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LASARDaddy
Over 90 days ago
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I agree with Hera. It all depends on the situation.
I've been married for 44 years and I traveled many of them as a consultant. I've been in that situation many times and my choice was always "C".
I hope you get what you need.
I've been married for 44 years and I traveled many of them as a consultant. I've been in that situation many times and my choice was always "C".
I hope you get what you need.
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Quote by CunningLinguist143
This made my day.
My own reply is yes and no. Romance is great and leads to intimate connections; but, not everyone has the integrity and courage to face such emotions alongside - my own bias view is that - the observation that many are slaves to their instincts.
A quickie can be fun but the real enjoyment is in the intimacy. I've done a couple wham-bam-thank-you-mam's and I much prefer to take my time. Knowing what each likes and wants makes it so much better. It's all about trust. I want there to be a long time between, "Hi." and "Where's my panties?"
We are all slaves to our feelings and emotions but I don't think they're instincts. They're a learned thing and we have the power to change them if we try. I look at mine as my ego and I have a big one. Very demanding but I'm in control, not him. I do see it as a separate "Being?", I don't know, I just know that I do not allow most of the things he wants.
I learned to control it a long time ago.
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I apologize to all of you!
I especially apologize to one I may have hurt. That is never my intent. I want kindness and care, consideration for everyone's feelings. That's how I live my life.
I beg your forgiveness for any affront I may have given.
It was never my intention to offend or hurt anybody on this site. I have nothing but admiration for the people here. The quality of work here is the best. Some of the authors I read here are as good as any.
I talk to many, I comment and I write. If I say I liked it I did.
The question was nothing more than a silly idea I had about happiness. How could it be made better? I do not do harm. I am a father and a grandfather, I am a kind person, a Taoist and I try very hard to treat all people with respect.
I don't understand why this became this.
If the story subject is forbidden, then that's just the way it is. It was not "Mind Control" like that but if it's forbidden I have no problem with it. There is no "Force" of any kind in anything I've written here. Not in my stories, my posts or my comments. Only encouragement, good feelings, care and consideration. I offer sympathy and a shoulder to anyone, just like I have for all of my children and grand children for the last 40 years.
I feel like a sword ran through me and I truly don't understand.
I especially apologize to one I may have hurt. That is never my intent. I want kindness and care, consideration for everyone's feelings. That's how I live my life.
I beg your forgiveness for any affront I may have given.
It was never my intention to offend or hurt anybody on this site. I have nothing but admiration for the people here. The quality of work here is the best. Some of the authors I read here are as good as any.
I talk to many, I comment and I write. If I say I liked it I did.
The question was nothing more than a silly idea I had about happiness. How could it be made better? I do not do harm. I am a father and a grandfather, I am a kind person, a Taoist and I try very hard to treat all people with respect.
I don't understand why this became this.
If the story subject is forbidden, then that's just the way it is. It was not "Mind Control" like that but if it's forbidden I have no problem with it. There is no "Force" of any kind in anything I've written here. Not in my stories, my posts or my comments. Only encouragement, good feelings, care and consideration. I offer sympathy and a shoulder to anyone, just like I have for all of my children and grand children for the last 40 years.
I feel like a sword ran through me and I truly don't understand.
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Those are only for androids so with my IPad I'm screwed unless someone knows of one.
Anyone?
Anyone?
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
I probably use my own name in stories too often myself, but there is so much autobiographical content in my stories that I may as well own up to it. Beth is a common name so I've long-since disabused myself of the notion that seeing it in an erotic story should cause me offense in any way. I've probably disgraced my name more myself than any character in a story has!
Me too. I like the kind of person I strive to be. I'm pretty good at it, I've learned a lot, and I like my main character to be a nice person. Me.
Paul is pretty common too and it's never bothered me. I like details and when the characters name is mine I can burrow in farther. I use me in my stories. I know a lot about me so it's easy to say what the character will do, it's what I would do. I write pretty much what I believe and try to keep the lead character there. The type of person I am, or at least try to be.
