One of my main rules is that it does not get complicated. I am a widower and can't join the Swinger's parties because a single guy can't swing without a partner. It's one of many rules they have, and I have other rules. For instance, if I sleep with a married woman the husband knows or participates. If I find out after the fact that someone is married, I never return to the scene of the crime and I never participate in th...