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Quote by nickatplay
Wtf do you know, overmykneenow? I think for you to pick those words out of the whole of my post shows you know very little and understand less.
I understand how the peanut gallery's response can worsen the abuse a person's going through, which is probably one of the many reasons they're reluctant to come forward about said abuse in the first place, so I'll try to be sensitive here.
Lucy came here to open up about her abuse because she felt safe enough to do so. In return, she got great advice/offers of support from those sympathetic and empathetic to her situation.
Cue you, coming in to say how you're appalled...and then to creepily (yes, it was creepy) go on about how she's so responsive to your training and how great of a sub she is and how wonderful of a dom you are. It just all seems a bit...strange. Like, what was the point? Was it to offer her support? If so, great. But how's that helping her real-life, away from the internet situation?
Am I being presumptuous? Probably. But only because you haven't presented much of anything other than self-exaltation.
So asking someone 'What the fuck do you know?' when you yourself haven't presented much is unfair. Also, words like that can be very isolating, especially in relation to someone who's publicly asking for support. 'What do these people know, anyhow? They don't know us or our situation.' Do you see where I'm going with this?
Anyway Lucy, I think you're very strong for acknowledging your situation and knowing that it's not right. That's a giant leap in the right direction, and I commend you for being strong enough to take it. I truly wish you all the best.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Thanks for the tips guys, SP in particular.
And Ash, Re the Tria system: I looked it up online and watched reviews and demos and whatnot, and it's just too mixed of a bag for me.
I'm already at a slight disadvantage because of my dark hair. I know it doesn't work on darker skin tones (the box has a 'skin chart'). I'm guessing the more melanin you have, the more it counteracts the effects of the laser.
My skin tone isn't an issue, but my dark hair might be. I've watched a few demos where the machine made a weird noise to indicate that it didn't work, and the person said the hair was probably too dark.
One demo in particular was an update after a year of proper use, give or take a couple of months and a couple of weeks, and there were no results. It got to the point where she stopped using it everywhere except under her arms, and still not much happened except pain on even the low setting. And her hair was as dark as mine. I saw another tutorial, dark hair again, and it worked perfectly for her. So again, mixed bag.
I'm skeptical about laser hair removal as it is. I'm really not that pressed for my hair to be gone, especially given the other options out there. I've heard that people who can actually get their Tria systems to work for them have great results (which should take up to 6 months). But that's like a $450 risk you're taking.
I'm a snob about a great number of things, but laser hair removal is just obnoxious to me...especially when it's the closest thing to a permanent treatment, and even still, it's not permanent. I'm probably just over thinking it, but the damage is done.
And Ash, Re the Tria system: I looked it up online and watched reviews and demos and whatnot, and it's just too mixed of a bag for me.
I'm already at a slight disadvantage because of my dark hair. I know it doesn't work on darker skin tones (the box has a 'skin chart'). I'm guessing the more melanin you have, the more it counteracts the effects of the laser.
My skin tone isn't an issue, but my dark hair might be. I've watched a few demos where the machine made a weird noise to indicate that it didn't work, and the person said the hair was probably too dark.
One demo in particular was an update after a year of proper use, give or take a couple of months and a couple of weeks, and there were no results. It got to the point where she stopped using it everywhere except under her arms, and still not much happened except pain on even the low setting. And her hair was as dark as mine. I saw another tutorial, dark hair again, and it worked perfectly for her. So again, mixed bag.
I'm skeptical about laser hair removal as it is. I'm really not that pressed for my hair to be gone, especially given the other options out there. I've heard that people who can actually get their Tria systems to work for them have great results (which should take up to 6 months). But that's like a $450 risk you're taking.
I'm a snob about a great number of things, but laser hair removal is just obnoxious to me...especially when it's the closest thing to a permanent treatment, and even still, it's not permanent. I'm probably just over thinking it, but the damage is done.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I've been looking into long-term hair removal solutions that don't involve lasers. By long-term, I mean anything that removes hair from the root so it stays away longer.
I've been into sugaring for quite some time as an alternative to waxing, but I don't always feel like making the solution required for it.
I really want something that I can just grab, switch on and go. I've looked into that No-No thing that I always see on TV, but that actually entails burning away your hair, so it's not much different from laser removal. Plus everyone says they smell their hair burning away, and that freaks me the fuck out.
I know epilating has been a thing for a while now, but it's something I've avoided because although I have a pretty decent pain tolerance, it's completely dependent on the type of pain being inflicted. An epilator involves a series of tweezers, basically that pluck out your hairs in a few seconds, but I've heard it's no worse than waxing, depending on the length of the hair.
Other things I understand about epilating is that they're electric, can be charged, and are fairly easy to clean. The downsides are that if you epilate, don't do so before a night out because they can leave the skin bumpy and splotchy, and it takes a few hours to a couple of days to clear. I've also heard that it doesn't leave the skin quite as smooth as shaving or waxing.
So, I'm torn.
Anyone have any experience with epilators?
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by DanielleX
I think explicit yes, but gratuitous no. The main thing, is that it is an integral part of the story.
Danielle x
This.
As long as it's fitting, I need every detail of the sex that's transpiring.
Also, titties.
