We had just moved to our new city five months ago.  I had accepted a transfer with my company and we finally made the move after a long delay.  Brenda, my wife, found a new job too; she had started teaching 4th grade at the public elementary school in our district.   Over the course of the first several weeks of school, Brenda was really excited to come home and tell me how fun her job was.  She had a great class and was...