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MrLosAngeles
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 42
United States
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He's exploring his sexual thoughts, he says. That's a good thing.
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Lots of sensual conversation, clever double entendres, very very slowly increasing touches, etc. The works!
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No one.
What's the first sign you notice in yourself when you discover a new lover?
What's the first sign you notice in yourself when you discover a new lover?
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Responses are what I notice first. I smile and if she smiles back, we've established some kind of connection. It can go nowhere or anywhere after that.
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It certainly depends on the body and the mood. By themselves? Not always so sexy LOL
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How delightful! A re-match, but not a rerun. Kiss and fuck, of course.
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I'm pretty sure it's because it's a porn meme-slash-cliche. "The money shot" as it used to be called. And also it's part of the classless, faux "intimacy" misogynist attitude prevailing in porn, like a lot of other "memes/cliches". The porn producers are usually a pretty gross, ungentlemany bunch concerned with making a buck, being gross themselves they perpetuate these images and then porn watchers think "Oh, so that's what I've been missing." It's pretty absurd. Not "Life imitating Art", but "Life imitating the lowest common denominator". Too, it prompts people to be only all about the "mechanics" of sexual intimacy. I hope the future sees a return to actual intimacy, mutual pleasure, even *gasp* romance in the sexual encounters.
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It's a bit tricky, like being an artist. In my opinion, a "real writer" is a person who couldn't not write. It's a fulfilling part of their life, like breathing, more than a hobby, more than a job, more than a way to "get the perks". The motivation to "be a writer" can be focused or scattered. Some people write to have that lifestyle, whatever it may be. Some write as a kind of therapy. As for good or bad writers, I think there's a definite and obvious distinction. Many "good" writers are creative; most bad writers are not (they continue to use cliches, the same old situations, the same shallow characters, the same predictable formula dynamics). That doesn't mean they don't get published. In fact, most bad writers get published over good writers. Examples of bad writers are Ian Fleming (James Bond books), Stephen King, James Rollins, Clive Cusler, most novel series authors -- best sellers, but bad writers.
Examples of good writers are Charles Dickens, Dan Simmons, Neal Stephenson, and early Clive Barker. Also best sellers, but creative, innovative, surprising writers with a real sense of using the language to paint scenes and tell a story.
That said, I also have to mention "bad" readers. They're out there.
Examples of good writers are Charles Dickens, Dan Simmons, Neal Stephenson, and early Clive Barker. Also best sellers, but creative, innovative, surprising writers with a real sense of using the language to paint scenes and tell a story.
That said, I also have to mention "bad" readers. They're out there.
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Creepy? Only if the Zombie Apocalypse has happened and she'd died in her sleep. Oh, wait, then she'd be eating the body's largest sex organ, the brain. LOL.
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Unfortunately I think too many guys still think of lesbian sex as "girl on girl until I get my cock involved". Pretty narrow thinking IMHO. Lesbians, like gays, have an emotional attachment. It's not just the physical sex bits. Now, bi-sexual is another matter altogether.
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