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LongBeachShaker
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 67
0 miles · Fort Worth
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Sorry, doesn't appeal to me. So perhaps I'm not the person to answer this.
When I was first experiencing sex at an unmentionable age, it was fun to get peed on in the shower by your partner, but that phase went away rather fast. But this is more of a fetish, so it's not really my point to recommend one way or the other.
When I was first experiencing sex at an unmentionable age, it was fun to get peed on in the shower by your partner, but that phase went away rather fast. But this is more of a fetish, so it's not really my point to recommend one way or the other.
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First of all, we are talking about either dating or relating with a woman to the point where the pants are gonna come off. If you are in a situation where you may have sex, it is best to be in the proper attire for me. If you know you aren't doffing your slacks, then it doesn't matter what you wear.
But we are talking the stripping game. And the Prime Rule is this... NO TIGHTY WHITIES!! I can't emphasize it ENOUGH! In addition, while colored tighties are not as bad, they still have that diaper look which really detract from the otherwise masculine appearance.
Now, if you are a guy who has a large paunch, then boxers are best. Mid-length boxers, either silk or dark cotton, with a fly that is not gaping, though only one snap at the waist.
Finally, if you are fit or at least have no or little body fat, then boxer briefs are the absolute best. Darker colors are usually better, mainly because they camouflage the "precum" or other bodacious liquids that may seep. I DO assume you washed your ass COMPLETELY beforehand, and I mean COMPLETELY, and there is ABSOLUTELY NO DISCOLORATION in the rear. And yes, women will know from twenty feet.
As someone who was both 40 lbs overweight at one time, and now currently fit and physically active, I can attest to this from both angles. I would invest in "formal" boxers or boxer-briefs for dates, spending more for high-quality silk or other such material. In addition, the same care must be given for socks, undershirts, and even thermal underwear if in super-cold weather areas.
EDIT: Oh, one more thing... do NOT GO COMMANDO! It may seem cool to unzip right to the Johnson, but women have an innate sense of hygiene which they will remember. And, frankly, it's not all that comfortable for "the boys."
But we are talking the stripping game. And the Prime Rule is this... NO TIGHTY WHITIES!! I can't emphasize it ENOUGH! In addition, while colored tighties are not as bad, they still have that diaper look which really detract from the otherwise masculine appearance.
Now, if you are a guy who has a large paunch, then boxers are best. Mid-length boxers, either silk or dark cotton, with a fly that is not gaping, though only one snap at the waist.
Finally, if you are fit or at least have no or little body fat, then boxer briefs are the absolute best. Darker colors are usually better, mainly because they camouflage the "precum" or other bodacious liquids that may seep. I DO assume you washed your ass COMPLETELY beforehand, and I mean COMPLETELY, and there is ABSOLUTELY NO DISCOLORATION in the rear. And yes, women will know from twenty feet.
As someone who was both 40 lbs overweight at one time, and now currently fit and physically active, I can attest to this from both angles. I would invest in "formal" boxers or boxer-briefs for dates, spending more for high-quality silk or other such material. In addition, the same care must be given for socks, undershirts, and even thermal underwear if in super-cold weather areas.
EDIT: Oh, one more thing... do NOT GO COMMANDO! It may seem cool to unzip right to the Johnson, but women have an innate sense of hygiene which they will remember. And, frankly, it's not all that comfortable for "the boys."
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Since I'm not married, Leiza, I am usually the invited "third," so I can answer from the point of the "invitee." The type of threesome you have can be one which can be impulsive and sexual, or more passionate with emotions involved. In any case, I respect the boundaries of the actual husband-wife bond, and it is always best to know what limits there are, as in emotionally (sometimes the passion brings out words that are not just sexual but romantic), or physically (it is best for the husband to cum in his wife's pussy while the third man can cum everywhere else).
The experiences I have had were all fantastic, and when I visit a couple on multiple occasions, as the husband trusts me more, I become closer to the woman both physically and emotionally. This, of course, would actually create a more intimate and explosive encounter, but many couples are not want to take it further. In every case, however, I have NEVER been with a couple who was arguing or who was having marital problems, as sexual passions magnify feelings, either good or bad. Finally, I've grown close enough with one couple where the husband trusts me with his wife alone, knowing that we could be passionately sexual without risk to their marital relationship. But that's something that definitely takes time and consistent trust.
So my recommendation is this: if you were looking strictly for sexual stimulation, I would do it at a motel or hotel with a man who is not in your inner circle of friends, but someone who is not a stranger. In addition, things change: you may start off wanting sexual stimulation, but people change their feelings without notice. It is best to know the signs of such change, and to be able to reassess your own feelings. My view is that if both husband and wife want a threesome, to start at a motel or hotel. And you know what? DO it! It's fun, and a casual encounter may introduce you to passions that you can enjoy for life!
One more thing: consider a threesome with another female as well. Contrary to societal belief, two women do NOT have to be bi just like two men don't have to be bi, but it's always nice for a man to feel different bodies. When you are really ready, try another couple, though the dynamics of that type of encounter is a bit different. Still, it's fun! Go for it.
