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Quote by Paulfromma
Well, I'm not and never really been attracted to "girls". Young women yes. Middle aged women yes. Older women yes. Come on, if you're on this site you're old enough to think of yourself as a man. Why do you think of a sexually active or a potentially active female as a girl? They are women and I thank god for placing them here with us.
I don't think she means girls in the sense that you do. By girls, I'm sure she means those possessing a vagina, and not an age reference. I could be wrong. But I'm probably not.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I know I'm not a guy, but I wanted to chime in because I myself happen to be 5'10. I like heels, and even the shortest pair can put me over 6 feet, so I know what you're going through. Being taller than the average female and taller than most males is annoying. I used to be so self conscious about it. I even avoided hair styles that required my hair being piled on top of my head. But for the most part, guys get over that. I've never been rejected, per se, because of my height. I used to try to stick guys taller than me, but that's rather shallow and self-defeating, I think. it just puts limits on who I can and can't date. Being approached by a guy shorter than me is an excellent indicator of confidence.
Guys aren't used to their women being at eye-level or above unless they're wearing heels, so it takes them just a split second to accept it. Men who love women in general shouldn't be intimidated by a little extra height. It doesn't change your body shape. It doesn't alter your features, at least not drastically. If guys like big boobs and you're tall with big boobs, it shouldn't diminish the fact that your boobs are big. If guys want a nice ass and you're tall with a nice ass, being tall doesn't take away from that. Nor does it take away from your overall beauty.
Putting all that aside, guys will be attracted to your confidence and how you carry that height of yours. Men find that quite sexy. Do what makes you feel beautiful, and guys will have no choice but to take notice, and in a good way.
But overall, most guys I know wouldn't opt out of having sex with a girl because of her height. And as cheesy as it sounds, if he does, he's really doing you a favor. It takes a really secure guy to date a taller female, and if not, you're better off.
Guys aren't used to their women being at eye-level or above unless they're wearing heels, so it takes them just a split second to accept it. Men who love women in general shouldn't be intimidated by a little extra height. It doesn't change your body shape. It doesn't alter your features, at least not drastically. If guys like big boobs and you're tall with big boobs, it shouldn't diminish the fact that your boobs are big. If guys want a nice ass and you're tall with a nice ass, being tall doesn't take away from that. Nor does it take away from your overall beauty.
Putting all that aside, guys will be attracted to your confidence and how you carry that height of yours. Men find that quite sexy. Do what makes you feel beautiful, and guys will have no choice but to take notice, and in a good way.
But overall, most guys I know wouldn't opt out of having sex with a girl because of her height. And as cheesy as it sounds, if he does, he's really doing you a favor. It takes a really secure guy to date a taller female, and if not, you're better off.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
You guys should try a position called the Raging Bull.
You get your lady on all fours and you slowly enter her from behind. Wrap your arms around her belly and pull her really close to you, holding her back tightly against your chest. Then lean forward and whisper another woman's name in her ear, and see if you can hold on for longer than 30 seconds.
You get your lady on all fours and you slowly enter her from behind. Wrap your arms around her belly and pull her really close to you, holding her back tightly against your chest. Then lean forward and whisper another woman's name in her ear, and see if you can hold on for longer than 30 seconds.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by CurlyGirly
All I can say is that you definitely got the MOJO going on!!!!
First, you've got the virgin nephew who was helped out by a friend of yours who you went back and fucked. Virgin Nephew thread
Next, you've got the horny neighbor whose husband travels a lot for work and may or may not be having sex with men while he's out of town on business. Horny Unsatisfied Neighbor thread
Now, you're sticking it to a friend's niece in a trailer while he's out for a few hours.
You've got women throwing themselves at you left and right. Kudos! You're leading a Porn's Star's life. I do hope you're making these into stories for Lush. "The Adventures of Jim4Pleasure" has a nice ring to it!!
I knew his posting style seemed familiar. But for the record, I don't think anyone believed this...or any of the others. I'm sure he's thinking up the next scenario as we type.
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Quote by Jack_42
I find a lot of archaic attitudes and strange generalisations in the replies you're getting especially for a site dedicated to sex, but my answer to your question would be in the form of another question. When you wake up in the morning with an erection do you feel guilty?