Other people are based on the thousands of characters I've met. Only a couple are composites but most of the woman are fantasies. Several are real and I tell you. In either case they were about me when they happened or I fantasized so why not use me. My ego needs a stroke now and again. I don't allow him much control.
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I have seriously considered starting a CAA, or something. Caffeine Addicts Anonymous. On a good (or bad depending on your viewpoint) I could go through 16, 8 oz cups a day. Do the math and that's a gallon. Sometimes I did more. I did a great deal of design problem solving walking back and forth to the coffee room.
I could drink it after I got into bed and had no problem sleeping. I got in the habit of sleeping 4 hours a night going to school full time and working 2 full time jobs. Something had to give. Besides it added a couple years of living to my. Life.
I could drink it after I got into bed and had no problem sleeping. I got in the habit of sleeping 4 hours a night going to school full time and working 2 full time jobs. Something had to give. Besides it added a couple years of living to my. Life.
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Not a turn off but I would rather have very small natural ones than any enhanced ones. Once the top is off they almost never look or feel natural.
Besides, I'm mostly into what's in the package rather than the package. Don't get me wrong there, the package can be wonderful, but the contents are so much better.
Besides, I'm mostly into what's in the package rather than the package. Don't get me wrong there, the package can be wonderful, but the contents are so much better.
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No, never seen or filmed. Well, our kids walked in a couple of times but the didn't see much. My wife never liked the idea. Not the kids watching, anyone else. Wait, that didn't come out right either. Crap!
I've been trying to talk my wife into a soft-swap but she won't. She says she'll think about it but she won't. Oh well, in my next life I'm going to be a porn star.
I hope!
I've been trying to talk my wife into a soft-swap but she won't. She says she'll think about it but she won't. Oh well, in my next life I'm going to be a porn star.
I hope!
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My wife loved it then. Messy as hell but she was very Horney, usually. Never hurt that she indicated and it did help her cramps too. I didn't particularly "Love" it but it wasn't disgusting. A hell of a lot slicker usually too. About 48 she had everything but the entry tunnel removed and that aspect went away.
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Quote by sprite
it walks down stair, alone or in pairs, and makes a slinkity sound ;)
Damn, J. k. Rowling has nothing on you. That was as Harry Potterish as anything I've ever heard. That could be the opening line in a neat story.
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I'd do whatever you wanted, make some suggestions, then have fun with you.
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Quote by sprite
rubber ducky is actually up there on my top 10 list. right after slinky.
SLINKY!
Doesn't the coiled spring pinch you? Come to think of it, watching one walk down the stairs always attracted me so maybe watching one being used like that would work.
Sorry, I cracked up when I read that. Not knowing anything else called a slinky.
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How about an app that gets around all the limitations of the IPad over an IBM? I can't hear the audio and a lot of pictures don't show up. I'd buy it if it was available. I was a hardware GURU though, not software. Although the apps are more like the FirmWare I developed many times. It's very different than software.
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How many hear som jerk-off reporter mispronounce a name. They are getting PAID to do that and no one calls them on it. That's bothered me for 40 and more years. As an actor them not learning to pronounce it correctly is an insult. I ask everyone so I get it right.
There are huge areas where people do not understand the difference between "Bring" and "Take". When I was teaching engineering in Lakehurst, New Jersey another engineer would always ask me, "Hey Paul, can you bring me home tonight."
I'd answer, "No Sal, I can't."
He responded, rather indignantly because we lived within a block of each other, "Why not!"
Me, "Because, Sal, we're here together. I can take you home but I'd have to go there first then turn around and come back to get you so I could bring you there." He never got that and he was a very smart guy. Top notch engineer.
Another is when someone asks me a question then says, "That's what I thought." after I answer.
There are huge areas where people do not understand the difference between "Bring" and "Take". When I was teaching engineering in Lakehurst, New Jersey another engineer would always ask me, "Hey Paul, can you bring me home tonight."
