For me, my orgasm begins with what I would imagine is a similar sensation to what women describe as a tingling in their pussy. But for me, this is only just before orgasm. My cock getting hard doesn't really in and of itself "feel" different other than in the obvious ways.
As that tingling starts, what conscious thoughts I do have are dominated by things like, "Oh yes! Oh yes!" Sometimes I know that the longer I can hold off, the more intense the orgasm will be. Eventually, I will tense up. If I am inside my woman, I'll usually thrust as deep as I can. The first ejaculatory pulse is always the most intense, and if I'm not contained, it will shoot quite a ways. After the second or third pulse, the crash will start, and I'll collapse into afterglow. I will usually pulse a few more times, trailing off. My cock is actually more sensitive after I've come, but not in a particularly comfortable way.
If I've been taking care of myself, I'll reach for the tissues and clean up. I like to do this even if I am heading for a shower, as I don't want to drip anywhere.
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I didn't visit the site in question, but I happen to know that in the closing month of the year I was born men orbited the moon for the first time. They would land 8 months later, when I was about a year and a half old. I am privileged to have been born to a world where man had not yet left their home planet, and I might yet still live to see us visit Mars.
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Trusting.
She's constantly making helpful suggestions and offering advice, like I can't handle doing anything on my own.
I swear, women say they want a knight in shining armor, but what they REALLY want is a little boy they can mother. Bleah!
You really, REALLY want to make a positive impact on your man?
The next time he makes a mistake, gets lost, or screws something up, and he KNOWS he did - pretend it didn't happen. Look the other way. Bite your tongue and say nothing. Let him fix it on his own and THEN tell him you're proud of him.
Trust me on that one.
She's constantly making helpful suggestions and offering advice, like I can't handle doing anything on my own.
I swear, women say they want a knight in shining armor, but what they REALLY want is a little boy they can mother. Bleah!
You really, REALLY want to make a positive impact on your man?
The next time he makes a mistake, gets lost, or screws something up, and he KNOWS he did - pretend it didn't happen. Look the other way. Bite your tongue and say nothing. Let him fix it on his own and THEN tell him you're proud of him.
Trust me on that one.
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Whilst strikes me as being either poetic or Shakespearean.
Ok, that's "whiles" instead of "whilst," but you know what I mean.
If not, why, in a moment look to see
The blind and bloody soldier with foul hand
Defile the locks of your shrill-shrieking daughters;
[...]
Whiles the mad mothers with their howls confused
Do break the clouds [...]!
Henry V, Act 3, Scene 3.
Ok, that's "whiles" instead of "whilst," but you know what I mean.
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Anyone have any particular observations concerning optimal times to submit stories? And by optimal, I don't have any particular yardstick in mind.
It seems to me there's a balance between how long a story can remain on the front page vs how many people are visiting Lush at that time. It suggests to me that it's all a wash.
Any other perspectives?
It seems to me there's a balance between how long a story can remain on the front page vs how many people are visiting Lush at that time. It suggests to me that it's all a wash.
Any other perspectives?
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I've been writing erotica for about 3 weeks now. Haven't written anything since school.
I started with a short vignette that I had designed around a D/s scene where the Dom would not actually touch the sub.
That morphed into The Training of Lucy, in which I tried to tell a REAL story about how a TPE relationship might begin.
After that, I wrote a DD story, but it was rejected as the framework for consent was not sufficiently clear. As a replacement, I wrote a story about a maintenance spanking. By coincidence, the sub's name was Amanda and I happened to think to myself that it would be quite a challenge to write a spanking story from A to Z. I'm through "O" at the moment... Eleven more to go...
I started with a short vignette that I had designed around a D/s scene where the Dom would not actually touch the sub.
That morphed into The Training of Lucy, in which I tried to tell a REAL story about how a TPE relationship might begin.
After that, I wrote a DD story, but it was rejected as the framework for consent was not sufficiently clear. As a replacement, I wrote a story about a maintenance spanking. By coincidence, the sub's name was Amanda and I happened to think to myself that it would be quite a challenge to write a spanking story from A to Z. I'm through "O" at the moment... Eleven more to go...
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Right hand around the shaft. No lube. Not to tight, not too loose. Stroke very, very fast.