EDIT: I really need to scroll up before commenting. This is the second time in the span of a week that I've re-commented on a post. So annoying.
But still, titties.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
For someone with an ego as huge as yours, it sure is mighty fragile.
It's beyond me how someone can look down their nose at someone while being so pathetic, whiny, and entitled.
I know who I am and what I'm about, and have no qualms making that clear to others. It's called introspection. Perhaps if you gave it a try, you'd realize that the sun doesn't rise from the crack of your ass. Then maybe you could save us all a few eye-rolls.
Make no mistake, I can and will humble the fuck out of you without a moment's hesitation, and I'll take great pleasure in doing so.
Go ahead. Try me.
It's beyond me how someone can look down their nose at someone while being so pathetic, whiny, and entitled.
I know who I am and what I'm about, and have no qualms making that clear to others. It's called introspection. Perhaps if you gave it a try, you'd realize that the sun doesn't rise from the crack of your ass. Then maybe you could save us all a few eye-rolls.
Make no mistake, I can and will humble the fuck out of you without a moment's hesitation, and I'll take great pleasure in doing so.
Go ahead. Try me.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I don't mind it, I actually enjoy it. But I don't do the back and forth thing.
If he cums in my pussy or any where else and decides to lick it up and feed it to me, that's fine. But once it goes from his mouth to mine, if it goes back into his mouth, that's where it's gonna stay.
I only do the twice-slurped cum thing if I'm sucking him off and he cums in my mouth and I spit it back on his dick and slurp it back up and swallow. It's something I enjoy.
If he cums in my pussy or any where else and decides to lick it up and feed it to me, that's fine. But once it goes from his mouth to mine, if it goes back into his mouth, that's where it's gonna stay.
I only do the twice-slurped cum thing if I'm sucking him off and he cums in my mouth and I spit it back on his dick and slurp it back up and swallow. It's something I enjoy.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
It's possible that she has such a fantasy.
Or maybe she just really enjoys the visual of you sucking a dildo that she just used to fuck herself.
Next time, just ask her what's going through her mind as she's watching you suck a dildo.
I realize this may be difficult to do while said dildo is in your mouth...but you know, afterwards.
Or maybe she just really enjoys the visual of you sucking a dildo that she just used to fuck herself.
Next time, just ask her what's going through her mind as she's watching you suck a dildo.
I realize this may be difficult to do while said dildo is in your mouth...but you know, afterwards.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by clum
I find it very interesting that this was posted in Ask The Guys. That's the problem, isn't it? We (unconsciously) let men decide what the measure of a woman is.
In fact, the transition from girl to woman should have fuck all to do with us and everything to do with that person's own experiences and personal development. Instead, too many girls think that they become a woman when a man deems them to be so, or tells them that they are.
Patriarchal bullshit, is what it is.
So don't 'Ask The Guys' what the difference between a girl and a woman is. We don't decide that. Our opinion is irrelevant.
I know the question was innocent enough, but it's indicative of a bigger problem and it would be remiss of me to sit by and let this thread fill up with arbitrary judgements that unwittingly undermine the self-esteem and self-determination of a fuck load of women.
Winner.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by GeorgiaGirl21
Why do so many men on Lush have such a sparse profile pages? I get so many guys hitting me up for a chat with a profile that looks something like this when I click on it: no profile pic (or the dreaded silhouette or some dumb avatar), no pics or just cock pics, and hundreds of hot chickie Lush friends in their friends area. Then they whisper to me in the room and want to go private right after the hi. The chat rooms are filled with this type of guy. Now here is my real question: why do guy's get so offended when I point out the obvious to them, that their profile screams, "ALL I WANT IS CYBERSEX WITH ANY BABE WHO'LL GIVE IT TO ME!" Why don't they just say that right up front in their profile and be done with it? Why act like you want to chat when you have no interest in it? Just trying to get into the head of these guys and what the hell they are thinking. Why not just be straightforward about it?
I'm not a guy but, maybe their profiles scream "ALL I WANT IS CYBERSEX WITH ANY BABE WHO'LL GIVE IT TO ME!" because that is all they want.
It can get quite frustrating for those of us who are looking for more than cheap thrills, but it's their prerogative to look for said cheap thrills. And there's definitely nothing wrong with looking for cheap thrills.
As for why they don't put it in their profiles? Perhaps they just can't be bothered to do so.
As for why they they're not more upfront about it? Maybe they like their cheap thrills to come with a side of conversation. Or perhaps 'Hey, let's fuck!' seems a bit too brazen of an approach, although I will say that I see such approaches on a regular basis. Maybe you're just running into the ones who don't like that method.
As for why they get offended when you point certain things out to them? Maybe it's all in the way those things are pointed out to them. I've never known anyone to take kindly to unsolicited advice/criticism...especially from total strangers.
Lush is for both the casual user and the more devoted user, and we all get to decide which we choose to be. We also get to decide whether or not we let that choice dictate our experience on the site.
*steps down from soapbox*
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by sprite
probably not by asking anonymous people on a sex stories website. *shrugs* my suggestion? try asking her, not us. btw, something that might help - how long ago did she give birth? pretty important info to know. having and raising a baby is pretty draining and time consuming.
What she said.
