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Dirty_D
Over 90 days ago
Pan Female, 47
0 miles · Ocala
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The development of "superbug" stds are incredibly scary to me. Much as I enjoy sex, they are almost enough to put me off. There is currently a drug resistant gonorrhea and others will not be far behind. I work with mrsa, vre, even cre regularly. I've seen how hard it is to battle. The idea of going through all that because of a piece of tail is completely frightening!
http://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/
http://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/
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This has come up a few times with different people in my life. Several friends (a roommate and her boyfriend, a work friend and her boyfriend, ect.) have been exposed to/acquired Herpes. Recently in conversation with a friend of mine, I found out about another person who has been exposed. In this case it was a guy she had been dating and started sleeping with. He told her about it two weeks later. Now she is very glad they used a condom. He told her he hadn't had an outbreak in awhile, but she still feels vulnerable and is going to the Dr this week.
So my question is if you were exposed by a person you were dating how would you feel? how would you approach it? Is it a deal breaker?
The previous two friends were given the disease by their long term boyfriends. One had it before, the other cheated on her. Neither left their boyfriends for it. This girl is not feeling very pleased about the possible exposure, as you can imagine! Last I heard she was not talking to the guy anymore.
Recent studies have shown 57% of Americans are affected with HSV-1 (cold sores) , and 1 in 6 has HSV-2 (herpes proper), so its a strong likelihood that someone you know has it.
So my question is if you were exposed by a person you were dating how would you feel? how would you approach it? Is it a deal breaker?
The previous two friends were given the disease by their long term boyfriends. One had it before, the other cheated on her. Neither left their boyfriends for it. This girl is not feeling very pleased about the possible exposure, as you can imagine! Last I heard she was not talking to the guy anymore.
Recent studies have shown 57% of Americans are affected with HSV-1 (cold sores) , and 1 in 6 has HSV-2 (herpes proper), so its a strong likelihood that someone you know has it.
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Quote by sprite
for a small fee, anyone who PMs me in the next 24 hours can be the co-author of a story i've written of their choice.(yes, i really AM trying to get fired. this is a crap job, anyways. my boss is mean, my co-workers call me 'fairy bitch' behind my back, and the pay SUCKS. plus, people are mean to me! now, where the hell did that case of tequila go...?).
My panties are in the mail. Can I please pretty please co author with you?
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Quote by gav
Let's keep it simple. The submitter of the story gets credits for views, comments any derived badges and competition prizes. The submitter can add one or more contributors to their story, these are simply links to their respective profile pages. They are free to add or remove contributing authors at anytime without moderation. The co-writer will receive an automatic PM when they are added to a story.
Later on we can add a section to profiles showing which other stories they have co-written.
I dont see any value for the reader to have a separate category for co-written stories, sorry MR!
Wooo hoo!!!
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Quote by gav
Let's keep it simple. The submitter of the story gets credits for views, comments any derived badges and competition prizes. The submitter can add one or more contributors to their story, these are simply links to their respective profile pages. They are free to add or remove contributing authors at anytime without moderation. The co-writer will receive an automatic PM when they are added to a story.
Later on we can add a section to profiles showing which other stories they have co-written.
I dont see any value for the reader to have a separate category for co-written stories, sorry MR!
Wooo hoo!!!
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Quote by nicola
That *should* be easy enough.
What's stopping someone from pretending they wrote a story with someone else though? I guess you'd need to have some kind of verification in place, whereby the linked to person, accepts their inclusion.
That also doesn't solve the issue of people receiving an RR or EP. Only one person would get the award.
I would think the linked author (like above) could be verified like the "in a relationship with" bit. If the resulting link resulted in the same sort of link that appears in the categories, I would think that would show the award on the co authors page.
I don't know, just throwing ideas out hoping something will be relatively easy to add.
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Quote by Milik_Redman
As to the link, even just a space where we could just paste it, something like the e-book links that just have a picture and the story name would be super.
