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SarahFun
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Cis Female, 43
0 miles · Atlanta

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What interests me is how my style has changed in the time since I became single again. Beginning to get myself ready for fall and winter I realize I have relatively few things left from my married days. My teenage daughters have been an influence, but so has the fact that I have a social life with some fun dating

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grrrr, fingers slipped on the keys.
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What I was going to say is that it took me a while to get back into a mode where I realized how much men appreciate a woman in lovely underthings. A once empty lingerie draw is slowly gathering new things -- some of them gifts from men I have been seeing. I guess I don't care how much he wants me to keep on or off
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When I got divorced a while ago I had very little in the way of nice lingerie. It took me a while to get back pa mode where I would even appreciate dating. However, I suppose I have been discovering what a lot of other females knew already, which is now much men apr
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Quote by ErinDcup34
Flirting is a pastime. Teasing is fun, but I make sure to always "follow through" -- If I'm flirting and teasing a guy, I intend for something to happen. It isn't fair to tease and just stop ...


I thoroughly agree -- I learned this lesson the hard way after I became single again
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Quote by ErinDcup34
Flirting is a pastime. Teasing is fun, but I make sure to always "follow through" -- If I'm flirting and teasing a guy, I intend for something to happen. It isn't fair to tease and just stop ...


I thoroughly agree -- I learned this lesson the hard way after I became single again
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It dribbles out pretty quickly, but I use my fingers to speed it on its way
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I like my ass to be prepared for his cock to come in, so fingering me and penetrating with lube. A few slaps and caressing feels gorgeous too. Then his cock, hard and ready and lubed. There is something primal about the kind of arousal that comes with anal sex
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I am fairly new to looking at porn and most of it is really rather dull, following certain formulas that I presume speak to the male libido. However, I have begun to discover lesbian porn. Perhaps this is because I am growing to realize that I am sexually attracted to women as well as men. I am not sure what lesbian sex scenes do for men, but for me they could keep on kissing for hours and hours -- that is a huge turn on for me.
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I am grateful that an X chromosome and another X chromosome met and i was conceived and born female. Males can be very attractive, it is true, but I can't imagine trading in all the lovely things about being a woman for the supposed advantages of being a man. Yes, standing up to pee would be helpful at times and I could do with a few less periods, but who wants to wear male clothes and have a hairy body? I adore being an XX person with all the little privileges that go with it.
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I have up using ball points in favor of a fountain pen because my handwriting was deteriorating terribly. I use a Parker pen I inherited from my grandmother and use Waterman Serenity Blue ink
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As part of my post-marriage wardrobe overhaul I bought some really high heels, what a relative described as my fuck-me shoes. Even though I say it myself, they make my legs look terrific and me feel ultra sexy. I have been until now a woman who if I wore heels at all did so moderately rather than perching atop a high rise. I have persevered with them, but they kill my feet and I am terrified of a broken ankle or worse. Are they worth it?
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Annie, I think I am in transition. Eighteen months ago I would have been mortified to be seen naked in the open. The other day I wanted an all over tan and no longer cared. My fantasies since then have been about the pleasure of being seen.... And wanting it.
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I don't utterly regret marrying the man I did because he did give me two wonderful children. What I do regret is staying with him for as long as I did.
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I was brought up to be extremely modest in terms of clothes I wear and the amount of flesh I show. Since my marriage ended and my ideas have started to change I have become more and more comfortable with nudity. I suppose I realized this yesterday, a lovely sunny day, when I finished my work and decided to catch some rays on the deck. Before long I had discarded my bikini, made sure I was adequately sunscreened in those sensitive places, and felt so wonderfully free. I actually even moved my recliner from a secret spot to a place where I could be seen by others. Am I unusual or do I have an exhibitionist streak?
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i have twice grown my hair long and then had it cut to stubble and given the hair to charity
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I find that my nipples harden and the underside of my breasts becomes very sensitive. I start to blush, my pussy dampens my panties, and a tightening of desire in my abdoment --- but not necessarily in that order
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Lush is one of those things that is in the process of changing me. I arrived here recently divorced, feeling like damaged goods, and not knowing what to do with my feelings and impulses. I come from a strict background, and was ashamed this cascade of sexual desires. I am a work in progress and am beginning to appreciate that there's nothing wrong in being attracted to women and men, for example
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I was married to a man who liked to wear panties but the point was reached where he went too far
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I recently had several dates with a man with designer stubble, and I just didn't like the way it felt against my face when he kissed me. It looks like laziness to me -- too lazy to shave.
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I wish I had been a snoop when I was still married, perhaps then I could have gotten some idea what was going on in his life that ultimately blew us apart.
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I had never really seen much porn until a year or so ago. I thought I was a very straight woman when it came to sex, but watching lesbian sex has been incredible. Not only does it arouse me and give me a lot of pleasure but I want to do it with other women. Some days I wonder if I might not prefer women to men
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I guess I have been more like Kate for most of my life, dutiful, conventional, good, but wish I was as pretty. Inside, however, there is a Meaghan, sexual and wanting her own way.
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What I love about Lush is that there are real people here who know how to be naughty in their daily lives. I am realizing that my awful divorce drew a line under me as a good girl. Lush is fun because it is showing me what the possibilities are so that I can begin to explore them. My ex now lives a long way away and is on a journey that I refuse to take with him. I now live hundreds of miles from family and old associations. I am discovering some of the joys of being single again that were for so long forbidden. Lush is gradually helping me change -- and I like it.