No but I wish I had when I was younger. I never considered it when I was young, and I don't think I ever had a single fantasy about it until the last few years. My same-sex fantasies as a teenager and a young man were overwhelmingly about sucking delicious cock, occasionally about a hard rod sliding into my ass, and pretty much NEVER about anything above a guy's waist or below his thighs. I don't know if I really repressed those fantasies; it was more that they didn't occur to me.
But they occur to me now. Sounds really hot, a man's insistent scratchy lips against mine, his tongue wrestling with mine. More masculine and forceful than kissing a woman, yet still tender, is how I imagine it. Hopefully more can chime in with actual experiences.
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joe71
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I have to admit, even though I have known for decades that I was bisexual and have always fantasized about sucking cock, I have never found cross-dressing to be a turn-on for me. Not a turn-off necessarily either, so if I ended up with a guy who wanted to do that, I'd be down for it.
As for trans women, I'd never fantasized about them until fairly recently when I started to re-explore my sexual thoughts. And actually the idea of a woman - and I mean someone who looks and acts like a woman (not necessarily ultra feminine, but a woman) with both a cock and breasts is a pretty big turn-on for me. I recognize the reality that many MTF trans people are in different states of transition (some have implants, some are taking hormones, some have difficulty with erections as a result) but I think I'd be accepting of the situation of whatever trans woman I was lucky enough to be with.
As for trans women, I'd never fantasized about them until fairly recently when I started to re-explore my sexual thoughts. And actually the idea of a woman - and I mean someone who looks and acts like a woman (not necessarily ultra feminine, but a woman) with both a cock and breasts is a pretty big turn-on for me. I recognize the reality that many MTF trans people are in different states of transition (some have implants, some are taking hormones, some have difficulty with erections as a result) but I think I'd be accepting of the situation of whatever trans woman I was lucky enough to be with.
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Posting this long after the fact, but proud of all bi guys who make themselves visible.
For many reasons I can't be public about my bisexuality (except here), but I'm proud of it nevertheless. At least I'm able to express it here. Thank goodness for the Internet.
For many reasons I can't be public about my bisexuality (except here), but I'm proud of it nevertheless. At least I'm able to express it here. Thank goodness for the Internet.
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Good for you being open minded. I'll make sure to read your stories and jack off to them. Hope that turns you on.
I hope will explore your new fantasies and try it out with a guy. Do what feels good and see where it goes.
Maybe you're just comfortable jerking off together in the room next to a guy while you watch porn together. Maybe that's as far as it goes.
Maybe you let him jerk you off.
Maybe you let him suck you off. Maybe you aren't prepared to touch another guy, and nothing more happens.
Or, maybe knowing how hard your stories (and your presence) have made the other guy's rod, you just have to touch it. Experience the feel if it in your hand, the softness, the smoothness of the skin as you gently stroke it back and forth, the tension as you stroke him to orgasm.
Maybe you want more. You've felt a mouth on your cock countless times, including this new guy's. Maybe you want to know what it's like being on the other end of things. Maybe, having a cock yourself and knowing how it feels, you realize you can give a better blowjob than many women. Maybe you want to test that theory.
Maybe, in the afterglow of a spectacular blowjob (his or yours, or both) you wonder what it would be like to kiss a guy, to feel the rough scratchiness of a man's face, the insistence of his tongue versus the softness and gentleness of a woman. Not because it's better than kissing a woman, but to experience the difference.
Maybe after you've turned each other on and pleasured each other so much, you wonder what it's like to sleep next to a man's body, waking up to pleasure each other all over again.
Maybe all this piques your curiousity to try even more ... you realize that all the sex positions that a man and woman can do are available to men too. Except that when it's with a man, you can choose to be the one doing the fucking, or the one getting fucked.
Maybe you don't want to get fucked, but you are curious what it's like to fuck a guy and feel his cock in your hand while you're doing it.
Maybe you don't have any interest in guys' butts, buyt wonder what it's like to have a cock inside you, gently rubbing your prostate and making you cum without anyone touching your cock.
Or maybe you just want to sit on the couch and jerk off next to each other.
Whatever works. I do hope you'll pursue whatever you're comfortable doing. And tell us about it. I promise I'll cum reading your story.
I hope will explore your new fantasies and try it out with a guy. Do what feels good and see where it goes.
Maybe you're just comfortable jerking off together in the room next to a guy while you watch porn together. Maybe that's as far as it goes.
Maybe you let him jerk you off.
Maybe you let him suck you off. Maybe you aren't prepared to touch another guy, and nothing more happens.
Or, maybe knowing how hard your stories (and your presence) have made the other guy's rod, you just have to touch it. Experience the feel if it in your hand, the softness, the smoothness of the skin as you gently stroke it back and forth, the tension as you stroke him to orgasm.
Maybe you want more. You've felt a mouth on your cock countless times, including this new guy's. Maybe you want to know what it's like being on the other end of things. Maybe, having a cock yourself and knowing how it feels, you realize you can give a better blowjob than many women. Maybe you want to test that theory.
