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i only use swear words with intent - not one to just throw them into conversation. if you hear "fuck" or a variation of it coming from my mouth, you should be aware that it might be wise to take a step back. that said, these days, it doesn't happen too often and mostly, it's aimed at Buz ;)

"cunt", btw, never gets used as a swear word, at least by me. it's a beautiful word, and i never use it in a negative fashion. Prick, on the other hand... smile



Love this. I agree about the word cunt, when he whispers "he loves my sweet little cunt". Why is it such a terrible word when swearing? Also the F* word, I struggle when I hear people (mostly men) using words to swear without thinking of their meaning.

The difference between a word being beautiful, and the same word being aggressive and nasty is so vast.

And I understand about Prick too. I don't use it in any conversation but I can only imagine it negatively ?

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This question originates from my school experience when lads had 3 separate words they chose to use in a denigrating manner.

(1) F***ing.... Used in practically every sentence to punctuate any noun.
(2) W**ker.... Anybody the talker disagreed with, became one of these.
(3) C**t........ A severe example of the previous description.

I can honestly say that (at the time) I simply didn't know the real meaning of these words and I was seriously put-off boys. OK, so I may have been naïve but frankly, I hated hearing them being spoken aggressively and I still do today, especially when used for swearing without thought. When a man says F**k, what is the point ?!!!


Now in my early/mid 20's and happily in love the meanings have changed. My boyfriend can whisper in my ear as we make love and these words can be beautiful and such a turn-on during LOVE. Yet I still hear them used commonly for aggressive swearing.


Do I swear? Yes I do, although I'm not entirely sure why!!
My favourites are a play on the dirtiest of all SH1T. I'll say Shoot, or Sugar or in really bad circumstances the full Sh1Te.
I'll do Blast, and occasionally Bugger... although I hate this word.


How do you swear? If there are girls replying to this, please say....
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Funny, I don't like loud chatter but quiet mutters are kind of exciting. Don't know why. Makes me want to cuddle him closer...
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I'm interested because my bf is either groaning or whispering something quietly. Never loud, but if he's not kissing me he's usually saying something...
"is that nice"
"do you want me"
"this is it"
"gently does it"
"cuddle me" (just before he cums)
and much much more totally randomly, often hard to hear

...but always mumbling something before his climax !


What does yours do ???
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hmmm, reading some of the comments here makes me feel guilty. My b/f doesn't know but he definitely enjoys a benefit. I love him loads but can't bring myself to tell him about Lush.

In my case I only came here looking to write my own true story (which I haven't done) and then got wrapped up reading stories in the areas I love. Yes, I chat with guys and listen to what's in their head.

I guess there IS an element of cheating in there
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Question for the men - do you wear a ring on the 4th finger of your left hand?
Please also say if you are single, unattached, married, engaged, in a relationship etc..
Any reasons other than the obvious for your choice to wear or not wear a ring?


ooops, I meant the third finger but you probably know what I was asking !
I'm not married and wear a ring on my 2nd finger but I want another ring. I tried 1st and 4th but the wedding finger is where it might be most comfortable.
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Gentle SQUEEZE is nice any time, walking, cooking, sleeping. Bottom pats can be nice too but Spanks are only special times or they're rude !!
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Yes, all you guys!! There's a shortage of nice pictures - am I the only girl that likes men's bottoms? (Love the avatar though)
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Come on boys..... never mind the muscly upper body pics, where are your nice natural, soft and sensual bottom and leg photos ?

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No No No, I never would.

But I think about having a shag every day!! Simply imagining what might happen with the different guys in the office.

Then I go home hot and frustrated..... and in need !
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I always sleep on the right side at home.

If I turn towards my bf I've got better options with my right hand and arm. Stronger more versatile !!! My left hand is useless.

My bf says he's nearest the landing door in case of intruders or problems. The left side is also nearest the bathroom.

When we stay away from home we WILL switch sides occasionally so I'm on the left which is never so comfortable for me. But strangely it coincides with the bathroom being on the far side again.

So I actually think the choice of sides is due to my guy wanting to be near the bathroom whereas I have the long walk.

Any thoughts ?


ADDED THIS LATER....

so is the guy choosing to sleep nearer the exit door or nearer the bathroom ? (at home, in hotels, away from normal etc.)
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.... if it was a guy or a girl with their head between your legs giving oral?

(imagine you're blindfolded with no other sensory clues but the oral)
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Going to look for mid-rise today but I find it difficult to find low-rise hipsters that show off my bum to the best. Somehow the shape is lost.

Slightly surprised by so many negative high waist comments, especially being an oap jean - I've admired some girls wearing them look really good, in my opinion. Now I'm gonna be really cautious !

Lots of ideas and thoughts to ponder - thanks for all the comments (keep them cuming)
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I'm going to regret writing this. I know it's a bit weird but...

