2001 is...when? 23 years ago? That was my last time with someone else. Well, being a man isn't always easy, and surpassed my next longest time, from birth to age 21.
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LongBeachShaker
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 67
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Men masturbate far more than women for the simple reason that men have far fewer encounters with women for sex, but have the same need to ejaculate. It's really a no-brainer for the most part.
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Probably the easiest way to stave off depression is to volunteer your services at an organization that helps people. When you give of yourself in this way, and the effort is reciprocated in gratitude of the agency, then you will find that depression becomes far less of an impediment, and in fact may lead to more richly rewarding feelings of accomplishment and joy. Just google "How do I volunteer in [my town/city]?" and go from there.
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Not currently in a relationship, so it is a nice place to chat and hopefully spark any interest in women nearer my age than not (mid-sixties). I also render artistic images from photographs, and such interest in erotic art has actually enabled me to create more conventional art pieces for local businesses. Finally, I enjoy the stories, and would like to write more when I have the time. Everyone have a fantastic day!
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I was still in high school, back in the early-mid 70's, and in the summer between my junior and senior year I occasionally scampered over the backyard fence to the neighbor's pool, a single 50-year old woman. I always did this between 11:30 pm and midnight, as I knew she got back at 2 am or later and didn't want her to see the pool still sloshing water as it does after use. At first I swam with trunks, but knowing she didn't ever come home early I became a bit bolder and swam nude.
It was great. To be honest, I looked forward to the time I could sneak to her pool most nights. And weather permitting (rarely got too cold in June in so Calif), I was in the pool. But one night, just as I was finishing, the neighbor woman suddenly turned the light on, both the lamp and the pool light. I was standing buck naked looking at her, scared that she would tell my parents and essentially end my life! But when she saw me, she wasn't angry, a bit curious. I apologized to her, hoping to plead with her, but she looked at me. I still had a half-erection, one of those stupid-boy looks on my face, and she said, "Do you mind if I join you?"
I couldn't believe it! Now this sounds like one of those letters in Penthouse, the made-up encounters and events that sold a lot of magazines, but it happened. Now she was not at all pretty, but she was relatively small and thin, and had a nice body. But more to the point, being the mid-70's and never been sexual with anyone else, and in fact had never seen a woman naked, this was super exciting. As soon as she took her shirt and bra off, and dropped her dress and undies, she waded nude into the pool and walked to me.
I had gone from near-apocalyptic to sheer ecstasy in less than one minute! The thought of this nude woman approaching me energized me, and when she put her hand on my shoulder I couldn't hold back. I had the most explosive and, frankly, most memorable orgasm to date. I won't get too detailed, but suffice to say that propellant wouldn't have been needed to expend my orgasm over her shoulder to the fence!
I don't remember much what was said, but she and I swam together a few more minutes, then she took me to the deep end and we ended up treading water and making out, kissing, our bodies of course fused above our kicking legs. We ended up doing it for about 20 more minutes in the pool, then she took me inside to her bed where we spent another half hour. It was past 1:30 when I finally got home, but I was so excited that I couldn't think straight the rest of the night.
The next day I went over before her shift, just making sure what happened was cool. Not only was it cool, but we made arrangements to meet twice a week where we swam, then went to her bed where she taught me sexual etiquette. The age difference never came into play, and the entire summer I learned more than I would have as an adult in ten years.
She left for Oregon by the time school started, but I will always remember that summer, and in particular that first orgasm. Even though it happened almost fifty years ago, it sears on my mind like it was just last week.
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March of 1997. I remember it like it was yesterday, fully of passion. It was one of those unexpected meetings, this was in Hollywood at a Jack in the Box. I was in my early 40's then, and had met with a 30 year old who just divorced. We ended up dating for a week, having sex, then two days later she decided to move back east. No big deal then, but here it is over 20 years later... (sigh). At least I have my art to work on.
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Before I turned 45, almost never. Since 2004, about three-four times a day.
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While the absolute answer to the absolute question is "Yes" of course there are different circumstances. If sleeping with a married woman presented complications in her life, even if its just her own conscience or feelings, I would NOT do it. It's not worth the hassle.
