unless you have a compromised immune system or special health issues, then obeying the basics of washing your hands with soap and water when necessary should be just fine. I've always been that way and I'm rarely sick. You can't live your life in a bubble.
Conceptually this is one of my favourite music videos... and just a haunting song with beautiful lyrics.

I recently came across a profile where a guy had actually used his dick for his background wall-paper. I mean... really?

I guess we all come to Lush for different reasons, but surely there is more to a guy than his dick. I don't like to see it as an avatar. If someone wants to add a dick-pic to his image gallery, then more power to him. If your image gallery is 20 pics of your dick at various angles and close-ups, then you might want to reconsider the image you are projecting.

To me there are definite assumptions made about a guy whose sole focus is to show off his genitals, and prefers to represent himself that way to strangers. And to be honest, I typically reject friend requests on the basis of that.
Hmm... at different points I'm a little bit of all versions of "non-quiet"...

I have had noise complaints at a hotel before and once from my condo neighbour... So I can definitely get pretty vocally enthusiastic during really hot sex.

Definitely not a yelling/shrieking type though. I've watched porn that I've had to mute before because I find the woman's vocal antics too annoying.

Conversely I can also be completely silent with my orgasm if I'm doing it in public and need to be discreet.
It depends on your definition of "older"... I think when the age difference hits the 20+ mark, the creepy factor starts to emerge.

Society pretty much casts the ideal sexualized girl as between 18-25 if we look at magazines or porn, so I can appreciate much older guys will have a certain lust for the younger girls. I'm sure there are some out there, that enjoy a significantly older guy, but I don't think it's the norm... especially if you're talking about girls in their early twenties.

If you're a 60 year old guy crushing on a 40 year old woman, it doesn't seem to be as much of an issue compared to lusting for that hot 19 year old.
I think everyone takes notice of, and looks at an attractive female or male... the key is to keep it discreet when you are with your partner, otherwise it's just disrespectful... Well, unless you are both scouting to add a third for a threesome!

The rest of the time, people should keep it discreet. I see women strolling with these kinds of guys all the time, and I feel sorry for them and for the whole situation in general. The female will notice the hot girl first, as though she's a moving target or husband-trap. She'll get that uncomfortable look in her eye, dart a glance at her man who by that time has moved into glassy-eyed ogling. Guys that make it obvious are total jerks in my opinion. If I'm the girl he's looking at, I'll usually scowl back. I just think it's tacky if he's making his woman feel uncomfortable.

I was with a guy like this for a while. He was an insecure narcissist, and needed a lot of attention. Guys like this don't change. And usually this kind of behaviour is just the tip of the iceberg. Who knows what his behaviour is like when you're not around...

And even if you have an 'open relationship', there are still rules of respect to follow, in my opinion.
Yes, but they are set to 'private' and heavily cropped, discreetly posed, or "artworked" to keep them vague.