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joe71
2 hours ago
Bisexual Cis Male, 58
0 miles · Des Moines

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Thinking my answer through a little more ... maybe I just want to think I'd be Switch. Given that I've had my cock in warm holes thousands of times and have had warm cocks in my hole exactly zero times, it's possible I'd want to bottom over and over again to make up for lost time.

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Thing is, I wouldn't say that i have been living a false lifestyle for the most part. Maybe in more recent times. I'm bi, meaning I can be satisfied by men or women so I can have fantasies and desires around men but still be happily married to my wife. Just like I can fantasize and have desires about other women but not act on them out of respect and love for her. And I was not even out to myself for much of my 30 years of marriage so it's not like I was deliberately hiding anything. I had some discoveries of my own to make before that even became an issue.

Well said. "False lifestyle" is overly simplistic.

Not fully gay, but highly gay-curious. Never have had a man in me, and a little nervous about my first time, but definitely want someone to gently introduce me to it someday. In particular, I want to have a fellow man make love to me face-to-face, kissing me deeply while he fills me ... and then fills me. Sounds magical.

I accept my sexuality as it is, and that includes my enjoyment of porn. No guilt, no cognitive dissonance, no futile attempts to wean myself off it.

My personality = my cock's personality.

I'm bi, and I find cocks highly interesting, but do not find cross dressing or women's lingerie (on myself, or other guys) at all stimulating. To each their own, though: if I a guy I was into wanted to do it and it turned him on, it's not like I'd have a problem with it.

Have done it with several women, some with big, soft boobs well-suited for it. But although I absolutely am a tit man, I’ve never found actual titfucking to live up to the idea of titfucking. I can find several other places to stick my prick that are more enjoyable, when I’m with a woman.

What Jenner said. If you're young and can do it, get in all the selfsucking you can, because the window in which you can do it will close before you know it. As for me, I'll settle for finding another guy to trade blowjobs with.

Sometimes I go a couple of days, but then I catch up. Did it 3x yesterday and again this morning.

His reply isn't explicitly rejecting you, but not explicitly encouraging you, at least based on the words. If this was an in-person exchange, the interpretation might depend on his tone.

That said, you're sharing a fucking hotel room with him this weekend? How is sex not on the agenda? At least you'll have the opportunity to find out.

I agree that it’s best to punch the reader between the eyes with something that will hook them. Even if the opening action or dialogue is something that actually happens later in the story, there are ways to introduce with something exciting, and then spend a thousand words explaining how you got there. You only have a couple of paragraphs to get the reader’s attention and hang onto it. Start with sometime that will make them wonder. Intrigue them or lose them.

That often means not starting with backstory. Interspersing it and explaining how you got here bit by bit, placing puzzle pieces for them, can be more intriguing than dumping it on them all at once. And as an aside, when you’re done with a bit of backstory exposition, for the love of God, please do not write “fast forward.” There are a thousand better ways to change your time setting or write about its passage.

There’s no formula, and it depends on the quality of writing, the familiarity with the author, the depth of emotional involvement and certainly the hotness of the buildup and the sex.

And yet it is simple. Do I like the story?

A Like is certainly more likely from me in certain genres or situations that tend to appeal to me anyway, in which I may be more willing to overlook a few flaws if I find myself getting turned on. It’s also more likely if it’s a familiar author whose works I have Liked in the past.

It’s less likely in genres that tend to be active turnoffs for me (dom/sub, ), and yet I have Liked quite a number of stories with subject matter that tends to repel me, because they were very well-written. In other words, I still like the story despite the subject matter.

The biggest deal-killer for me in terms of Liking a story is poor quality writing with significant grammatical errors (such as writing “discrete” when you mean “discreet,” a current pet peeve), repeating the same thought multiple times or using the same word for something over and over again when plenty of synonyms are available. That makes a story much harder for me to Like, though not impossible if it’s incredibly hot otherwise.

As a reader, I certainly don’t Like every story that I read. But when I do, I almost always try to leave a few words as a Comment.

As an author (and, not fully understanding the etiquette, I didn’t necessarily do this the first year I was on here), I try to reply to absolutely every comment, without exception. I don’t usually PM, which never occurred to me might be expected, but I have started to post thank-you messages on the Walls of readers who’ve Liked or commented on my stories. Seems a nice practice.

I will add that I’ve found this to be true from an author’s perspective and not just as a reader. My “Dick Job” story, for example, absolutely crackles with action, with not a boring paragraph, and it is my only submittal to have placed in the top ten of a competition. Yet despite that recognition, it has only received 3300 views and 32 votes. That places it in the bottom half of my stories for attention. Because at 9000 words, it is just too goddamned long to attract many eyeballs.

I’m with Ensorceled in thinking that around 3000 is usually a pretty optimal number of words. Fewer than that, and it’s hard to really develop a story and the protagonist’s point of view. Much more than that, and the number of views and Likes starts to drop - precipitously, after 5000 words or so.

I find this is true if my own reading habits. There are a great many excellent authors on this site, and new stories are landing in my queue nearly every day. If I have some 3000-word stories and some 7000-word stories in there - and I always do - guess which ones I’m going to read first! The result is a good number of longer stories, by authors I admire and respect, languishing in my queue for months - or years.

Congratulations to everyone who participated, especially to the authors of the top picks. And a thousand thanks to the mods, who waded through many, many thousands of our words.

I’ve only read about two-thirds of the comp entries, and somehow that proportion seems to apply to the top ten as well. I’d better get reading!

I'll take your number, discreetly. Hopefully you let me give you a blowjob in return when we do get together later.

MILF. I always found older women attractive, even when I was a teen myself. Now I'm way too old for teens anyway.

I guess I qualify as an older man, and the answer is: I have been with a number of younger women. When I myself was younger. No particular desire for them now.

Why? Fuck if I know. I usually go for the release.

Have done it. Messy (and sometimes requires added lube) but still satisfying and of course just about the safest time of the month.

Inside a warm orifice, for heaven's sake. Feels much better than cumming outside, something I can do (well, actually do) to myself any day of the week.

You mean with another person? A girlfriend I started going with in college. On our first date, she let me feel her boobs and we got to touching each other's private parts. Being an extremely oral person, I had my face between her legs before she even knew it was going to happen, but that's as far as it went. On the first date, that is: it was a few more weeks before we had intercourse (my first time, not hers).

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Never have, never intend to. I love the beautiful pubic hair that God gave us, on both men and women.

By the way, for those who shave to avoid pubes stuck in your partner's teeth or throat, brushing before sex pretty much solves that problem. Makes it look better too.

Never have, never intend to. I love the beautiful pubic hair that God gave us, on both men and women.

Well, I was gonna do that anyway.

But in solidarity with the fantastic people who keep this place running, I promise to redouble my efforts! Thank you for all you do, and have a wonderful holiday.

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Unfortunately, I exceeded the new 10-word limit 😕. My attempted draft just seemed to keep on growing, despite my hopes of 4-6k story. So I apologise for the length of this tale - and, indeed, the title. I was challenged to find a one-word title; I failed. I therefore give you: If Brussels is only the Appetizer, Then What on Earth is Helions Bumpstead, and hope that at least two people will, at some point, read it 😊.

You failed to keep even your title within ten words! Excellent story nonetheless.

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Here's mine:

"My flight canceled, Divya and Ravi fed me Christmas treats."

The above ten words were no joke. Here are the other 4,290:

Mile-High Christmas Treats

Merry Christmas!