It's really a problem for me, because it's starting to become about the only way I can have an orgasm. I can't move my hips as fast as I can move my hand, so it's difficult to get off with a partner.
It's really a problem for me, because it's starting to become about the only way I can have an orgasm. I can't move my hips as fast as I can move my hand, so it's difficult to get off with a partner.
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I'm a dom, so I'm sure I'm not the right person to answer this, but I'll give it a try.
If a woman had turned to BDSM as a dominant as a way of asserting control and expressing power as a way to make up for her past, where she had been denied that power by abuse, then I'd caution that "DIY mental therapy" like that might not be the best approach. I'd be the first to admit that I'm not an expert, however.
If she had been in an abusive relationship, however, then I'd almost suggest that that would heighten her sensitivity to issues surrounding partner abuse. I would, admittedly without knowing anything about the situation, be less inclined to believe that she'd be out for revenge against a proxy for her abuser than that she'd be sensitive to insuring that she wouldn't hurt anyone the way she had been hurt.
If you're talking about your mistress, then you likely know better than any of us. If she's still dealing with issues from her past abuse, then she probably would benefit from talking to a professional. Other than that, if you are satisfied with the relationship dynamic - particularly that you feel safe while she is exerting physical control - then that's probably the only other real worry, and it's not particularly different in this case than any other.
I hope I haven't put my foot in my mouth.
If a woman had turned to BDSM as a dominant as a way of asserting control and expressing power as a way to make up for her past, where she had been denied that power by abuse, then I'd caution that "DIY mental therapy" like that might not be the best approach. I'd be the first to admit that I'm not an expert, however.
If she had been in an abusive relationship, however, then I'd almost suggest that that would heighten her sensitivity to issues surrounding partner abuse. I would, admittedly without knowing anything about the situation, be less inclined to believe that she'd be out for revenge against a proxy for her abuser than that she'd be sensitive to insuring that she wouldn't hurt anyone the way she had been hurt.
If you're talking about your mistress, then you likely know better than any of us. If she's still dealing with issues from her past abuse, then she probably would benefit from talking to a professional. Other than that, if you are satisfied with the relationship dynamic - particularly that you feel safe while she is exerting physical control - then that's probably the only other real worry, and it's not particularly different in this case than any other.
I hope I haven't put my foot in my mouth.
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I think the selection of categories pretty accurately reflects the range of stories people like to read and write. After all, there is a link at the bottom to a contact form that allows one to suggest new categories. Surely at least a few of the categories didn't exist at the start and were added to the site by request/demand.
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This is true but we would really prefer you to submit only one story per day so that other authors' stories may be verified more quickly. If you throw twenty into the queue at once, expect nineteen of them to be rejected with a note telling you to resubmit tomorrow. Two, maybe three, is usually okay.
Oh. I didn't know about that. If it weren't for this, I would have submitted a 10 parter one part at a time, but one after another until done. Bad?
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It came up in one of the threads DirtyMartini linked, but it bears repeating:
DO NOT start a multi-part story unless you intend to finish it.
I would actually go a little further. DO NOT post part 1 until you have written the whole thing. Lush lets you keep unpublished drafts. You don't need to submit them until they're ready. This also give you the ability to make changes to the earlier parts, for example, to maintain continuity.
Some more things I learned:
1. You can publish as many stories as you like at a time, but they will only hit the front page once per day. This does not, however, mean they are unavailable. Post links in your profile blog so your followers can get a jump on reading them. Link to part 2 from the end of part 1 so people can keep reading. The benefit here is that when the subsequent parts DO show up on the front page, they'll already have some views and votes.
2. Do not submit more than one story part for review at one time. The review system is not a queue. The reviewers do not necessarily review stories in order. If you submit multiple stories for review at the same time, then if they're reviewed in the wrong order, then the "wrong" one will wait 24 hours for the "right" one before hitting the front page. This is awkward. Submit part 1, wait for it to be approved, then submit part 2, wait for it, etc.
DO NOT start a multi-part story unless you intend to finish it.
I would actually go a little further. DO NOT post part 1 until you have written the whole thing. Lush lets you keep unpublished drafts. You don't need to submit them until they're ready. This also give you the ability to make changes to the earlier parts, for example, to maintain continuity.