As the girl, I feel in control of my bf capacity to recover.... the only way I can describe it (this isn't meant nastily) but it's like harvesting a crop of something !!!

If you have vegetables in the garden you can pick what is ready. I LOVE it when my man is hungry for me, I can feel the changes in his breathing, his heartbeat, and his erection. I enjoy his excitement which also fulfils me. If I become too greedy and take too much out of him, the hunger isn't the same but he can still 'perform'. Then it's not so good. This will continue but I can totally wear him out.

Our record was 8 times in one evening and night (who's counting?). But it took days (literally days) for him to get back to where he was - heavy on me.

Does that make sense? I want to harvest his ability and stamina for sex but if I take too much, the crop suffers !!!!!

The point I'm making - it's me who's in control of volume and quality of our lovemaking. I'm careful to keep him hot and keen but cautious to prevent him getting tired and bored.

For the record, I'd say his normal recovery time was around an hour. If he's hungry then 20mins but I daren't push him 'harder'. You guys who talk about getting hard during the same penetration - I could only dream.

Can anyone else relate to this - perhaps your own analogies?
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Nice neatly trimmed island, suitable to give a brillo massage to my man.
Clean smoothly shaved lower and around my lips
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I'm buying jeans so I'd like to know which look best in your opinions.

Is it the high waist (belt around the tummy) or the low hipsters (loose on the hips) ?

Think about a 20's year old girl with a decent figure and peachy bum (that I'm proud of!!!) ?

Also, can you just clarify if you're a girl making the comment or a guy?

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Brand new pair of white knickers - with a lacy decoration around the waist
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How long does it take before you can cum again? (or get a stiffy?)

Please be honest? Don't pretend to be Superman? How long would HE take !!

If the time to recover changes, what might impact that time?
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Started with lots of groping and fumbling, without sex....

Then a fair gap and months (years) of simple self pleasuring before I had my first orgasm from the fingers of an older guy. It was sooo good he popped my cherry within minutes. Well worth the wait !




Anal ? Noooooo !
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I'm happy most of the time, sometimes wish they were a bit fuller as a tad small but has advantages too. Would never never never elarge. I've got sensitive nips so can show them off on the right occasions ! Fun seeing different reactions from men AND women
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I'm loving Lush 'cos I can ask stupid intimate questions and discuss outrageous issues without feeling... well...., 'Stupid'? I'd never discuss this wit my closest friends... EVER !!

So, has anyone got thoughts or special tricks coping with his desire once a month? He always gets hungry when there's no food on the table ! He's cuddly and loving and caring so there's no real problem, but I feel his frustration.

The worst thing is giving him a target date because I'm usually a bit tetchy, sensitive, unwilling just after. I'm actually happier and feeling sexier during if that makes sense? (Is that normal?)

I can guess a few things you might say, bj's are the norm, def not anal for me although I like bottom play.


re-reading this... it is stupid isn't it, but heck, here goes....


I'll add....
I'm at my mega-horniest just before, so wearing him out is an option. oh yeah,
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either or as long as my tongue can hit the clit i don't care if my wife shaves her vagina or not


EEEEEEEK.... SHAVES HER VAGINA???
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Good answers. Thank you.

Must admit I do like it trim and to feel hygienic. But I like seeing my small bush in the mirror - it just looks more natural to me and makes me more confident when he's busy down there.

I do shave lower down and between my legs though so full access is maintained !!
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I've got so many questions for you guys.... but mainly, "what's the matter with natural?"

I trim my bush to a neat clean shapely island on my mound but you want completely shaved which looks more like raw chicken. Why?

I like the feel of your pubic hair in my hand, on my face, on my lips. It's natural isn't it?
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I always wear knickers day to day..... but special occasions they become panties.

I like to think a guy will remove my panties, but not that he'd pull down my knickers (laughing now)
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Hey guys..., the perfect breasts for me would be the ones that shrink and hold firm when I'm out jogging but swell and fill my top when dressing up ! Somehow, it doesn't happen that way
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Finally found how to change the picture thingy. It was under Other Options in Settings. Then Change Avatar - just as you all said.
Now then - writing my story might take a while judging by how long it's taking me to get going. I wanted to write and edit drafts in Lush simply so it couldn't be found on my computer. I've got lots of naughty secrets that I'd love to shout from the roof tops really, but I'd die if my friends or family found out. That's why I'm on Lush really, so I can talk to people and hear what open minded people, both male an female make of my sex life so far. I love it. Also turns me on to write it !!! BONUS
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Hiya,

Pls don't be annoyed, I'm sure the answer is obvious and I should have found it but how do I post a photo of myself on my profile? (not just in the image gallery)

Also, I'll want to write my personal story which could take a while but I assume the best method is to cut and paste. Is that right? i.e. there's no facility to save drafts prior to posting the completed story.

Any help or comments pls....
Beth
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