I was always one to fantasize about being used, handled like an object or a toy. My partner was always very passionate and loving, but never struck me as a dominant. But, of course, I couldn’t hide my desires from him for too long. These fantasies of being roughly manhandled in the bedroom had begun to show when I asked him to spank me, to hold me down, to choke me. Every night, he’d do a little more to make me feel like...