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Oh! This should bring on some really inventive writing. I have no idea how I will tackle this yet, but I don’t usually lack for ideas for very long. Maybe I’ll go watch those hot Pagan Forest videos again for inspiration.

Good on you for the stern AI warning. We’re all drowning in slop already (though some have yet to fully recognize our new reality), and it is an existential threat to what we do here. Good writing is hard fucking work, at least it is for me. No cheating!

Echoing the above comments, I don't think there's a perfect way to do it. Sure, Strap-On Sex arguably belongs under Toys, and Horror and Monster Sex seem an unnecessary dichotomy ... and where's the split between those and Supernatural? Also, why have the vague "Occupations" when most of those stories could either go under Uniform, Medical or Office Sex?

And all sex involving four or more people is supposed to be in Group Sex? That can include orgies (have written that), gangbangs (just wrote that), circle jerks (ditto), bukkake (story planned) and swinging (just wrote that too, although Swinging gets its own genre for some reason), all of which have separate appeal.

Then again, I love that Cuckold and Wife Lovers are separate, because even though the physical acts tend to be about the same, the emotional dynamic can be vastly different. Not to mention the appeal: Cuckold and its related degradation are a pretty hard turnoff to me, while Wife Lovers/hotwife action is a pretty hard on.

In any event, these are the categories we have, and for which hundreds of authors have intentionally written stores. Like Kimmi said, maybe the ambiguity of the categories is a good thing. God knows I wouldn't have much to write about if my own sexuality was cut-and-dried.

Oh boy, choices, choices, choices! Now that I’ve got my Sexy Sixties series capped off, for now at least, um … swingingly … and my Dating Daphne magnum opus out there, and my MLM series kicked off with Succumbing to Temptation, I’m trying to decide where to focus my attention next? Notwithstanding that we are overdue for a competition [3/18 edit: not anymore! Pausing everything to work on my Comp entry! ... published 3/21], three compelling projects compete for my attention.

More Daphne stories seem the obvious choice, since I just introduced her character and want to maintain momentum with her, and of the immediate three I have planned. one will be a “very special” tear-jerker. But I also have three very special Matt-focused stories (set in the steamy summer before I meet daphne) to do, which for seasonal reasons I want done by June. Plus, I’m so happy with how Succumbing to Destiny has started, part of me wants to get cracking on that, even though I officially have higher priorities.

One thing’s for sure: I will never run out of ideas!

After the deeply emotional monument I erected to opposite-sex love in my 100th story, Dating Daphne, I'm going equally deep on same-sex love with my 101st. Succumbing To Temptation dips my toe in the hot waters of fully homosexual MLM (Men Loving Men) fiction for the first time, kicking off my new Succumbing to Destiny series. I acknowledge that this will not be to all of my regular readers’ tastes, but I am confident that it will very much appeal to a subset of them. While depicting physical/sexual acts between two men as vividly as I ever have, I've also tried to paint a much stronger romantic/emotional connection than in the bi-male stories that will continue to form the bulk of my writing.

At fifty-three, Jack can no longer deny his repressed manly desires, which are as much romantic as they are physical. Wanting to forge an emotional connection before hooking up with a man for the first time, what does Jack do? He starts hanging out at the nude beach. Read on to find out how that goes.

Okay, admittedly, the title might be giving something away here. But I hope you still read it.

Succumbing To Temptation

Eventually, the temptations of the nude beach sucked Jack in.

Gay Male

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When I see anything about Golden Showers, I am so turned off and just want to log off.

To be fair, there are other categories on Lush that do that to me. Not to mention some of the stuff that trends in the Gallery.

But don't worry, I won't get into a pissing contest about it. 😉

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So very sad how the voting minority is completely unable to accept their status as the minority.

You mean middle aged white guys?

Both are ugly people. But I’d say dingbat Noem is arguably uglier (and orders of magnitude stupider, intelligence being a dimension of attractiveness for me) than supplicant Bondi. Physically, Noem has made her face truly hideous. That there are guys who find that unnatural butchery attractive staggers my mind.