I'd answer, "No Sal, I can't."
He responded, rather indignantly because we lived within a block of each other, "Why not!"
Me, "Because, Sal, we're here together. I can take you home but I'd have to go there first then turn around and come back to get you so I could bring you there." He never got that and he was a very smart guy. Top notch engineer.
Another is when someone asks me a question then says, "That's what I thought." after I answer.
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I haven't heard that joke since I was in high school. A couple years now I think.
How about a bad joke thread? Just dumb old humor that's still funny.
Here's one.
A man is in a hotel lobby. He wants to ask the clerk a question. As he turns to go to the front desk, he accidentally bumps into a woman beside him and as he does, his elbow goes into her breast.
They are both startled and he says, "Ma'am, if your heart is as soft as your breast, I know you'll forgive me."
She replies, "If your penis is as hard as your elbow, I'm in room 1221."
How about a bad joke thread? Just dumb old humor that's still funny.
Here's one.
A man is in a hotel lobby. He wants to ask the clerk a question. As he turns to go to the front desk, he accidentally bumps into a woman beside him and as he does, his elbow goes into her breast.
They are both startled and he says, "Ma'am, if your heart is as soft as your breast, I know you'll forgive me."
She replies, "If your penis is as hard as your elbow, I'm in room 1221."
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Me too. I'm enjoying holding it about half way to "Home Plate" while I read a bunch of great stuff here.
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We did all of that, bent over anything that worked, kneeling sitting, standing, 69, the important thing was we both liked it.
The favorite became me lying on my right side, her facing me pulling my right knee into her crotch while she had her left hand around me and I was thrusting through it into her mouth. It felt like her mouth was 8 inches deep and I was fighting to get in it was so tight. She could suck me so hard that I felt like a pancake flipping through the air when I finished. She loved that too. I miss that a great deal.
She did not like me doing her though.
The favorite became me lying on my right side, her facing me pulling my right knee into her crotch while she had her left hand around me and I was thrusting through it into her mouth. It felt like her mouth was 8 inches deep and I was fighting to get in it was so tight. She could suck me so hard that I felt like a pancake flipping through the air when I finished. She loved that too. I miss that a great deal.
She did not like me doing her though.
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Yeah, I do. They're mostly fantasies I've had for years or reality that I like to remember so how can I not get excited? I wrap a story around me and crawl in to live there for a while. I like details so I write to many sometimes. All the time actually, it's hard for me not to.
I can't really understand why it wouldn't for everyone. If it was something that you thought of as hot or sexy enough to write about then it should.
The problem I have most is when I tell them I include detail that describes what I think about myself, my wife and family, details behind the tale I'm telling. As an actor it's called "the Back Story" and if you haven't write one for the part you have you really suck as an actor. I am very good.
I've been with her for 44 years now and I do not cheat, commitment has a very rigid definition for me, but she is suffering from Alzheimer's and dementia. She can not remember me asking or us getting married and that tears my control into little tiny pieces that blow away. I get teary and cry almost every time I write or read about it.
I write about it in the hope that it'll make it a little easier when she finally can't remember me. I am one maudlin old fart, just writing that effected me.
I'm trying to write an After Death fantasy about her and me now that's ripping at me.
I can't really understand why it wouldn't for everyone. If it was something that you thought of as hot or sexy enough to write about then it should.
The problem I have most is when I tell them I include detail that describes what I think about myself, my wife and family, details behind the tale I'm telling. As an actor it's called "the Back Story" and if you haven't write one for the part you have you really suck as an actor. I am very good.
I've been with her for 44 years now and I do not cheat, commitment has a very rigid definition for me, but she is suffering from Alzheimer's and dementia. She can not remember me asking or us getting married and that tears my control into little tiny pieces that blow away. I get teary and cry almost every time I write or read about it.
I write about it in the hope that it'll make it a little easier when she finally can't remember me. I am one maudlin old fart, just writing that effected me.
