Well I have notice a change at my work. Women are "all business". No one shares even the most innocuous personal information.
Some months ago, even before these scandals broke, one female co-worker commented that I looked nice in my coat and tie.
(Only on rare occasions do I need to wear a coat and tie at work). She was the practically apoplectic apologizing for
the remark. There was nothing suggestive. She is know as a very Christian person, I appreciated the comment for what it was and nothing more.
Just a few days ago, my female boss wore a nice scarf. It was just for show, . . it was particularly cold. Did I say anything?
No. Just too scared it could be misinterpreted.
Since the recent revelations of sexual harassment have been made, has there been a change
in the tone in your workplace?
I'm talking about everyday tone, banter, chit-chat, not sexual harassment.
I'm asking the same question in the ask the gals forum.
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My personal experience is that, with rare exception, women are now "all business".
They don't ask how my kids are doing in college or will I see family for Thanksgiving or any other of the mundane,
innocuous questions people ask of co-workers.
Since the recent revelations of sexual harassment have been made, has there been a change
in the tone in your workplace?
I'm talking about everyday tone, banter, chit-chat, not sexual harassment.
I'm asking the same question in the ask the guys forum.
Guys have you had this happen to you? A young woman gets to the door first but she holds it open for you. I'm old-fashioned and was raised to open the door for a woman. OK if she is there first she should go in first, but several times and I mean several times, I've had a woman hold the door open for me, even though I was 10 even 15 behind her. I don't like being treated like an old man. I am still capable of opening a door myself.
Trimmed or natural is fine, but completely bald no. Complete turn off with the prepubescent look.
Yes, I'm in largely sexless relationship . Because of her medical problems, when we do have sex, I have been on top
every time this millennium. A divorce not only due to alimony, but tax consideration, health insurance (I'm on her policy)
I would be out over 40% of my monthly pay. I live in an area where housing is expensive, I can't even afford
a mobile home in a nice park on that 60%. An apartment in a decent neighborhood would be even more.
On subject of flowers I thought I would share t)s true story. I was dating a girl in college. We had known each other since Jr High, but things were starting to get serious. I had to work on Valentine's Day before taking her out
I stopped at the florist nearest her house. I remarked to the young man at the counter that the flowers looked wilted (it was a small shop) No joke, he told me the flowers had been in a funeral earlier in the day. There was no time to go any where else, so I arrived without flowers. The relationship fizzle a couple of months later. I just wonder if the flowers had been fresh if my life would have taken a different turn.
What would think if I guy brought you flowers on a first date? Is he romantic? Trying too hard?
Terribly old fashioned?
What is your opinion?
My username is self-explanatory too.
While I enjoy read stories on Lush, I also enjoy reading the daily newspaper, a popular science magazine, and nonfiction on a variety of different topics.
Yes they can get too big. Occasionally I watch "Botched" a true-to-life program about all types of plastic surgery.
Excessive large/misshapen implants are common procedures the two doctors on the show resolve.
Tits can be easily too small. A woman should look like a woman.
However a woman with an A cup, can still have great sex. A guy with a commensurately small dick. . . not as much.
Yes turn on. FYI there is a very funny Camelltoe (or three ) out there.
My question: Don't most woman know how they look?
Call me old-fashioned, but I have no desire to have anyone's tongue anywhere near my asshole, nor get my tongue near hers.
Yes it was a good film with good acting, but it reflects a double standard.
Imagine a movie with a 24 year old man and a 17 year old girl. In some states, their sexual behavior would be considered child abuse.
A man seducing/developing a relationship was a teenager who be considered exploitative. Critics would say "why can't that
man find a woman his age? What is wrong with him?"
I also didn't like the smoking.
If you Google "hottest movies on Netflix" you should see "Blue is the warmest color" among the movies listed.
Now, I admit I started watching this just for the hot scenes, but it is actually quite a good movie. (Much, much better than
some of other listed). I believe it won honorable mention at Cannes'
Just wondering if anyone else had seen it?
Two situations:
1) A strip club in San Francisco. I was young and the lap dances felt really, really good. I came hard. Glad I had on jeans and it was nighttime when I got out.
2) Wife was well along in pregnancy, hadn't got any in weeks. We started kissing in the kitchen. She rubbed her hand against my crotch standing up. I think she felt it was the least she could do. We hadn't had sex in weeks and wouldn't for weeks after the baby. While she didn't get any physical satisfaction, she was happy I was happy.
Flight schedules for a vacation to Florida.
Her is my own personal story. Many, many years ago I went to a club started chatting up a girl. Asked her to dance. She said no. Chatted some more
and asked again. Same answer. Then I said "I have $10,000 credit limit on my credit card (which was true)." Her face lit up. . now she was interested.
Then I said, "You had your chance" and walked away.
I posted a question on the "Ask the gals" of "would you date a garbage man?" For some women that might not be a problem but for many that would be deal breaker.
(What woman wants to boast she is dating a garbage man? )
However, not woman admitted it would be a problem for her. I got accused of being a snob, one woman even suggested I see a therapist!
So, guys have you ever been dumped because your girl found another guy, A guy who drove a better car, had a better paying or higher status job than you?
Surely I am not alone in this experience.
This is a little off topic, but when I was in graduate school, I was poor, really poor. So poor (no joke) I took advantage of blood
bank program where I could sell my plasma (not blood) for ten bucks.
While I laid in the recliner with a needle in my arm, I thought if were a woman, even not a hottie, I could make more make my rent and more with a just
a couple of nights work and wouldn't have to be sitting in the chair with a needle in my arm.
And, if so, how does it (pun intended) work into your relationship/lovemaking?
Tattoos are a real turn off.
Women if you want to attract the "bad boy" get a tramp stamp or other tattoo. But remember "bad boys" often make bad fathers, bad employees
bad drivers, bad credit risks etc.
However, if you have the "Fortune 500" look, you will attract "Fortune 500" guys. A man who know how to treat his clients, suppliers,
subordinates etc., with respect, he will more likely respect you.
