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Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Female, 38
0 miles · Seattle

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So, as a human who regularly goes down on other humans, I prefer at least trimmed to totally unrestrained. I like to keep it out of my mouth, if possible, because it's very distracting. That's all I really care about. As far as trimmed or shaved is concerned, I really like that to be my partner's preference, but, changing it up from time to time can also be fun.

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Having grown up in a college town (and periodically there since) with a significant participation in the greek system, I can see your point for sure. Even in the city I currently live, I definitely get it too - though I do live right next to one the campuses here too. I expect there are exceptions to this, but my assessment is at most times, not all that dissimilar.

To actually answer the question, I do not find it intrinsically flattering or insulting to be hit on in public. Most of the time I find it somewhat invasive, but occasionally someone with an extremely well thought out line will get me to laugh and I will potentially start a conversation. That's pretty much it. I do not reward the type of advances I think you are talking about, and I especially don't reward it with sex.

If you are going to comment on how a woman looks - which I don't really recommend - here is a decent guideline: comment on something that they chose, rather than something that they were born with. When you comment on a stranger's body, it's intrusive and gross... If you tell me I have a nice ass, I will think you're a jerk. If you tell me I have nice eyes, I will think you are boring and probably kind of a tool because that's all you can think of. If you say you think my hair looks nice, it's better if you clarify that you're talking about my hairstyle. Compliment the outfit I put together, or the cute headband or necklace I put on.

The reason I wrote out a little spectrum of commentary is to try and illustrate the ways in which they are different, and the subtlety of the relevant changes. I hope this has been helpful.
Not a fan. Just feels... strange in a bad way, I guess. To me, I mean.
Don't really wear a bra, so I obviously don't sleep in one. I walk around naked around the house and at events where it's appropriate to do so. Does that count as flashing?
It's not gross. It can be messy, if you are unprepared for it, or it turns out to be more than was expected, but it's not gross. Personally, I think it's really hot.
Definitely depends on what I'm doing with it. If they're going to fuck me, preferably more than four inches, and definitely no more than eight or nine inches. It's too much for me. If I'm just going to suck it or play with it, we can go as big (or small, for that matter) as is available.
I think that's a perfectly reasonable way to define it, but there are probably other ways to do so also. For example: you could suck him off and finish with your hands. That is still completion.
I'm not sure that I could, but I think that trying to define love for all people is probably an impossible task.
I have definitely been watched, I have not, to my knowledge, been filmed.
I'm not sure I'd say that it's weird, just kind of unusual. Doesn't seem that different from putting sugar in coffee, to me. I usually only use it when baking things. In general, foods which need a sugary base that I might also flavor with bourbon/whiskey/whisk. Baked goods (it makes a great additive to a pumpkin or pecan pie), candied nuts, one time a glaze for a giant fillet of salmon. I'm told it's tasty on flan, but it is my position that flan is vile, so I have no opinion on that.
It has to be really cold for me to sleep any other way. I feel so strangled and claustrophobic under blankets if I'm wearing anything at all. Shudder...
I've certainly been told that I look young, but also that I look a bit elder and distinguished. That said, I do get carded more often than not, so, who the fuck knows?
Yep. Numerous times. They are not as sexy as people think they're going to be, but fun nonetheless.
She seems pretty nice, but I'll bet there's a naughty side in there too. smile
Regularly, but, not what I thought this thread was going to be regarding. :P
Nope, nope, nope, and nope. It is not something I judge harshly, just something I am not into. Could probably be convinced that one or both of the first two was a good choice. For certain not in my mouth, though. Not all that gross (I have worked in the medical field), just not sexy for me.
A little of both. I don't publicize it, but my close friends, my wife, and my other partners all know that I am here. As a writer of non-erotic fiction, and a participant in other fields, I do try not to rub this aspect of my life in everyone's face. For example, my family definitely do not know, who have a hard enough time dealing with my polyamory. I think that seven people know, not including myself.
Typically nothing, but it's cold lately, so sweatpants and a t-shirt have been fairly common, lately.
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I try to make eye contact first, or at least not ogle. Saw a woman on the sidewalk this morning overtly ogling the other ladies at the bus stop and cat calling at others walking by. It was actually a very strange juxtaposition of imagery. In fairness to whether or not I am more discreetly ogling her, I could be even when I appear to be look at her face. The neck is the most attractive part of a human body, I think.