Some more things I learned:
1. You can publish as many stories as you like at a time, but they will only hit the front page once per day. This does not, however, mean they are unavailable. Post links in your profile blog so your followers can get a jump on reading them. Link to part 2 from the end of part 1 so people can keep reading. The benefit here is that when the subsequent parts DO show up on the front page, they'll already have some views and votes.
2. Do not submit more than one story part for review at one time. The review system is not a queue. The reviewers do not necessarily review stories in order. If you submit multiple stories for review at the same time, then if they're reviewed in the wrong order, then the "wrong" one will wait 24 hours for the "right" one before hitting the front page. This is awkward. Submit part 1, wait for it to be approved, then submit part 2, wait for it, etc.
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It quite portrays females as mindless sex objects who wants:
1. Cum
2. Cock
3. Pussy
From everyone!
Same with males.
Given how many times I hear ladies complain about men saying, "Hey! My eyes are up here!" I find it humorously ironic that you said it's unrealistic that men are portrayed as only wanting sex.
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If I had my way, ladies over the legal age would be banned from wearing any clothing other than shoes. On their 18th birthday, they'd have a special "unveiling" ceremony celebrating their blossoming into nude womanhood.
uh... 'scuse me. I think I have a story to write....
uh... 'scuse me. I think I have a story to write....
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Wow, that's quite a mood painting you've made.
Alas, I can't fib. The process is much more mechanical and businesslike for me. Usually if a scene can't flow for me, it's because I'm struggling with the characters' motivations. The thought process is, for instance, "Right now, they're on a dinner date. I need them to wind up at his place with his cock in her mouth. How can I get them from point A to point B in a believable way? I mean, he can't just ask her to pop by his house and blow him... Hmm..." Because to me, what separates "porn" from "storytelling" is how many of your readers scoff at what your characters do on their way to getting naked.
I guess for me, the process itself is more work than play.
What IS fun for me is dreaming up the scenarios. And, later, when it's finished, re-reading my work brings the image back to my head of the scenario... And that's nice too.
Alas, I can't fib. The process is much more mechanical and businesslike for me. Usually if a scene can't flow for me, it's because I'm struggling with the characters' motivations. The thought process is, for instance, "Right now, they're on a dinner date. I need them to wind up at his place with his cock in her mouth. How can I get them from point A to point B in a believable way? I mean, he can't just ask her to pop by his house and blow him... Hmm..." Because to me, what separates "porn" from "storytelling" is how many of your readers scoff at what your characters do on their way to getting naked.
I guess for me, the process itself is more work than play.
What IS fun for me is dreaming up the scenarios. And, later, when it's finished, re-reading my work brings the image back to my head of the scenario... And that's nice too.
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I'll also add that I discovered/learned that only edits to the story's body will result in re-verification. You can change tags, the one-liner or title more or less freely.
If you change the title, however, the URL of the story will change. That will invalidate any links to the story from anywhere else (forum signature, links you've given out in chat, blog postings in your profile, etc)
If you change the title, however, the URL of the story will change. That will invalidate any links to the story from anywhere else (forum signature, links you've given out in chat, blog postings in your profile, etc)
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I just finished reading "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus."
Yeah, yeah. How Oprah. No. Really. Guys, go read the book. You too, ladies.
Any straight person who thinks his or her partner loves him or her less than he or she probably doesn't appreciate the differences between how men and women behave, think and love.
Here's a preview:
Men, your woman want to be cherished, validated, for you to be devoted.
Ladies, your man wants you to trust, accept and admire him.
Those are all "love," but they're not the same things.
The golden rule isn't "do unto others as you would have them to unto you."
It's "do unto others as they would have you do unto them."
Yeah, yeah. How Oprah. No. Really. Guys, go read the book. You too, ladies.
Any straight person who thinks his or her partner loves him or her less than he or she probably doesn't appreciate the differences between how men and women behave, think and love.
Here's a preview:
Men, your woman want to be cherished, validated, for you to be devoted.
Ladies, your man wants you to trust, accept and admire him.
Those are all "love," but they're not the same things.
The golden rule isn't "do unto others as you would have them to unto you."
It's "do unto others as they would have you do unto them."