The experiences I have had were all fantastic, and when I visit a couple on multiple occasions, as the husband trusts me more, I become closer to the woman both physically and emotionally. This, of course, would actually create a more intimate and explosive encounter, but many couples are not want to take it further. In every case, however, I have NEVER been with a couple who was arguing or who was having marital problems, as sexual passions magnify feelings, either good or bad. Finally, I've grown close enough with one couple where the husband trusts me with his wife alone, knowing that we could be passionately sexual without risk to their marital relationship. But that's something that definitely takes time and consistent trust.
So my recommendation is this: if you were looking strictly for sexual stimulation, I would do it at a motel or hotel with a man who is not in your inner circle of friends, but someone who is not a stranger. In addition, things change: you may start off wanting sexual stimulation, but people change their feelings without notice. It is best to know the signs of such change, and to be able to reassess your own feelings. My view is that if both husband and wife want a threesome, to start at a motel or hotel. And you know what? DO it! It's fun, and a casual encounter may introduce you to passions that you can enjoy for life!
One more thing: consider a threesome with another female as well. Contrary to societal belief, two women do NOT have to be bi just like two men don't have to be bi, but it's always nice for a man to feel different bodies. When you are really ready, try another couple, though the dynamics of that type of encounter is a bit different. Still, it's fun! Go for it.
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I generally don't roleplay, but just enjoy the ambiance and desire of having an intimate chat. In general, I don't like calling and immediately cybering, but usually after talking about an hour, we tend to mutually become more needful, until one of us unabashedly starts to masturbate. Those are the types of calls that end up incredibly orgasmic! In addition, I've met more women in real life after chatting and cybering online, as it's always nice to know someone's heart and sexuality before their actual physical presence (though before we meet I have a few pictures of what she looks like, and vice versa).
My favorite cyber encounters are with younger women, as older women generally are into the roleplay and romance, while I like the friendship and orgasmic feeling around the call. Romance can only occur with me when I know someone in person, in any case, but younger women are always more open, more intimate, and more orgasmic.
My favorite cyber encounters are with younger women, as older women generally are into the roleplay and romance, while I like the friendship and orgasmic feeling around the call. Romance can only occur with me when I know someone in person, in any case, but younger women are always more open, more intimate, and more orgasmic.
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Two years ago I had a summer relationship with a 19 year old, basically teaching her all there was to know about true sexuality with my experience. We did a lot of things, but one of the best times was when we got a motel room with three men I knew in their 30's and 40's. I watched as they took care of her all night long, and when it was over, we made passionate love in the morning amid all the sheets filled with cum and sweat. When we left the motel, we smiled at the maid who did a double take at us, and we laughed knowing she was going to have to turn the sheets 
So yes, it was exciting, and since my relationships are open, they are always going to include the possibility of group sex with different genders with my full approval, and hers of course.
So yes, it was exciting, and since my relationships are open, they are always going to include the possibility of group sex with different genders with my full approval, and hers of course.
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Interesting question! I think this is relative to what type of relationship one would have in the first place with your partner. In my case, since I am only going to be in an open relationship with anyone I end up with, such an encounter would be a joy to suddenly happen! Of course, I'd be discreet and allow my wife/gf to continue with her ladyfriend, and gracefully exit the scene. Once they are finished and dressed, I'd serve wine and light snacks to both of them and have a light, friendly chat. If her friend were up for it, a threesome, but if she were only interested in my lady, then that is still a joy. That's the best I can put it.
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I find this subject interesting, as I frankly do not know any man who would not be sexual with a female based on race. In most cases, interracial sex is actually an incredibly arousing enhancement, with the difference in body types, skin color, accents, and other external factors that lead to a very explosive, erotic encounter. I think most men are more affected by physical shape, attitudes, and being sexually compatible in the intangibles than about race or ethnicity.
In my case, I am usually friends first with anyone I meet, so sex would usually work in conjuction with that friendship, so I"m always close in intimacy with any lady regardless of race or ethnicity. In some ways, I'd much prefer to have a long term (but open) relationship with interracial partners than with those of my own race / ethnicity (white). But as far as sex is concerned, I am an equal opportunity lover, and could never be otherwise.
In my case, I am usually friends first with anyone I meet, so sex would usually work in conjuction with that friendship, so I"m always close in intimacy with any lady regardless of race or ethnicity. In some ways, I'd much prefer to have a long term (but open) relationship with interracial partners than with those of my own race / ethnicity (white). But as far as sex is concerned, I am an equal opportunity lover, and could never be otherwise.
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NO vote on my part...
I'm a computer programmer, and I was able to extract the fuck/pass percentages by gender.
Here goes...
Males would fuck other males less than 1% of the time
Males would fuck other females 96% of the time
Males would pass on other males more than 99% of the time
Males would pass on other females 4% of the time
Females would fuck other males 24% of the time
Females would fuck other females 29% of the time
Females would pass on other males 76% of the time
Females would pass on other females 71% of the time
That is all for now, carry on. (NOTE: Do not include me in the "Fuck or Pass" designation; continue with the person above me.)
I'm a computer programmer, and I was able to extract the fuck/pass percentages by gender.
Here goes...
Males would fuck other males less than 1% of the time
Males would fuck other females 96% of the time
Males would pass on other males more than 99% of the time
Males would pass on other females 4% of the time
Females would fuck other males 24% of the time
Females would fuck other females 29% of the time
Females would pass on other males 76% of the time
Females would pass on other females 71% of the time
That is all for now, carry on. (NOTE: Do not include me in the "Fuck or Pass" designation; continue with the person above me.)