Now, with husband's permission, of course it would happen. Or, if I was on a trip outside of my home state and it was a one-time thing, or a short fling (no more than a week), and there was no ambiguity to feelings, I would probably do it.
Of course, this is mostly a personal morality test, as I haven't had any sex since 2004.
Now, with husband's permission, of course it would happen. Or, if I was on a trip outside of my home state and it was a one-time thing, or a short fling (no more than a week), and there was no ambiguity to feelings, I would probably do it.
Of course, this is mostly a personal morality test, as I haven't had any sex since 2004.
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January 1, 2004. It's difficult to meet women these days!
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Santa and the Snowman are happy about SOME-thing... it must be you! Very positive influence.
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This started out as a dark composition, but I decided to pour on the contrast by lightening Brutus' legs and Melania's thighs with striking harsh pain.
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Amazing what a cheap, dilapidated kitchen sponge can do to spruce up the background of an otherwise linear Manga scene!
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This effect is called "Asian Watercolor." It uses several brush techniques that mirror those of ancient Japanese scrolls.
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This is a random comment, but the look in her eyes looks just like my german shepherd when he wants a treat from me.
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Obviously not talking about a prostitute, which I did once in Europe in the early 80's, and by definition one has sex right away.
I've only (successfully) picked up two girls in a bar in my life. The first time was in Pittsburgh, met a girl at a Holiday Inn where she was staying for her company overnight, and I was in the next hotel. She came to my room, and from meet to first fuck was about 20 minutes. The second took about 45 minutes, was in my hometown bar in the early nineties, and she was not a regular.
The quickest I've met someone physically and started nude foreplay was in the late nineties, when online chat first started. We started chat at 10pm, at 11pm we cybered, at 11:30 we had phone sex, and we were so horny she told me to come over. I drove 25 miles in driving rain to her house ; she met me naked and we were both naked within a minute of physically meeting and doing it on the living room rug (very plush). She had said she was 21 but I think she was 19. I did see her HS diploma and grad picture so figured I was safe anyway.
I've only (successfully) picked up two girls in a bar in my life. The first time was in Pittsburgh, met a girl at a Holiday Inn where she was staying for her company overnight, and I was in the next hotel. She came to my room, and from meet to first fuck was about 20 minutes. The second took about 45 minutes, was in my hometown bar in the early nineties, and she was not a regular.
The quickest I've met someone physically and started nude foreplay was in the late nineties, when online chat first started. We started chat at 10pm, at 11pm we cybered, at 11:30 we had phone sex, and we were so horny she told me to come over. I drove 25 miles in driving rain to her house ; she met me naked and we were both naked within a minute of physically meeting and doing it on the living room rug (very plush). She had said she was 21 but I think she was 19. I did see her HS diploma and grad picture so figured I was safe anyway.
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Hello everyone. I am a seasoned writer with twelve years of experience. I've written way too many novels, short stories, poems and flash fiction pieces that will probably never see the light of day.
May I suggest something? Self-publish! There should be some monetization for your work. Consolidate and create anthologies if possible, if your content is not substantial for inclusion on its own. You have a situation that most aspiring writers would ACHE to have: Too much content!
Perhaps you may need an editor of your own to assist in determining your content's worth. I don't mean to be naive about your work, but from your description, "too many novels, etc.", it sounds as if you have a small source of monetization.
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Sometimes, if someone really attracts me while chatting or communicating in the forum, and I went to their gallery, I would write a very complimentary comment. I rarely comment out of the blue, though, particularly if there are a lot of other comments there. I would be respectful regardless, but if I do comment, I would remember it as it's not something I do willy nilly.
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You mean by accident because the moment was so thrilling I was overwhelmed? It has happened twice. The first time, I younger, and I saw a nudie book that had full-frontal nudity (this was the 70's). I was a hyperhorny bronkin' buck of an unnamed age, but it took all of 10 seconds for the fun.
The second time was when I was anticipating my first threesome when I was 20, I came when one of the two girls and I kissed before stripping.