I'm trying to write an After Death fantasy about her and me now that's ripping at me.
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I have problems with that too. Vagina is easy compared to asshole. That word mostly doesn't fit easily into a romantic moment.
I found this and it's not bad. It blows my mind the words and expressions there. I wish it were some other part but right now my mind is about it.
http://www.sex-lexis.com/Sex-Dictionary/erotic
I found this and it's not bad. It blows my mind the words and expressions there. I wish it were some other part but right now my mind is about it.
http://www.sex-lexis.com/Sex-Dictionary/erotic
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Have a very
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday
Went looking for a card but couldn't get the thing to load on the old IBM. I'll use my IPad next time.
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It's all "Instant Gratification" now. Sex is the greatest thing there is. It's even better than sliced bread.
I am of that old school. I was raised to be a gentleman and I'll always be that. I want to know more about the person I'm in bed with than what they like to be called. If you play it right a site like Lush is wonderful. You can get to know a lot about another. Many here date and follow all the old rules. A lot of new ones about protecting themselves too but the time to know one another is there.
I've been involved in a few Wham,Bam, Thank You Mam's and they were fun but they were all the others idea. Cute but I want more of the Beauty of it and that's knowing them before we get to the sex. It's so much better for me that way.
Dirty_D is right though. It wasn't been "The Old Fashioned Way" for that many years.
I am of that old school. I was raised to be a gentleman and I'll always be that. I want to know more about the person I'm in bed with than what they like to be called. If you play it right a site like Lush is wonderful. You can get to know a lot about another. Many here date and follow all the old rules. A lot of new ones about protecting themselves too but the time to know one another is there.
I've been involved in a few Wham,Bam, Thank You Mam's and they were fun but they were all the others idea. Cute but I want more of the Beauty of it and that's knowing them before we get to the sex. It's so much better for me that way.
Dirty_D is right though. It wasn't been "The Old Fashioned Way" for that many years.
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Yeah, it is, to both last comments.
The thing about fantasy is that it's not real. Many seem to forget that and expect something else. That's a failing on their parts, not the one with a fake avatar.
If you want to see some REAL dancing around the truth watch a politician or religious leader explain why their sexual parts connected to whoever they were caught withs sexual parts is not real. I never did that, it was a mistake and I'll never do it again.
Jimmy Swaggart, Jim Baker, Henry Cisneros, Bill Clinton and a lot of others. Kennedy, Eisenhauer. In reality the only ones who really give a shit are those that think they're so much better than the rest of us that they have the "Moral Right" to castigate everyone who doesn't step to their drummers beat.
Actually I think Kennedy was one of our best presidents and Clinton was a good president that got screwed in the deal. In more ways than one. I think she was the scum-bag in that. A glory hound after fame.
Given the functional retard we had for a president for 8 years, elected by a supposed majority, I think few have a right to say much about being taken in.
"SMACK," (as I slap myself upside my own head in sympathy with all those cheated by this cruel fate.)
Opinion.
The thing about fantasy is that it's not real. Many seem to forget that and expect something else. That's a failing on their parts, not the one with a fake avatar.
If you want to see some REAL dancing around the truth watch a politician or religious leader explain why their sexual parts connected to whoever they were caught withs sexual parts is not real. I never did that, it was a mistake and I'll never do it again.
Jimmy Swaggart, Jim Baker, Henry Cisneros, Bill Clinton and a lot of others. Kennedy, Eisenhauer. In reality the only ones who really give a shit are those that think they're so much better than the rest of us that they have the "Moral Right" to castigate everyone who doesn't step to their drummers beat.
Actually I think Kennedy was one of our best presidents and Clinton was a good president that got screwed in the deal. In more ways than one. I think she was the scum-bag in that. A glory hound after fame.
Given the functional retard we had for a president for 8 years, elected by a supposed majority, I think few have a right to say much about being taken in.
"SMACK," (as I slap myself upside my own head in sympathy with all those cheated by this cruel fate.)
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I think I hate all of you. No, I do not.
