It’s a perfect Southern California day. Sunny, warm, a little breeze blowing in from the patio. The best part is that we are spending the day together. We’ve been together a few months exploring and discovering each other. You said the dynamic we were creating could be called reciprocal submission or a new-age fluid dominance. You explained there was something deeply reciprocatory between us as if every thought, every wor...

It’s a sunny Sunday morning in Southern California and I’m making my usual run to Trader Joe’s - when you live in SoCal, where else would you shop? I grab a basket and make a right turn into the produce section. TJ’s has everything. I need an avocado. Walking up to the display where they are, I see you. You’ve got about 5 ripe ones in your basket and you are examining, squeezing, checking to find another. Of course, I’m c...