A little while ago when I was giving my wife oral I had the idea to hum, hoping that maybe the vibration would give her a little extra stimulation. My wife said she loved it, but she's never been really out in the open about her sexual do's and don'ts. So girls, has a guy ever hummed while giving you oral, and did it really make that much of a difference?
So a few months ago I went through a very stressful period in my life where I was consistently away from my wife, and I developed the habit of masturbating while watching porn to help expel stress. I had watched porn on almost a weekly basis beforehand and never had any problems in bed, but when I was in my wife's company again I found it very difficult to get hard. After avoiding the elephant in the bedroom I decided to stop watching porn entirely, seeing that it was desensitizing me and probably leading me down the road to a small addiction (I was masturbating twice a day, every day). Since giving up the habit, my sex life is back to normal and I find myself more aroused than usual. So, fellow Lushies, what is your experience with porn? What's your opinion on it? Any negative or positive experiences?
A repeating nightmare that I have when I'm really stressed or emotional involves my house being haunted by a dark, grey entity. I can always distinguish when I'm having the nightmare because I can never turn on lights in the dream--no light switch works. On top of that the whole scenario has a "dark" feeling over it, like I'm watching everything through a thick screen door.
I would go with the films that most notably changed cinema. Not to be cliche, but:
- The Godfather
- Apocalypse Now
- The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly
- Citizen Kane
- Seven Samurai
Less cliche choices, and some of my personal favourites:
- The Social Network
- Drive
- Take Shelter
- District 9
- Saving Private Ryan
I love being creative. Creating worlds and characters and amazing adventures. Even though a lot of my ideas will never see the public eye, I love knowing that I have the power and the commitment to make something that I'm proud of come to life.
Two words: Police brutality. You'd think after decades of news coverage, riots, and charges, the laws surrounding the liberalism that police walk with would change. As can be plainly seen, it hasn't.
Maximus Decimus Meridius--played by Russel Crowe--from Gladiator
As clearly stated above, there is nothing wrong with being gay, and you have my sympathies for your mother not accepting it. I'm happy that my kids (and yours too, if you decide to have them) can grow up in a society where it is alright to be homosexual.
In regards to the process, it can depend on who you are. Judging by what you posted, I would make the assumption that you are very nervous about the whole process, but I encourage you not to be. Your closest friends will accept you for who you are, and those who don't can be replaced or given an ultimatum. I know it sounds harsh, but having people around you who don't accept such a major part of you will only bring you down.
Coming here to Lush was a good idea, because you can express yourself without fear of direct backlash. Your safe behind a computer, and not to mention that the community at Lush is more than warm. We accept you--and all like you--regardless of the face behind the picture. As for the next step? Try visiting sites and groups that are based around the gay/lesbian community, and explain yourself there. I have several friends who are gay, and they've all said that talking about it online helped their confidence, so I see it as a good place to go next.
I'm not gay myself, so I don't know how it feels to be so nervous about something like this, but take a deep breath and stay calm. There's a whole world out there, and believe it or not, there's more support than hate. Don't be afraid to show who you are.
"Be yourself, because the people who matter don't mind, and the people who mind don't matter." - Dr. Seuss
I personally think that smoking is gross, and would never pick up the habit myself, but with other people I can be extreme in both positive and negative attitudes.
For example, if a smoker can keep him/herself smelling nice despite the fact that they smoke, and they have restrictions (exp. no smoking in their house, car, etc.) then I commend them, because they control their smoking habit, not the other way around.
But if they smoke wherever they please, constantly, smell like smoke, and have no respect for the feelings of the people around them, then I'll do everything in my power to get such a person away from me.
Like alcohol, smoking has its abusers, and I tend to expose one when I see one. It's for their own good.
I recently saw the film Drive, and it got me thinking... what would you do to save/protect the one you love? How far would you go? And do you think you would have changed if the circumstances were dire enough?
Christian Bale - The Dark Knight (I'm Batman!)
Leonardo DiCaprio - Inception
I agree with you: it's reasons like those that movies like The Godfather and Taxi Driver were so sensational. They romanticized crime, and got us to look into our darker halves, if just for a few hours.
"If real politicians looked like this maybe you'd give a shit." Soooooo funny. Ah, stuff like this should be at the Oscars. You just made my day.
"We shall defend our island, whatever the cost may be, we shall fight on the beaches, we shall fight on the landing grounds, we shall fight in the fields and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills; we shall never surrender."
- Winston Churchill
"Cowards die many times before their death. The valiant never taste of death but once."
- William Shakespeare
"I destroy my enemy when I make him my friend."
- Abraham Lincoln
"When once you have tasted flight, you will forever walk the earth with your eyes turned skyward, for there you have been, and there you will always long to return."
- Leonardo da Vinci
The Oscar Nominations are out today, and as I am a dedicated movie fan, I couldn't help but feel rattled about the snubs and surprise nominations. What really caught my eye was Michael Fassbender's snub from the Best Actor category, for Shame. Anyone else feel ripped off? If so, why?
Very cute. One might wonder what kind of pretty face tops off that sexy body of yours ;)
I met my first love when we were very young, maybe 7 or 8. We grew up in school together; first apart, then together. When I was 14 I summoned up the courage to ask her to date me, and was enthralled when she said yes. I took her on dates, to movies, dinners, and the occasional movie at my house (which we all know what really happens then... No, not that. I was 14 you perverts). However, a few months after I turned 15, I hit a really strong depression spell. For weeks and weeks I dismissed it for being all in my head, but that only made it worse. By the time I forced myself to realize that I was depressed is when I started having anxiety attacks, and delusions. By this time, the connection between her and I was gone.
Not too long after, she called me up and said she wanted to talk. I did, and she broke up with me. You see, I never explained to her how i was really feeling inside, because I barely knew myself. Still to this day I don't know why I didn't have the courage to ask her to wait, to explain to her the demons that I was fighting. I guess it's because I didn't want her to bear the weight I had been bearing for so long. So I let her go, and lost track of her a little ways afterwards. I am now happily married to another woman, perfectly healthy in both physical and mental state, but I do think of her sometimes. I wonder where she is now, and how our lives could have been different...
Thanks so much for the answers girls, they were very insightful, lol