Maybe, in the afterglow of a spectacular blowjob (his or yours, or both) you wonder what it would be like to kiss a guy, to feel the rough scratchiness of a man's face, the insistence of his tongue versus the softness and gentleness of a woman. Not because it's better than kissing a woman, but to experience the difference.
Maybe after you've turned each other on and pleasured each other so much, you wonder what it's like to sleep next to a man's body, waking up to pleasure each other all over again.
Maybe all this piques your curiousity to try even more ... you realize that all the sex positions that a man and woman can do are available to men too. Except that when it's with a man, you can choose to be the one doing the fucking, or the one getting fucked.
Maybe you don't want to get fucked, but you are curious what it's like to fuck a guy and feel his cock in your hand while you're doing it.
Maybe you don't have any interest in guys' butts, buyt wonder what it's like to have a cock inside you, gently rubbing your prostate and making you cum without anyone touching your cock.
Or maybe you just want to sit on the couch and jerk off next to each other.
Whatever works. I do hope you'll pursue whatever you're comfortable doing. And tell us about it. I promise I'll cum reading your story.
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Quote by trioneGood for you. I have a lot of fantasies along those lines. Was it just man-on-man or was your wife there? I hope you write it up and post it as a story sometime.
did stufff in high school. First adult time was with a guy my wife told me to go for it after he hit on me. He was cute, we knew he was gay and she said I shoud try it with a guy we knew was clean and discreet. I was very scard but it all turned out fine. wife wanted all the details and I told her everything we did, she was very pleased that I had the chance to do a man to man sex. it was thhe start of our oening up our sex life to many different adventures
Me, only once, and it wasn't mutual (I sucked a cock through a gloryhole). Even so, I liked everything about it except I didn't get reciprocated. Married and monagamous now, but I can still fantasize.
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Been with another guy? Sucked one through a gloryhole once, that's it. I sure loved it though!
Fantasized? Oh hell yeah. I think my orientation is still more towards women, and I still fantasize about them plenty, but I've done plenty of great shit with women. I think I fantasize about men somewhat more than women, because those are the unfulfilled fantasies. Sucking other guys (#1 fantasy), 69ing (oh wait, that's #1), getting sucked, kissing, body contact, docking, mutual stroking, fucking another guy, being fucked missionary, being fucked from behind, sitting on top while fucked from below, being fucked sideways, reversing all these and doing the fucking (isn't it amazing how all the gay positions are reversible?), doing all this stuff one-on-one, doing them with two guys, doing them with another guy and a woman, maybe even some water sports ... the fantasies never end.
Fantasized? Oh hell yeah. I think my orientation is still more towards women, and I still fantasize about them plenty, but I've done plenty of great shit with women. I think I fantasize about men somewhat more than women, because those are the unfulfilled fantasies. Sucking other guys (#1 fantasy), 69ing (oh wait, that's #1), getting sucked, kissing, body contact, docking, mutual stroking, fucking another guy, being fucked missionary, being fucked from behind, sitting on top while fucked from below, being fucked sideways, reversing all these and doing the fucking (isn't it amazing how all the gay positions are reversible?), doing all this stuff one-on-one, doing them with two guys, doing them with another guy and a woman, maybe even some water sports ... the fantasies never end.
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No! I do have a slight preference for heavier, bigger-boobed women, but it's not that important.
What IS important is everything else: being on a date with a witty, intelligent woman, the way she makes eye contact, the way she smiles at me, the way her hand brushes against me. Once in bed, the way she engages and responds. Physical attributes are much lower on the list. My ideal woman probably is larger, with good-size breasts (and above all, a natural bush!) ... BUT I'd rather be with a skinny, plain girl with a sparkling personality who's at least a little adventurous in bed than a beautiful woman with an ideal body who is dull in the eyes and just lies there while we're doing it.
What IS important is everything else: being on a date with a witty, intelligent woman, the way she makes eye contact, the way she smiles at me, the way her hand brushes against me. Once in bed, the way she engages and responds. Physical attributes are much lower on the list. My ideal woman probably is larger, with good-size breasts (and above all, a natural bush!) ... BUT I'd rather be with a skinny, plain girl with a sparkling personality who's at least a little adventurous in bed than a beautiful woman with an ideal body who is dull in the eyes and just lies there while we're doing it.
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Sucked a guy once, LOVED it. The silky skin pushing past my lips, the musky scent, the soft mushroom head, the veins on the outside, the hard rock within, the tension as he reached orgasm, the taste and feel of cum filling my mouth, the slippery feel as I swallowed it. ALL OF IT! Almost 30 years later and I remember it vividly - and I'm still hard just thinking of the experience again.
I just wish I'd come of age in an era when AIDS wasn't a death sentence terrifying everyone. I don't think cock could ever have replaced pussy for me, but I wish I'd sucked a lot more cock, tried one in my ass a couple times, kissed a guy or ten, and even maybe even tried a relationship with a guy. I'm 80% sure I would still have ended up with a woman, but we bi guys had a very dark cloud hanging over us in the 80s and early 90s.