If those two were my only female choices, I'd really have to give God extra thanks that I was made Bisexual.

The OP question was about whether the guys would suck each other (not whether the woman would suck a guy, which is already expected in MFMs). And my answer is Hell yes, given that I identify so solidly as a cock-loving bisexual that it might be hard for me to agree to mfm/mmf if the other guy isn’t into at least a bit of mutual contact. I certainly haven't written any two-male threesomes where it doesn't happen, or at least lead to something later.

From what I have gathered on the forums here over the years, Manda’s perspective is an extremely common one. Many (maybe most!) women feel threatened or insulted if the guys' activities with each other take the focus of attention off of her. So while MM contact can be part of the action, the woman needs to remain the center of the action, or disaster may result.

That means that any touching or sucking between me and the other guy would likely be fairly brief and not go all the way to orgasm. Also, many women seem to get a special hot thrill in coaxing guys into kissing each other (see: Challengers for just one example), and I'm totally into that if the other guy is. The only anus likely to be penetrated would be hers, though, except for the rare situation where she insists on watching us men fuck. Which I would still totally do if asked.

If the guy and I want more from each other than makes sense in the presence of a lady, the solution is not to embarrass her by leaving her out of anything. It’s to meet up one-on-one later without her! I have no problem with that.

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not surprising that magas are eager for get to use ai to spy on us. drones, everything.

the rightees were alway screaming about how the gvt would do that when democrats were in power.

now reepies - it's just fine, let's do it.

Yep, typical rightie hypocrisy and projection. It never fails. EVERYTHING they have ever complained about is something they are guilty of already … or secretly planning. And all this P2025 shit that Trump has pulled proves the "secretly planning" part. I mean, they fucking documented it.

And that goes double for the complaining itself, which they do a remarkable amount of. Calling libs snowflakes is just a distractionary strategy to keep people from noticing what whiny, wimpy, pussy snowflakes they are themselves.

It’s here! My one-hundredth story! The one that you've been waiting ... well, okay, maybe you haven't been waiting for it, because I haven’t really told you about it until now. But it’s the one that I've been waiting to get *just right* to celebrate this milestone.

Dating Daphne is a tribute to the feeling of falling in love with someone who breezes into your life and, with little warning, reshapes your world. In it, misfit-toy Joe finally meets the woman whose sexual (and non-sexual) quirkiness complements his own. It's a special story for me, in some ways an ode to all of the unique and special women that I have loved, and I'd like to think that it’s one of my best ever.

I hope that you will give it a read, and that it evokes your own memories of one of those helplessly weightless times in your past.

Becoming A Man: Dating Daphne

A love story. With spanking.

Spanking

Although I'm in the midst of a creative spurt right now (although at least partly, it's a matter of spurting out some languishing Drafts that I created years ago), at times I have taken breaks of a couple months, or more. I'm not doing this for the zero money, so if I'm not feeling the creative juices, I don't force it. That's just drudgery, and usually when those feelings of repetitiveness seep in.

I did just take a monthlong break after Christmas, partly because of some huge IRL things going on. Even though consciously I felt uninspired, I think the wheels were still turning in the background. And then BAM! Ideas up the ying-yang. I may not have enough time on this earth to write them all down and get them to publication quality.

The "ideas" I'm talking about mostly aren't about who does what to whose body, although the possible combinations are nearly infinite. The juicy ideas are more about the who. Who are my characters? What is their motivation? What are they thinking - and feeling - as they steer (or stumble) into their latest sexual situation? How does it change them?

Wow, haven’t heard much about condoms and blowjobs since the Eighties. Have we gone back in time?

Condoms are sort-of okay for vaginal sex, but would dull the sensations from what the giver’s tongue is doing so much that I’m not sure I’d see the point in it. Might as well jerk each other off.

