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Down to earth modern woman. I am a single white female. Born Dutch, grew up in the UK. I like my career which is not the most important but it pays my bills and lets me see the world.

I am bi-sexual. I like to play mostly with women but I won't deny that men have sexually what I want and need. Sexually active, hyper sensitive and submissive. I love to meet strong minded people who are bold enough to try their luck and perhaps gain control. I love outdoors and bondage.

I prefer to be contacted by women. Men, if you try anyway, keep it respectable, you need to be good looking and a gentleman. And if most women do not find you attractive than I will probably not do so either. No photos, no connection. Only dick-pics, no answer no connection.

I like to chat. I don't mind a hot conversation. They say that the mind is the biggest sex organ. Isn't the wish the father of all thoughts and Amor praeterit mens. Contact me if you are interested to create new thoughts.

BDSM test result:
100% Rope bunny
94% Non-monogamist
94% Voyeur
93% Primal (Prey)
63% Girl/Boy
63% Exhibitionist
59% Brat
58% Submissive
58% Experimentalist
47% Vanilla
39% Slave
33% Masochist
8% Degradee
4% Ageplayer
2% Pet
2% Primal (Hunter)
0% Rigger
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Dominant
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
0% Switch

I do not look for a relationship unless you call sex friends a relationship. Most meetings do not last more then a one nighter. An ONS means two things, fuck on the first date (or meet) and no second time, doesn't it? I definitely been fucked on a first date or by persons I did not know before. These meetings are often arranged for me by a Mistress. Sometimes I know the people I meet but often they are strangers to me until I meet them. Arranged or not, I need a good feeling with them. Passive people or people who take me for granted (ask me to go to a room before a second drink or just hand over a key to a room) won't succeed. I need to feel the arousal in my body, before we leave the place where we met, for the night to become a successful ONS. That can happen in two ways, through conversation in which they get my mind turned on, which reflects on my body becoming agitated and restless or physical if they feel bold enough to reach for my more sensual body areas and know how to hide what they do while we are in public.