Why do people always make the assumption that just because this is a 'site dedicated to sex', morals are thrown out of the window? Since when does sex trump morality? Sure, sex is fun, it's exciting, you can do it without thinking or feeling. But there's a lot more to it than sticking and licking.
I'd understand this comment if the guy were asking for sex advice. But that's not the tone of the question. He's asking how does he fix a friendship with a guy whose niece he fucked (allegedly). If it had been just another girl he fucked, then this question wouldn't even exist. It was a friend. And this wasn't just a random girl. His guilt doesn't lie in the sex itself, and no one is saying it should.
Sex comes with responsibilities and consequences. Just because Lush is a 'site dedicated to sex', it doesn't mean it advocates fucking aimlessly without regard to whom it affects.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by Hasabrain2
Thank you. If my wife was disabled by cancer or an accident I would stay by her. I might glance at other women, but that would be it. However, whether I've been good to her or not, she is responsible for what she puts in her body whether it is drugs, alcohol, or junk food. as if she did drugs or alcohol.
As to the poster who suggested there was an underlying thyroid or other problem, that has been checked over twice. She is seriously low on Vitamin D, but that is because she doesn't get in the yard (and sunshine) much anymore. She used to be quite good in the garden (you make take that both ways).
I am not asking for permission to cheat, just understanding, especially from the women of the enormous expense in being legit and getting a divorce. It just doesn't seem fair that she is the one with weight problem, but if I divorce she gets the kids and the house (I won't seek custody and have the kids have to change schools).
One last thought, we bought the house with $30000 my mother gave us. Dad worked hard for his money before he passed away. . which makes it doubly painful if she gets the house.
Freedom comes at a high price. Infidelity comes at an even higher one. Either way, you're screwed financially. There's really no way around it. The best you can do is as Dancing_Doll said, save up some money and get the divorce. You can't cheat on your wife and get away with it forever.
As far as the understanding you hope for, you're not going to get it from any female here.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by Hasabrain2
Thank you. If my wife was disabled by cancer or an accident I would stay by her. I might glance at other women, but that would be it. However, whether I've been good to her or not, she is responsible for what she puts in her body whether it is drugs, alcohol, or junk food. as if she did drugs or alcohol.
As to the poster who suggested there was an underlying thyroid or other problem, that has been checked over twice. She is seriously low on Vitamin D, but that is because she doesn't get in the yard (and sunshine) much anymore. She used to be quite good in the garden (you make take that both ways).
I am not asking for permission to cheat, just understanding, especially from the women of the enormous expense in being legit and getting a divorce. It just doesn't seem fair that she is the one with weight problem, but if I divorce she gets the kids and the house (I won't seek custody and have the kids have to change schools).
One last thought, we bought the house with $30000 my mother gave us. Dad worked hard for his money before he passed away. . which makes it doubly painful if she gets the house.
Actually, your wife has a profile here, so she's seen all of this for herself. Here's her profile. Say hello to your wife.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by naughtynurse
Ha! Wait till you try begging...what you haven't heard? Use a beet in place of the ginger. Takes it to a whole different place.
I hear those who have tried it were left red faced!
I hate beets. I don't allow things I hate near my ass...or my vagina. Just a weird rule I have.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I've seen a few posts on the topic of figging, which is the art/act (any way you slice it, no pun intended) of using ginger on your sexy bits to give you a burning sensation that happens slowly over a period of time to increase sexual pleasure. Her Royal Spriteness gave us the rundown in a very educational forum post a while back. I'd link it, but that'd take patience, and searching, and I have a wedgie and I just can't be fucked about it.
Anywhore a new phenomenon known as Cigging can soon take its place. It's the same idea, but instead of ginger, you use celery. The carving is more meticulous, as you can imagine with a stalk of celery. Plus the size will be smaller, but the sensation has the same intensity of ginger but without the burn, if that makes any sense. The full article I read is Here.
To sum it up, celery and ginger are chemically similar. Celery is just a bit nicer to our senses for obvious reasons. But once their oils come in contact with our intimate parts, the sensations are inherently the same. Celery just takes a bit longer, so the anticipation factor is increased tremendously. The sensation however packs a pretty powerful punch, but the burn is not nearly as intense as that of ginger.
So I guess Cigging is for those who want to take that walk on the wild side, but aren't quite ready to embrace the art of Figging.
