I am the crazy Canuk (small town girl smack dab in between Toronto and London... blink and you'll pass through the town) who lives in the desert of China. Inner Mongolia to be exact.
Spent time in the Yangtze Region of China, before that Nunavut in various hamlets.
What can I say? I like to live in places that don't get a lot of tourists!!! LOL!!!
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I've been six foot one (and a bit and darn tootin proud of that bit too), since the since I turned eight years old. Pretty much everyone I encounter on a day to day basis is shorter than I.
I am used to it.
When it comes to dating? I go more for a man's personality than anything.
But... that being said.... tall men are yummy to look at. ONLY if they have good posture and do not slouch. Many of the taller men I have known, have terrible posture.
As someone mentioned earlier in this thread, "short man syndrome"... I am well familiar with this. Some of the shorter men I have known have been some of the most bitter, self conscious people I have ever met. They seem to feel like they have something to prove because they are a few inches shorter than I. And some of these men, get mean.
All in all... it comes to personal preference.
I am used to it.
When it comes to dating? I go more for a man's personality than anything.
But... that being said.... tall men are yummy to look at. ONLY if they have good posture and do not slouch. Many of the taller men I have known, have terrible posture.
As someone mentioned earlier in this thread, "short man syndrome"... I am well familiar with this. Some of the shorter men I have known have been some of the most bitter, self conscious people I have ever met. They seem to feel like they have something to prove because they are a few inches shorter than I. And some of these men, get mean.
All in all... it comes to personal preference.
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Good evening!!!
I went looking for something similar today as I enjoy some threads more than others, but my tastes do not always run with other peoples tastes, so when I post into a thread that is not a very popular thread, it gets bumped off the Forum homepage and sometimes it takes me quite a while to find it.
I found in the top right corner a thingie where you can watch the thread, but I am only asking because I am lazy and forgetful... can we have something like this put beside the "quick reply" icon at the bottom of the screen or under the submit button on both the quick reply or post reply screens??? (Kindof like when you post a new topic? You can watch it for replies)
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I went looking for something similar today as I enjoy some threads more than others, but my tastes do not always run with other peoples tastes, so when I post into a thread that is not a very popular thread, it gets bumped off the Forum homepage and sometimes it takes me quite a while to find it.
I found in the top right corner a thingie where you can watch the thread, but I am only asking because I am lazy and forgetful... can we have something like this put beside the "quick reply" icon at the bottom of the screen or under the submit button on both the quick reply or post reply screens??? (Kindof like when you post a new topic? You can watch it for replies)
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James Bond is/was a jackwagon. Cool toys granted, but I never could stand the character.
James bond is not a jackwagon, take that back.
No.
Someone has to be the jackwagon. And since I do not have the handle bar to be one... if James Bond is not a jackwagon... do you want to be the jackwagon??? (BOYAH!!!! Twice in one sentence!!!!)
I know this is in the ask the guys thread...and this is a wee bit off topic, but you did make mention of bodily fluids in your mouth. Does that include a woman's cum as well?
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Just because having any bodily fluid in my mouth besides someones saliva from a kiss is just gross to me.
Also tasting your semen seems demeaning in a way to a man. I bet you James bond never did any shit like that.....
Do any women out there think watching the guy they're fucking eat his own cum somehow makes him a bit less manly?
James Bond is/was a jackwagon. Cool toys granted, but I never could stand the character.
I love the thought of a man licking me clean after he has cum in me and then kissing him. Having his tongue slide over mine after I have swallowed his load. Personally; I feel it makes him more manly in my eyes, and I usually find myself wanting more of him. I do not understand why or how it would be demeaning to a man to taste his own semen. But if it is demeaning to a man to taste his own cum, would it also not be demeaning for a woman to enjoy the taste of her cum as well?
I would say that most of the Chinese men I've been with have been repulsed at the idea of feasting upon me, or the thought of kissing me if I have had his cum anywhere near my mouth. To me, I just find this silly.
As for the Western men I have had... about half have enjoyed how aroused I got from the sight of them licking their fingers clean, licking my pussy clean after they have cum, kissing me after I have enjoyed his cock... that they got into it more. The other half; "fuck no makes me fucking gay" is usually the response I get. I find that to be a huge turn off and find it hard to get back into the mood with them if at all.