And as others have said, if you and the partner are in a situation where you can’t even trust each other to do a fucking blowjob bareback, why the fuck are you even in bed together? I thought sex was supposed to be about intimacy. Sounds like sacrificing quality for quantity to me.

Another new story! Swinging Sixties refers to my swinging sixties, not the swinging nineteen-sixties. When I started my Sexy Sixties series a few months ago, I heard strong feedback from my readers, many of them mature men like myself, asking for more senior bisex!

Well, here is more of what you asked for: My wife Jen, never short on irreverent surprises, suggests we give up monogamy for Lent, and we swing with two other couples. Afterward, Jerry springs some big news on me. Don't worry, it's very good news.

Swinging Sixties

Not the Swinging Nineteen-Sixties. MY Swinging Sixties!

Swingers

I believe I can confirm Kistin’s experience. Usually if I add a series or change categories or add tags, it just accepts it, but I’m pretty sure I’ve had it throw my story into the submission queue at least a couple of times when it was not “supposed” to. That’s why I ALWAYS add a moderator note when I change anything, even for changes that are not supposed to trigger remoderation

Sorry, can’t remember which stories specifically this has happened with.

Whew! This past month was frantic. Published eight stories in thirty days. And my thanks to the moderators for making this possible! Now I'm going to slow down to about three a month.

Just got "Swinging Sixties" submitted to cap off the Sexy Sixties series for the moment. Given the reception, I may resume my tales of liberated sexuality in my sixties ... after I get a bunch of older "younger" stories released out of my drafts folder. I will be in my own sixties soon enough, by which point I kinda want to be done writing a lot about people in their early twenties. But in the near term, I still have some great ideas for Becoming A Man, including an overall climactic finish. In the next installment, Joe is going to get knocked head over heels in "Dating Daphne," an ode to that weightless, helpless, painless feeling of falling in love. It will be my 100th story published here, and I've been working hard to try to make it my best.

My thinking around MM/MLM continues to progress (and what a beautiful take you had on it, techgoddess). While I still want my It's A Date characters to fall in love, I want them to remain gay-leaning bisexual after all, territory I haven’t covered much. Instead, my MLM series with fully gay main characters will be Succumbing to Destiny, with the first chapter, "Succumbing to Temptation," out soon.

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I really need to get educated on Steampunk. When it comes time, may I pick your brain?

Sure! I probably won't get to this story until sometime in 2027, with everything else I have brewing, but yes, absolutely happy to chat about it as it gets closer.

I’d forgotten this thread had taken place, and in the meantime, had begun giving Novels serious thought anyway, in service of my Omnium plan. I’m in no hurry to get to my Big O, by the way, with a goal of late 2027. I did finally come up with my Steampunk concept this week, though, which means I now have at least an idea for every genre. That wasn't easy.

Anyway, I don’t have a strong opinion towards keeping this genre, but I’m going for it anyway. I have realized that a series I started and paused a couple of years ago (It's A Date!) could, with a slight change in direction going forward, become a decent MLM novella. To that end, I have already started reassigning its chapters to the Novels category, with intent to write additional chapters later this year, coalescing into an actual plot. I also have ideas for two additional series that would be conceived as full novels with intentional plot structures.

Sadly, it is time to say goodbye to the lovely Fiona, as she is to fly back home to Ireland today, ending our Serial Thriller series.

She finally got her four-guys-at-once fantasy fulfilled last night, and it gave her what her boyfriend Mark never could: an orgasm. It also gave her an admirer, the very earnest joe71. As her Parting Shot, Fiona wants to thank Joe for his reverent kindness and squeeze in one last thing before she leaves.

Serial Thriller, Epilogue: Parting Shot

The morning after her big night, Fiona has more to share.

Cheating

Finally came up with a Steampunk idea the other day. It won't be set in an alternate timeline like many steampunk stories, but there will be a lot of steam, and steam power. A lot.

It’s finally happening! The gangbang - er, serial sex event - you’ve been waiting for!

