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Primal
Over 90 days ago
Male, 43
United States

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Right now, my favorites are Dexter and Californication.


Some others I try to keep up on as much as possible:

Breaking Bad
Entourage (Ari Gold is the greatest character in the history of characters)
Weeds
Heroes
Chuck
Castle
Sons of Anarchy
Dark Blue
Burn Notice
The Tudors (is that still going?)
Lost



And probably more. And yes, I watch too much TV. However, I do try to multi-task and get things done while I watch too much TV.
I think pussy whipped is a guy who does everything his partner tells him to, all the time. It's also a guy who ditches his guy friends 100% of the time, at the whim of his partner. He doesn't have any time that is his, his partner occupies all of his time and doesn't allow him to have his own activities because she makes him follow her around for all her activities.

Basically a guy who gets led around by the choke collar she placed around his dick.
Cat, I have never tried anal, I was just regurgitating(sp?) what I have read about the subject and a lot of places do suggest you plan ahead for anal sex, but that of course doesn't mean you need or have to.
You're supposed to, or so I have read.

Ladies should go number two and take an enema before anal sex. The cleaner her back door is, the less messy and safer (from urethra infection from fecal particles) the anal sex is.

On a related side note, to me you sound almost aroused by the thought of a woman giving herself an enema...

Eh, not my cup of tea and why I have yet to give in and watch Two Girls, One Cup.
Duuude, that means we're Eskimo Brothers because I had sex with your sister in the park today too!!!
Never had it either, but I do know you should start by relaxing and have him use his lubricated finger to gently open your sphincter muscles up. I think there is two of them in the first few inches and you have to relax and allow them to "un-clench" and loosen up before he can get his cock in there.

Go slow and steady and retreat when it hurts and then go back in slowly and keep working it back and forth until you open up.

Like I said, I have never tried it but that is what I read about it.
Baker, do you not love her anymore because she went cold on you 4 years ago?
From my angle, a time I made a woman cry was in high school. She told me she did not want anything for her birthday, she swore up and down. So, I listened to her, I didn't get her anything.

Chaos came next.

What was once a teen girl morphed into a whirling dervish of tears and fists (in my direction).
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Maybe cos you tell her she smells and freak her out with chainsaws?


Ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!!!!!!




She might be on to something here...
Aggressiveness, when she wants sex so bad she starts biting and clawing and squirming and riping clothes off.
Lmao, harsh. I would have just told her I drank too much, who cares, it happens to everyone, sometimes often lol.
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I lean towards “cut” myself the extra skin in my mouth makes me queasy – I mean in the heat of the moment it doesn’t really matter, but I refuse to give him oral sex. I know it makes me sound like a biatch, but seriously having it in my mouth makes me


You mean when its not erect? When we are hard there isn't any extra skin on the end, it goes tight but does slide, well except for guys like me. I have tight foreskin so if it slides back behind the rim on my head it stays there and at least to me, my dick then doesn't seem to look different from anyone elses.

Is it okay for you when its retracted or pulled back so the head is out all the way?

It does make one self-conscious knowing 9/10 women here in the US prefer cut, doh!
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Charly, I didn't do what you mentioned. I did say "some" places of Africa are modern and "some" other places are not.

How is that a sweeping generalization of an entire people or culture?

My point was that education would stop the act of to cure aids. for sexual urge or compulsion would still be around and it is in every corner of the planet. However, to cure aids is pretty unique to some areas of the planet which are stuck years in the past and haven't caught up to modern times.

Race is irrelevant and had nothing to do with my comments.


Primal, From your original post, where you say "...lots of places over there are 1000 years behind us in the evolution and growth of civilization," it does seem to me that you are making a generalisation about a type of culture. Later, you clearly say "...look at Afghanistan they are also stuck 1000 years behind the rest of us." Isn't it a sweeping statement to refer to a whole country like that? Are there not so-called honour killings on the streets of the UK and US?

It would have been perfectly reasonable for you to say that some of the people of these countries need better education (just as is the case in most countries), but I don't think it's reasonable to suggest that a "civilisation" is less advanced, just because it differs from our own.

Also, I think TheChrisJ's post hits the nail on the head, when he points out the error of grouping a culture's religious acts with abhorrent crimes (those crimes may well be because of a lack of education, or just because there are nasty people that will take what they want, and use any excuse to justify it). What I'm saying is that it's a mistake to pin it all on a culture.

I've neither the time nor inclination to get into a long, heated, philosophical debate with you Primal, because I doubt that my observations will alter your perspective anyway. And, indeed, you are entitled to hold your opinion. However, I hope at least that you've been able to grasp my point; if not, then my apologies for not being able to make it in such a way that you can understand.

If you do have a mind that's open to learning more, then may I suggest that you take a trip to your local bookseller, where you'll find a wealth of material on Cultural Relativism. C.



Seriously? You felt a need to insult my intelligence? Are you a spokesperson for the politically correct or is that just a weekend job?
As an atheist or agnostic I agree with your comments regarding religion. I also never grouped an entire continent together.

