How does one get their partner to completely open up for them? In every sense - I am in a very healthy, happy relationship with my wife. She is hands down the greatest blow job I've ever had (and I've had a LOT). We have wonderful overall sex and we love each other. I seem to constantly barrage her during sex with dirty talk about having her fuck and suck another man in my presence (and I want that to really happen). She goes along with it in the heat of the moment but I think she's a bit shy of it happening in reality. How do I break that door down? It's all I think about during masturbation and sex and long drives!