Big Beautiful Fiona has dreamed of being serviced by multiple men, not least because her boyfriend Mark can’t quite get her off all by himself. She finally gets her wish in Serial Thriller, The Climax: Serial Fill Her. Being with her in whatever way possible is pretty much my wish, too, and I let her know it. Somehow the other guys are so caught up in the excitement of simply fucking her that they don’t seem to notice I’m doing something slightly more than that.

By the way, this chapter is the climax, but not the conclusion. A brief epilogue is still on the way.

Serial Thriller, The Climax: Serial Fill Her

The event we've all been anticipating is upon us. Fiona finally gets her group fuck.

Group Sex

Having never participated in group sex, I guess I can only say my preference is YES.

Yes. My taste tends towards heavier women.

Why is a bit of an odd question, since most men don't seem introspective enough to really probe why they have the desires they do. Does the average straight guy ask himself why he's attracted to women? Or more specifically, to a particular body type or hairstyle? Of course not. He just is.

But I'll take a shot. in my formative years, thicker girls showed more interest in me than thinner women did. That have been because they weren't fending off advances from as many uber-masculine guys who failed to see their appeal. That's about as close as I can get to the why I am so fucking imprinted, and so love curves on a woman.

Is it overrated? It depends on what you want to get out of it. If you just want to enjoy the sun on your private parts, you'll be happy.

If, on the other hand, you're expecting to see lots of hot, nude women (at least on an American nude beach), you will be sorely disappointed. The only time I've been to one (a legal one, in a state that sanctions them), there were probably at least a hundred people distributed across the mile-long stretch of beach ... of whom maybe five were women. All of them were pretty obviously paired up with guys. The chance of a woman you meet at a nude beach choosing you, and going at it with you, is less than of having aliens descend upon the beach and choosing you for their next anal probe experiment.

Speaking of anal probing, you might find it a very enjoyable experience if your taste also encompasses men. Like I said, the population is easily 90% male and most likely 70% gay or bi. I mean, most of the people at this beach were in a very obvious "gay section" a long walk from the entrance, and I could hear guys going at it in the scrubby, secluded woods behind the beach. I could easily have hooked up with a guy, had I decided to go for it. As Doctor Strangelove said, "All that is required is the will to do so."

I was so amazed by what I saw that I didn't act. But if I went again, knowing what to expect, It would be very difficult to resist temptation. I am working on a story right now about that very temptation and how I would like to succumb to it.

Sounds like a wonderful first step on your journey, Amanda. I especially love "The second our lips met, it just clicked."

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I'd label as bi-curious straight for now, though if I start getting some regular guy action, I guess it will be time to change that to bisexual.

FYI, you can use whichever label you see fit, because orientation is about desire, not experience. It's legit to call yourself bisexual even if you've never touched a man, if that reflects how you feel inside. That also doesn't mean you have to call your self bisexual. You do you.

Last year, I changed my own designation on Lush from bi-curious to bisexual for that very reason, despite only having sucked another guy once. I have always used the bisexual label in my own head anyway, from a young age, and I decided it was time to say it out loud.

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"Right this very moment, someone is thinking about you."

That is an excellent premise for a story.

The sexual tension has built up over the course of the Spring, as Pete, Sam and I got too busy with our studies to get together over the last few weeks of the school year. But after that drought, as we just finished reminding ourselves how much we enjoy sucking and fucking each other, their other roommate, Mark, makes a request on behalf of his girlfriend, fairest Fiona. Find out the details in Serial Thriller, Part Four: The Big Ask.

The main event WILL happen in Part Five! I hope to get that out this week, but in the meantime I hope you enjoy the tease.

By the way, I know from my years on the Lush forums that quite a few bisexual, bi-curious, heteroflexible and straight-but-interested-in-cock male readers are not really into men kissing each other. I totally get it, and felt that way myself for many years. So, readers who feel that way may be interested to know that unlike in most of my other stories, there is NO kissing between the guys at any point in this series. It's purely fun and physical! Be aware that they do pretty much everything else, though. Of course, if you were worried about that, you probably wouldn't be reading my stories anyway.

