"You look like shit!" That's the first thing my friend Jenna said when I sat down across from her in the cafe. And she was right. "Thanks," I said with a smile. "I appreciate your insight." We had agreed to meet for a drink at a local spot after exchanging a few texts. She could read between the lines and knew that I was having a hard time, so, like the good friend that she is, she invited me out for a drink. "So what's u...