(I'm just about certain Gav is gonna 'accidentally' delete me now.IGdWEjLdxyqkoqHv )
A link would be more than good enough for me
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Quote by Muffinman82
Mods, I request to delete this thread.
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst35449_Please-do-not-ask-for-your-posts-to-be-deleted--we-won39t-do-it.aspx
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Quote by Milik_Redman
I've co-written three stories that are currently posted on my co-writers page. I also have two more in the works hat I am equally excited about. Generally, I defer to my old fashioned upbringing and prefer that these ladies get the honor of posting them and I have them now favorited on my page.
What I was wondering is, would it be possible to somehow code a permanent link with which we could identify and display co-written tales? Nothing so advanced as our own story list, but maybe similar to my amazon e-book links?
I think this would increase the awareness of such co written works as well as encourage writers to work together.
Maybe we could even have a story category for co written stories. (Nicola is gonna kill me for that one)
My Co written story trilogy is my Absolute favorite piece of writing I have done hands down. (settle for nothing, part1) While I have no regrets sharing it with the world via my partner in crime's page (Delphi) I really would like to be able to have it linked in some way as well.
Shameless plug: Part 2!
And the less read conclusion
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It's not my thing. Actually all religious stuff isn't my thing.
However, there is something about not being objectified as simply the girl
With the big boobs. I can see it as possibly freeing in a way. And I've seen some very lovely women wearing them.
Still not my thing though.
However, there is something about not being objectified as simply the girl
With the big boobs. I can see it as possibly freeing in a way. And I've seen some very lovely women wearing them.
Still not my thing though.
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So a woman should be okay with having suruptious pictures taken of her, of areas that she didn't choose to show? That's basically saying, "hey it doesn't matter who you want to look at your bits. We are going to choose for you." And somehow you think that's okay?
If I've flashed someone, accidental or not, that's a fair game shot. To take a picture and video by illicit means is wrong in every way. You have stolen my right to choose, and I have every reason to feel violated.
If I've flashed someone, accidental or not, that's a fair game shot. To take a picture and video by illicit means is wrong in every way. You have stolen my right to choose, and I have every reason to feel violated.
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Quote by TheDevilsWeakness
Wow... I was never molested as a child and I didn't need therapy (well okay, maybe I did but that's a WHOLE 'nother story)
But I did date a guy once that was too rough.
As in alligator skin on his hands. And I swear I thought he was drilling for oil with his tongue.
I tried to talk to him about it, but some men are very insecure about this kind of thing (and maybe I wasn't clear enough) so instead of taking it as constructive criticism, it turned into a huge fight over the fact I wasn't happy with his cunnilingustic skills.
After awhile, I just said I didn't like it, because let's face it. I didn't.
Similar experience here. Most men are "touchy" about their belief in their own oral ability. Many times its a LOT easier to say I don't like it, then to say, "Darling, I love you , but you suck."
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Quote by seeker4
19 now
Part of the problem is that older stories like that kind of get buried in the flood of newer material. Also, dpw's story is in Gay Male which, based on my own single contribution to that category, does seem to attract a lot more attention than some other categories.
thanks!I agree that different categories attack different interest levels. I personally find the gay male stories very interesting in a they are different then I would normally read way. some day I might try my hand at one, it's definitely on my list of things I'd like to write.
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Quote by dpw
I'm astounded that mine has been viewed over 6,500 times in 2 weeks. Mind blowing!
Well done indeed. My very first story still has only 18 votes. mourning routine
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Quote by justinc92
I just want to meet some women on here who have as high a sex drive as I do. If eventually we get close enough that we would want to cam then that'd be fun. Although I'd prefer to keep faces out of it.
Oh, sorry. I thought maybe we could talk about the weather or perhaps complain about traffic. You don't really want to talk to a girl, you just want to cyber with a girl. My bad, I thought I would take your thread title's word.