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I find choosing books a very personal thing. As a silly analogy, I'd almost liken it to buying shoes. Would you let someone else choose shoes for you? There's a high likelihood you're not going to like them.
Yup. Trust me. Never ask your mother or your sisters to buy you shoes. They never listen; even when you supply them with pictures and catalog numbers. Or magazines. I ask for "Scientific America"? And I get "Cosmo".
Answering with some positive, basically as you have written in here, lots of meaningful stuff (expand if you can), is in my opinion a good answer followed by, 'it really wasn't my cup of tea for I like action/light hearted/ romance/ escaping etc....'. That way you have mentioned one positive, and no negatives, just not your genre of reading. And this way, you are explaining that you are not saying it is the book or the person who recommended it to you; you are just saying it is not something you enjoy reading in your free time.
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So let me get this straight. If I click on something and it does it then it's your fault not mine ....right??Kinda like the Wet Paint Sign.. you know you just wanna touch...
Right-o!!!! Feel free to blame it all on my touch pad. It is ok!!!! Tee he he... I will thank-you for it later!!!
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This may be a silly question... but I just have to ask it...
I have a wonky touch pad on my computer, and sometimes I click things I do not mean to click. Are there pop up thingies that say... are you sure??? Are you really sure you want to do this??? Are you sure sure???
I have a wonky touch pad on my computer, and sometimes I click things I do not mean to click. Are there pop up thingies that say... are you sure??? Are you really sure you want to do this??? Are you sure sure???
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I was actually having this conversation the other day... and I asked an even more ridiculous question... I wonder if super hero's shave? I mean would Batman have special toys for that? Or would the Joker have green pubes as well???
But I never laughed so hard all week as when I was having that conversation... so I thought may as well pass the humour on!!!!
But I never laughed so hard all week as when I was having that conversation... so I thought may as well pass the humour on!!!!
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Everyone!!!!! I do tell everyone that my hobby is to write. To my family, they think it is children's stories and romance as that is what I show them and tell them. To friends who are not Chinese, they all know that I write erotica. To my students and Chinese friends, they all know I write romance.
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This is as close as I could find to the book cover I could remember. Mine was leather, old. I remember it, as my mother was taking a night school course for upgrading her nursing thingamabop, and she would sit at the kitchen table and read through this massive book. The cover of it was a deep green, and simple. I would sit at the table with her and read my book.
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I'd finally be able to see how men see the world!!!! That would be brilliantly fantastic!!!
Think about it!!!! To see, to smell, to taste, to hear, and feel all that men do on a daily basis... I would love to experience how they think as well.
But I think I would be a little upset that my toys were not as much fun!!!! And I would like to know if morning wood is as painful as they say it is. And pee standing up. Write my name in the snow/sand.
Oh there is so much I would do!!! And these are just the things before my mind goes off into erotic thoughts!!!
Think about it!!!! To see, to smell, to taste, to hear, and feel all that men do on a daily basis... I would love to experience how they think as well.
But I think I would be a little upset that my toys were not as much fun!!!! And I would like to know if morning wood is as painful as they say it is. And pee standing up. Write my name in the snow/sand.
Oh there is so much I would do!!! And these are just the things before my mind goes off into erotic thoughts!!!
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Quote by Rontre
Let me start out by saying that I come to the Church Of Lush as an unauthorized, non sanctified , non rectified, unqualified, observer who will probably be kicked the hell off of this site Ostracized by my peers if you will. . But how could they be my peers when they are being held in such high esteem as "gods" "Alpha this & Alpha that". "high preists & high preistess.. Almost everyone that has posted on this thread are now the leaders in this organization. But there is no one to do the following. With so many "alphas" & "gods " trying to rule it will be only a short period before all hell breaks loose. In reality there can only be ONE alpha ,& girls,it's likely to be a man. He has dominance over everything and will hold that dominance untill it is [aken' from him. Usually , because of al. ehe is "dethroaned" by a much younger& stronger rival. Perhaps it could have been his own sonj or grandson that took his status away
So beautiful ladies always remember: only the strong survive. And there is such a thing as an "alpha female". ,Take your place!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .
Btw, I know that I'll probably catch hell over this post for the rest of my natural or un natural life Won't have any friends left after this
Never fear Rontre darling... if you have kinky thoughts.... then all is well!!!!! Besides. No matter what one calls themselves....we are all naked underneath!!!!