Anywhore a new phenomenon known as Cigging can soon take its place. It's the same idea, but instead of ginger, you use celery. The carving is more meticulous, as you can imagine with a stalk of celery. Plus the size will be smaller, but the sensation has the same intensity of ginger but without the burn, if that makes any sense. The full article I read is Here.
To sum it up, celery and ginger are chemically similar. Celery is just a bit nicer to our senses for obvious reasons. But once their oils come in contact with our intimate parts, the sensations are inherently the same. Celery just takes a bit longer, so the anticipation factor is increased tremendously. The sensation however packs a pretty powerful punch, but the burn is not nearly as intense as that of ginger.
So I guess Cigging is for those who want to take that walk on the wild side, but aren't quite ready to embrace the art of Figging.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
But dude, in all seriousness. If this is a true story and you're not just tugging on our dicks, give your friend some time to cool off. Wait a few days and talk to him. It's gonna take some time. Especially if he's living with her, obviously he cares for her a great deal. He just doesn't see her in that way. Even if she was the one that seduced you, he still won't understand. You were his friend. He expected you to walk away from the situation, not take advantage. Not saying that's what you did, but that's how he sees it.
Were you wrong for fucking your friend's niece? No. But you weren't right, either.
This is just one of those situations that only time can fix. Good luck.
Were you wrong for fucking your friend's niece? No. But you weren't right, either.
This is just one of those situations that only time can fix. Good luck.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
This would make an amazing story. Develop it a little, add details about the sex, and BOOM! You've got a hit.
As far as whether or not you did anything wrong, I saw someone receive advice on the subject about the SAME situation, except he was the guy who had his niece fucked by his friend, not the other way around. Click here for the full details.
As far as whether or not you did anything wrong, I saw someone receive advice on the subject about the SAME situation, except he was the guy who had his niece fucked by his friend, not the other way around. Click here for the full details.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
This would make an amazing story. Develop it a little, add details about the sex, and BOOM! You've got a hit.
As far as whether or not you did anything wrong, I saw someone receive advice on the subject about the SAME situation, except his friend had fucked HIS niece. Click here for the full details.
As far as whether or not you did anything wrong, I saw someone receive advice on the subject about the SAME situation, except his friend had fucked HIS niece. Click here for the full details.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by SexySophie
I know this post is directed at males but as a female, the thoughts of some guy squirting the equivalent of hot water inside me is no great turn on.
I realise the need for this form of contraception but just hope that future research doesn't unearth a can of medical worms. Just seems unnatural to me to surpress the most basic natural function a man can perform by cutting off the escape route of his sperms created initially for discharge and never intended for absorbtion continually within his body.
Well the thought of cumming on a guy or another woman should be a turnoff as well. And vice versa. The bodily fluids released when females orgasm contain no reproductive components whatsoever, but people enjoy feeling and tasting them nonetheless.
Do you swallow during a blowjob? Because if you do, the sperm just burn away when passing through your digestive tract. Nothing is absorbed. And it's not that psychological. The sensations are all the same.
And contraceptive research is exactly that. It's been around for centuries, even going so far as using the lining of sheep intestines and string as a makeshift condom. There is no can of worms to be opened, other than not making babies.
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Quote by Pennylovesu
oooooooooooo .. so ive gotta agree wiv yu all bout yer kinkz & not av my own pinion ... so I can get along wiv ya all .. ok ... wel why doncha all try & get along wiv ME 4 a change? cuz my kink is airing my view ere same as every1 else & I am intitled 2 do that ... & kink or not ... I think 2 enjoy pissin on peeps is sickkkkkkkkkkkkkkk ... thatz wat I think .... u think itz kool .... that makes 2 views ... urs and mine .... so get along wiv me & I get along wiv u ... & don't judge me cuz I think its a sickkkkk kink .... thank u ....
If you can't express an opinion without judging people, then it's best you keep it to yourself. Everyone's trying to get along with you. The people here have expressed what they like and why. They could have easily said, "Only a sickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk person would judge someone for not liking water sports!" But they've all taken it in stride. I suggest you do the same. They've been informative, expressive, and not at all judgmental. You chose not to. A simple, "No I do not like this," would have sufficed. But you took the "No, I do not like this and people who do are gross," approach. No one's asking you to agree with their kinks. But insulting them is unacceptable.
Don't throw stones, especially out of your pretty glass house. And don't insult a group of people and then back yourself into a corner and play victim when they call you on it.