It was early 2007 for me. When they killed my Prostate they murdered my ability. Oh well, I had a lot of fun.
It was early 2007 for me. When they killed my Prostate they murdered my ability. Oh well, I had a lot of fun.
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I've known three women who did that. All were huge and all were glad they did it. All said their backs didn't hurt for the first time in years.
I wish you the best. Just make up your own mind.
I wish you the best. Just make up your own mind.
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Well, I do not hold forth much hope for me with you guys in it. But, what the hell, even a blind pig finds an acorn now and again.
I do not believe in luck or miracles. Like Pasture said, "Chance favors only the prepared mind." And I am really busting my hump trying to prepare mine. I have received many very nice and constructive comments from all of you for which I am eternally grateful. A couple have reviewed mine and again I am very appreciative.
Truthfully,
"Good luck To All Of You!"
I do not believe in luck or miracles. Like Pasture said, "Chance favors only the prepared mind." And I am really busting my hump trying to prepare mine. I have received many very nice and constructive comments from all of you for which I am eternally grateful. A couple have reviewed mine and again I am very appreciative.
Truthfully,
"Good luck To All Of You!"
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Quote by DeeNZ
I know its a horrible question, but im soooo pissed off, I hated by body before but now i hate it even more so with 2 previous c-sections neither by choice might i add, does not in anyway make me feel sexy or beautiful...
what are you guys thoughts on this, the afterwards scaring, does it really turn you off.... as you never see in porn these things got me thinking its a big no no
please be honest im soo torn up about this....
Thanks
Dee
Dee,
Do not feel that way about yourself. Did the vaccination scar on your shoulder bother you? Everyone has one.
My daughter Teri, now 48 has 6. children and everyone was a C-Section. She has never let it bother her. I've seen hers and it is a big scar but it's not ugly, it's jus a scar. I am never bothered by them and I don't think many. Men do.
If it bothers them they are not who you should be with anyway. I knew a woman who had both breasts removed and her answer was to find a tattoo artist that turned her chest into a work of art. He used all the texture to build a bush of flowers. Have it covered with a vines and flowers. She went topless all the time.
Do not feel bad about yourself. You are still you. That person you made. Be strong and NEVER let anyone else's opinion of you decide who or what you are. You are in charge of you, no one else in the universe.
Work on throwing away all that negativity.
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Quote by nawtygirl
sure if she'd like to
Same here. If those pictures are her then absolutely.
But she is a strong lady (my personal favorite) and will make up her own mind so it's highly unlikely.
That's exactly as it should be.
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I don't think so.
When I commit it's just that, a commitment. I've been married once for 43 years but it wasn't necessary for me. She felt different but that's okay, she is a person in her own right and I'll give her what she needs as long as it's what we agree on.
We talk and decide together.
I love analogy so for this it's akin to buying a car. You will NEVER find one that's perfect in every respect. You just have to decide what you'll give up or tolerate to keep them. Of course she has exactly the same choices. If it's not mutual it'll never work so both are happy.
I hope all of you find what you "Need" because for most we just take what we want and regret it later. When it's coming to and end it's a very sad thing. Very difficult no matter why so for all in a situation like Firefly and others above, do NOT let it destroy you. You are what you allow yourself to be, and that can be happy.
When I commit it's just that, a commitment. I've been married once for 43 years but it wasn't necessary for me. She felt different but that's okay, she is a person in her own right and I'll give her what she needs as long as it's what we agree on.
We talk and decide together.
I love analogy so for this it's akin to buying a car. You will NEVER find one that's perfect in every respect. You just have to decide what you'll give up or tolerate to keep them. Of course she has exactly the same choices. If it's not mutual it'll never work so both are happy.
I hope all of you find what you "Need" because for most we just take what we want and regret it later. When it's coming to and end it's a very sad thing. Very difficult no matter why so for all in a situation like Firefly and others above, do NOT let it destroy you. You are what you allow yourself to be, and that can be happy.