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HIS BRAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nothing gets me more turned on than his brain, then watching his body, his face especially when I know his hamster is running that wheel making it turn... thinking anything from the erotic to how to put that table together or work related....
Nothing gets me more turned on than his brain, then watching his body, his face especially when I know his hamster is running that wheel making it turn... thinking anything from the erotic to how to put that table together or work related....
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You guys are awesome! And Rocco...nice sign!! Just whose name are we shouting!? lol
MINE!!!! MINE!!! MINE!!!! Shout my name to the rafters only after I get on my knees and pay homage to the man... wow.... that so very much could work for a new story..... LOL!!!!!
Brilliant!!!!!!
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Quote by chefkathleenQuote by duke61
My daughter is breaking up with a long (3year she is 20) relationship. Her Mom, my Love pasted away right before she started dating this clown. I don't like this guy from the begining....I'm a dad yes, but I am a man could see he was no good. My question is I am no good at hiding my feelings, but feel so bad she is hurting.
whats the best way to console her she is my baby my only child I want to help not sure how.
Don't try to buy her love Dad. Just let her talk her feelings out about him and say umm humm in the right places. Tell her she's a beautiful girl inside and out and if it was meant to be it would be. Encourage her to keep busy with her friends and work. Time heals all wounds and this too shall pass. (I know cliche but true) Tell her you love her often and that you're here if she wants to talk or just to use your shoulder to cry on. Basically, just be there for her and let her know that you are.
I second this.
Don't try to buy her love.... but some Ben and Jerry's, or some Kisses never hurt while you are talking to her.
As well, you cannot hide your emotions, and that is ok. What she will see (hopefully!!!!!!!!) is that you are there for her, and not criticising or nit picking her about her choices in life. Make her lots of tea, hot cocoa, coffee.... and let her know you are there. Watch some girlie movies together; but then again remember... sometimes, all she needs is you to be there and not say anything. Just to know you are there helps.
In my opinion, it is the little things that my parents do that I love the most about them. My mother found out through the grapevine one year that I broke up with a boyfriend of quite a while, she made my favourite dinner, told my sisters to shut it all evening, and my dad gave me the remote to pick what I wanted to watch. Sounds lame I know; but for me, it made me feel "brighter" during that time.
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Aloe and honey tea. Great for the digestion.
Change your pillow cases twice a week if you have problem skin.
Pop a Vitamin E capsule, and apply under your eyes using the pads of your ring finger, massaging in a circular motion under your eyes, gently over your lids. Put a cotton facial pad over your closed eyes and take two already seeped green tea bags on top. Sit back for about fifteen minutes, rinse your face, moisturise and off you go!!!!
In the summer time, replace that second cup of coffee in the morning with a large cup of well steeped green tea. Adds a bounce to my step!!!
Change your pillow cases twice a week if you have problem skin.
Pop a Vitamin E capsule, and apply under your eyes using the pads of your ring finger, massaging in a circular motion under your eyes, gently over your lids. Put a cotton facial pad over your closed eyes and take two already seeped green tea bags on top. Sit back for about fifteen minutes, rinse your face, moisturise and off you go!!!!
In the summer time, replace that second cup of coffee in the morning with a large cup of well steeped green tea. Adds a bounce to my step!!!
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When sun bathing, apply olive oil over more than just the ends avoiding the roots of your hair. Pin up and toss your head in a bag. I mean wrap your hair in a shower cap or plastic bag. Apply an SPF factor sun screen and go soak up the sun. Your hair will thank-you!!!
Take a bucket of water; hot or cold, make sure the water level is over your ankles, and put in about 1/4 cup of white vinegar. Soak your tender tootsies to kill bacteria, fungus and neutralise odors. Do at least once a day, soak for about fifteen minutes. This also softens the skin on your feet!!!
Never wear nail polish for more than seven days in a row to prevent dry nails.
Take a bucket of water; hot or cold, make sure the water level is over your ankles, and put in about 1/4 cup of white vinegar. Soak your tender tootsies to kill bacteria, fungus and neutralise odors. Do at least once a day, soak for about fifteen minutes. This also softens the skin on your feet!!!
Never wear nail polish for more than seven days in a row to prevent dry nails.