Serial Thriller, Part Four: The Big Ask

After Mark sees what I've been up to with his roommates Sam and Pete, he asks a big favor.

Bisexual

Shouldn't have to matter, except as an experiment to see if it solves a specific problem. It's 2026. Browsers are commodities that only exist to display content. It's not exactly rocket surgery. It's like saying Sony makes the best TVs. That may be true, but you should still be able to watch your favorite programs on a Vizio just fine.

Also, in the very rare instance that I or someone I know has an issue with Safari or Edge on a specific site that doesn't want to play nice with all the browsers, Chrome is the last browser I recommend to people. It's a Google product. End of.

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Yeah, just try asking for small breasts. Ain't no such thing, apparently 🤣

Somewhat surprisingly, I'm now getting good results having Perchance do that, with my Dating Daphne project.

The thing I can't get it to generate is men with clean-shaven faces. It really wants to give everyone that rugged appearance.

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i ended up with deep repressed feelings of humiliation and emasculation that still plague me even today and we have not played or even had sex in a very long time now. i struggle with my ability to satisfy her after watching her with him, it changed me somehow, it seems as if it affected my Alpha status as a male.

I’m sorry to hear the effect it had on you, and I hope that it gets better. In my opinion, cuckolding is a far more dangerous game, emotionally, than hotwife play, even though the mechanics are often the same. From here, I can’t psychoanalyze why she put you through that so early in your marriage and brought in the old FWB quite so enthusiastically, but there are several plausible possibilities. All with implications for your relationship.

Do you think that to this day, SHE thinks less of you as a man as a result of this, or is this mostly in your head and she has no idea? The former would be a very serious marital problem. If the latter, could you trust her to share your feelings and have her, as your beloved life partner, lift you up as a man instead of tear you down? Opening up carries further risks for your well-being, if she isn’t careful with your trust, but if you think that’s a possibility, the potential upside would be not only restoring intimacy in your marriage, but taking it to a new level.

I wouldn’t often suggest this, but if (and only if) the level of trust isn’t what you need for your emotional health (or never was - a tough question to ask yourself), AND for legitimate reasons (kids, financial, social) you need or want to stay married, there is another way to restore your sense of manliness.

That would be to Cheat. Again, something I would rarely suggest.

If you do cheat, do NOT do it out of revenge. You already know how it feels to be demeaned in front of someone else doing your spouse, so do cheat secretly and do it for yourself, not out of spite. Doing it in a way that makes you feel more of a man - but also more of an asshole - is no solution. You also should not do this if you think you might later feel guilty and confess, which she might later use against you, also leaving you worse off. It's your little secret. Forever.

The path to doing this without doing more harm than help is fairly narrow; but IF you can find another woman who DOES find you sexy (and isn’t looking to drain you financially*, which also would leave you feeling even worse about yourself), it might leave you feeling a whole lot better about yourself and your masculinity, even if you only get together a few times. I wish you well on your journey

* Be really, really, really careful about this, especially online. Long-con romance scams are everywhere, with both men and women losing their life savings left and right. Beware even meeting someone on Lush unless they’ve been an active member for a long time, and I'd be very wary of catfishing. If you meet someone and she or a relative has some financial crisis before you’ve even met (or had sex), I don't care how hard-luck the story is: RUN AWAY. Under NO circumstances should you spend more on your potential mistress than the cost of actual dates, hotel rooms or the occasional box of chocolates. That means NO (fungible) jewelry, either! Besides, if the relationship is that transactional, it won’t help your sense of sexual self-worth anyway. Find someone who genuinely thinks you're sexy. If that fails, the staff at any Nevada brothel will happy to make you feel like the thousand or two thousand bucks you pay them, and that may be enough.