I didn't mean for this to be an argument.

I think some areas of the planet have ass backwards or under developed societies and I don't think it is wrong to call a spade a spade.

I'm sorry if that offends anyone, but its my opinion on the matter.
Charly, I didn't do what you mentioned. I did say "some" places of Africa are modern and "some" other places are not.

How is that a sweeping generalization of an entire people or culture?

My point was that education would stop the act of to cure aids. for sexual urge or compulsion would still be around and it is in every corner of the planet. However, to cure aids is pretty unique to some areas of the planet which are stuck years in the past and haven't caught up to modern times.

Race is irrelevant and had nothing to do with my comments.
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The problem is ignorance, a total lack of education. Parts of Africa are modern but lots of places over there are 1000 years behind us in the evolution and growth of civilization.


Oh, yes, the Western world is at the pinnacle of civilization! How can you say this, when atrocities occur in the homes and on the streets of America and Europe every hour, of every day? That's right here, in the so called educated, civilized world. Let's all give ourselves a big pat on the back.



I don't get what your point is? What I said is the truth, some areas of this planet are desperately stuck in the dark ages. Yes, crime is human nature but you can't ignore archaic beliefs and motives. Do you think women to turn them straight or little girls to cure aids is not the result of a stunted culture stuck lagging behind?

What about sacrificing cows?

Female genital mutilation?

Witch doctors?

And its not only parts of Africa, look at Afghanistan they are also stuck 1000 years behind the rest of us.

Honor killings, no rights for women, murder of gay people, and so on.

To change medieval beliefs you have to educate and that takes multiple generations of educated individuals.
The problem is ignorance, a total lack of education. Parts of Africa are modern but lots of places over there are 1000 years behind us in the evolution and growth of civilization.
Scented lip gloss.

Lots of great memories were saturated with strawberry, grape, cherry, berry and so on.
I don't know if I could get over the sex change fact and knowing they cut, diced, snipped, tucked, folded and rearranged a cock and balls into a faux vagina. You would basically be sticking your dick into a pile of cock'n'balls.

Maybe if the tranny was extremely attractive and totally female looking I could take one for the team, but I don't know if I would be turned on enough knowing it is a guy who looks like a girl.

If they were hairless, soft and feminine looking, maybe I guess. Would be tough mentally.
It's not practical in real life but the thought of multiple lovers appeals to me
For me at least, there is both. I have made love to a woman and I have fucked a woman. Maybe it's different for women, but for this male at least. sex can either mean a lot and be emotional or it can mean almost nothing emotionally and just be a fun activity like playing poker or basketball.

I should add, there is a third kind of sex, fucking the love into her! LOL. I guess you could say it's a combination of the two! Totally depends on who your partner is and what your relationship with each other is all about.

Basically there is love and lust and sometimes they combine.


Or something like that. I didn't think this out for very long.
I was 19 and she was 17 and I was sleeping over at her place. This house had a end to it where a door opened into a short, maybe 15 foot hallway which connected two bedrooms, hers and the guest bed. Her parents told us to go to bed at midnight and made sure the lights were out before they went to bed. Their bedroom was on the other side of the wall of my girlfriends room.
We waited 30 minutes then I quietly crept out of bed and down the hall to her bedroom. We had only had sex once before, at my place but we were both very horny and filled with lust. I sat on the edge of the bed and she gave me a blowjob for a few minutes before we started taking our clothes off. I went down on her and she tried hard to stay quiet as you could hear a pin drop it was so still and quiet in the dark. It was very erotic to feel her pelvis and stomach and ass rising up and down and her almost inaudible moans could barely be heard over her heavy but still quiet breathing. She pulled me up to her, we were in missionary and we kissed passionately as she guided me into her. We had sex that was slow and quiet but very hot and erotic because we had to stay quiet. She bit on her pillow when she had an orgasm and when I came shortly after she put her hand over my mouth and "shh, shh, shh" 'ed me during my orgasm. We made out and kissed for about 15 minutes before she asked if I wanted to do it again. This time she climbed on top of me and rode me slow and hard all while staying quiet. She bent down and laid on me, her breasts pressed against my chest as she orgasmed on top of me. When I came she kissed me full on french style to stifle my grunting as I shot my load inside her (condom).
This isn't about losing your virginity but rather the first time you touched someone's private parts/genitals. How did it feel, how did you feel? What did you think? Describe your experience.

I'm not talking about curious elementary school kids playing doctor, but when you were older and it was the first truly mutual and consentual sexual contact with a partner.

My experience is the first time I touched a vagina. My post about that experience turned out too long so I decided to just publish it as my first short story and I will post it here when it gets approved.
Mr. Nudie, I never correct spelling or grammar but I just have to in this case smile

Only way for a snake to be poisonous is if you eat it! lol ;)

Its the venomous snakes you got to watch out for!
I love kissing, but I've been told a couple times I'm not very good at it. Not sure what I do wrong.
An ex loved it when a guy came inside her ass, but I never tried anal with her so I did not get to unfortunately sad