Since then, I've purposefully cum when driving, knowing I was going to be home for a shower. Thank god I wasn't in an accident and killed, I really would have died of embarrassment!
The second time was when I was anticipating my first threesome when I was 20, I came when one of the two girls and I kissed before stripping.
Since then, I've purposefully cum when driving, knowing I was going to be home for a shower. Thank god I wasn't in an accident and killed, I really would have died of embarrassment!
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Is this a trick question? 
I go with [url=#1479498]LasarDaddy's answers[/url] 100% in any case.
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Now ask me if you want me to cash your winning lottery ticket because you don't want to pay the taxes, or you're too drunk to drive to the lottery redemption point.
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While it's a fair question, their can be more than one answer, depending on the significance of the relationship.
I am generally attracted to people on their attitude and their demeanor, as well as their "purported" looks. Well, we all are visual people, but in general looks and attitude are remarkably similar. Online, especially with strangers, we tend to be able to be very candid about our lives, especially our sexuality, in such a way that we can rarely be with people we know, live with, or are even friends with in real life.
So basically, attractions that occur emanate not only from lust, but our desire to be with someone who knows our deepest secrets. This is a different dynamic of attraction that would occur through conventional means, that is, being more closed about most things, then gradually opening up.
Then there is the human need to connect. It's one thing to share passionate, intimate secrets, by typing (and masturbating), but it's completely different to be reciprocated by a human sense, either through hearing (by voice or on the phone), by vidcam, or finally, in person.
But what happens when people meet in person is that it tranforms the online dynamic to a real world dynamic, with all the inherent issues that result from meeting in the CONVENTIONAL manner. This is where a lot of relationships that started and maintained online, long distance, may fall apart.
In my case, I don't have relationships with people online, but I do have friendships. But they aren't the types of friendships that are the same as the ones I have in real life. For instance, I would loan a real life friend, say, a thousand dollars. But an online friend, who I may share more intimate moments or passions, I would balk at such a loan.
So the short answer is, yes, online relationships can be significant, even meaningful, but ultimately, that type of relationship for me would have to evolve into real life for it to be pertient, otherwise, it's an online friendship. Great for ego boosting, great for an incredible libido enancer, but ultimately, not good for full relationship status.
I am generally attracted to people on their attitude and their demeanor, as well as their "purported" looks. Well, we all are visual people, but in general looks and attitude are remarkably similar. Online, especially with strangers, we tend to be able to be very candid about our lives, especially our sexuality, in such a way that we can rarely be with people we know, live with, or are even friends with in real life.
So basically, attractions that occur emanate not only from lust, but our desire to be with someone who knows our deepest secrets. This is a different dynamic of attraction that would occur through conventional means, that is, being more closed about most things, then gradually opening up.
Then there is the human need to connect. It's one thing to share passionate, intimate secrets, by typing (and masturbating), but it's completely different to be reciprocated by a human sense, either through hearing (by voice or on the phone), by vidcam, or finally, in person.
But what happens when people meet in person is that it tranforms the online dynamic to a real world dynamic, with all the inherent issues that result from meeting in the CONVENTIONAL manner. This is where a lot of relationships that started and maintained online, long distance, may fall apart.
In my case, I don't have relationships with people online, but I do have friendships. But they aren't the types of friendships that are the same as the ones I have in real life. For instance, I would loan a real life friend, say, a thousand dollars. But an online friend, who I may share more intimate moments or passions, I would balk at such a loan.
So the short answer is, yes, online relationships can be significant, even meaningful, but ultimately, that type of relationship for me would have to evolve into real life for it to be pertient, otherwise, it's an online friendship. Great for ego boosting, great for an incredible libido enancer, but ultimately, not good for full relationship status.
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If I'm not going to date within a couple of days, I usually do it in the shower every morning, and once in bed every night. The shower is for relief, while the bed is more a fantasy time which entails more details and more time. As I'm pushing 50, I'm not a gumball machine, so I have to bide my time.
But when I know I am going to date, I want to be sure I can perform at least four times during the entire course of the date. If I masturbate, say, on the morning of a date, then I'd have to spend a lot more time on cunnilingus. On the other hand, that may not be a bad thing...
But when I know I am going to date, I want to be sure I can perform at least four times during the entire course of the date. If I masturbate, say, on the morning of a date, then I'd have to spend a lot more time on cunnilingus. On the other hand, that may not be a bad thing...
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I have gay friends, and we drink in both gay and straight bars, so there is no real difference to me because I am known in the ones I go to. Since they know me as straight, there is definitely a polite understanding for the most part, as I find in my experiences that even if a gay man is attracted to me, they won't go beyond a certain limit. While synonymous with women being hit on by straight men, the difference is that most gay men will NOT do anything more to attract a straight man, while in the straight man being rebuffed by a gay woman, he will more than likely make an ass of himself.
I've walked into bars before not caring about sex, so I rarely care what type of bar it is, though I rarely go to new bars and stick to the ones I know (both gay and straight).
Just to clarify, I'm straight. Ironically, I've actually met a nice woman in a gay bar. She was with gay male friends because it was a place she could go and not be hit on but be around men, and she was somewhat "impressed" that a straight man would be "tolerant" enough to be in a gay bar and, hence, found me attractive. So it can actually be a somewhat hidden method for meeting nice girls. But not likely.
I've walked into bars before not caring about sex, so I rarely care what type of bar it is, though I rarely go to new bars and stick to the ones I know (both gay and straight).
Just to clarify, I'm straight. Ironically, I've actually met a nice woman in a gay bar. She was with gay male friends because it was a place she could go and not be hit on but be around men, and she was somewhat "impressed" that a straight man would be "tolerant" enough to be in a gay bar and, hence, found me attractive. So it can actually be a somewhat hidden method for meeting nice girls. But not likely.
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There is never an issue with size for me. I've actually been with a person of short stature (NEVER use the n-word terms "midget" or "dwarf"), and actually enjoyed myself in ways that I've not experienced with non-short statured individuals.
But in general, if you are referring to adult females between 4' 6" and 5' as "petite," it doesn't really make much of a difference. I admit to being with both skinny petite women, as well as more "roly-poly" (but not overweight). There are unique differences with everyone, but more important that their stature is their attitude and desire.
Typically, it is easier if they are on top during intercourse, but in reality there is little to no difference between ANY adult, while their unique qualities make more of a difference in my own reactions. Having said that, the thought of a smaller woman now is quite compelling.
But in general, if you are referring to adult females between 4' 6" and 5' as "petite," it doesn't really make much of a difference. I admit to being with both skinny petite women, as well as more "roly-poly" (but not overweight). There are unique differences with everyone, but more important that their stature is their attitude and desire.
Typically, it is easier if they are on top during intercourse, but in reality there is little to no difference between ANY adult, while their unique qualities make more of a difference in my own reactions. Having said that, the thought of a smaller woman now is quite compelling.
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I think anal sex is more of a "control" feeling than anything. I've engaged in it in the past, but to be quite honest, it's not something I enjoy. Maybe I'm a bit more hygienic than most, but the thought of feces in play during lust is not really conducive to my own pleasure.
I've been with women who love anal sex, but don't request I do it to them knowing I'm averse to it. They know fully well that we can undergo several positions involving penile-vaginal interaction, as well as extensive oral sex. I do have a trick during oral sex where I may use my finger on her anus, but only in stimulating her rectum, not entering it, as my primary focus is on her clitoris or g-spot or "man-in-the-boat."
When I get "control," I usually get on top and pin the woman to the mattress with my body while I get animalistic in my movements. But I still enter her vagina, not anus.
I've been with women who love anal sex, but don't request I do it to them knowing I'm averse to it. They know fully well that we can undergo several positions involving penile-vaginal interaction, as well as extensive oral sex. I do have a trick during oral sex where I may use my finger on her anus, but only in stimulating her rectum, not entering it, as my primary focus is on her clitoris or g-spot or "man-in-the-boat."
When I get "control," I usually get on top and pin the woman to the mattress with my body while I get animalistic in my movements. But I still enter her vagina, not anus.