You young folks are lucky. 1. HIV/AIDS is less scary, 2. You mostly can't get it from blowjobs - we DID NOT KNOW THIS back then (notice the vintage vids of blowjobs with condoms - eeew!), and 3. you have the internet to meet like minded people. If I'd had all that when I was 20 I would have spent as much time pursuing men as women. Even if I still ended up with a woman (likely, if not certain) it would have been a lot of fun.
(thinking back to the distant past) mmmm .... cock ...
I just wish I'd come of age in an era when AIDS wasn't a death sentence terrifying everyone. I don't think cock could ever have replaced pussy for me, but I wish I'd sucked a lot more cock, tried one in my ass a couple times, kissed a guy or ten, and even maybe even tried a relationship with a guy. I'm 80% sure I would still have ended up with a woman, but we bi guys had a very dark cloud hanging over us in the 80s and early 90s.
You young folks are lucky. 1. HIV/AIDS is less scary, 2. You mostly can't get it from blowjobs - we DID NOT KNOW THIS back then (notice the vintage vids of blowjobs with condoms - eeew!), and 3. you have the internet to meet like minded people. If I'd had all that when I was 20 I would have spent as much time pursuing men as women. Even if I still ended up with a woman (likely, if not certain) it would have been a lot of fun.
(thinking back to the distant past) mmmm .... cock ...
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Funny, I'm bi (love the taste of cock and cum) and have absolutely no interest in wearing panties. I think a lot of people assume the two go together, but I'm loving proof they don't (in the opposite way a lot of people probalby assume). Lying in bed kissing a guy while we stroke each other, yes. Putting on women's clothes, not really interesting to me.
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Straight stuff:
1. Cum in a women's pussy - thousands of times. Love the feel of my cock pumping into a hot juicy (preferably hairy) pussy and grinding my pelvis against the woman's clit.
2. Cum in a women's ass - no. Haven't been with any women who wanted that. Wouldn't mind trying, but hard to make it happen when the pussy is right there and so much juicier. More interested in cumming in a guy's ass, to be honest, because they don't have a pussy.
3. Cum in a women's mouth - yes, maybe not as many times as I'd like but #1 usually takes over.
Gay stuff:
4. Cum in a man's mouth - no, but wish I had. Would love to have 69ed to orgasm with a guy.
5. Cum in a man's ass - no, but sure wish I had. I love the idea of probing around in a guy's ass, finding his p-spot and making him squirt.
6. Have a man cum in your mouth - YES, wish I had a lot more. Loved the sensation of a hot cock in my mouth, the taste of cum squirting out and the feel of it sliding down my throat. Although I have a lot of fantasies about other guys, that's easily #1.
7. Have a man cum in your ass - no, but wish I had. Really would like to know the feeling of being filled up with a man pressing down on me, my legs in the air and his tongue in my mouth, making love to me like I do to a woman.
1. Cum in a women's pussy - thousands of times. Love the feel of my cock pumping into a hot juicy (preferably hairy) pussy and grinding my pelvis against the woman's clit.
2. Cum in a women's ass - no. Haven't been with any women who wanted that. Wouldn't mind trying, but hard to make it happen when the pussy is right there and so much juicier. More interested in cumming in a guy's ass, to be honest, because they don't have a pussy.
3. Cum in a women's mouth - yes, maybe not as many times as I'd like but #1 usually takes over.
Gay stuff:
4. Cum in a man's mouth - no, but wish I had. Would love to have 69ed to orgasm with a guy.
5. Cum in a man's ass - no, but sure wish I had. I love the idea of probing around in a guy's ass, finding his p-spot and making him squirt.
6. Have a man cum in your mouth - YES, wish I had a lot more. Loved the sensation of a hot cock in my mouth, the taste of cum squirting out and the feel of it sliding down my throat. Although I have a lot of fantasies about other guys, that's easily #1.
7. Have a man cum in your ass - no, but wish I had. Really would like to know the feeling of being filled up with a man pressing down on me, my legs in the air and his tongue in my mouth, making love to me like I do to a woman.
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Quote by GuestNow that's a resolution! Give us an update later and let us know if you have any suckcess!
Its' my Goal for 2020 to be able to suck my own dick again. Been stretching everyday & it might take awhile but I will get there~! I promised my dick since my wife doesn't suck it much anymore*
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Um, the idea that guys prefer skinny women is imposed by society, but often not true. In fact there are a whole lot of guys who like women with more meat on their bones. Also, curvier women have bigger tits. With a few exceptions (or breast implants) you can't have it both ways: if you like big ones, accept that a curvy woman's whole body is beautiful.
As for the physically fit comment above, I know women who are thicker and very physically fit, and women who are thin but don't exercise. There is some correlation but it's a weak one.
Like I've been saying on every other thread about guys' preferences, if you have a body you are beautiful. Don't go asking these questions to validate (or not validate) your body type. Be proud of what you have. You are sexy.
(That said, you do have control over your body hair. Body type isn't that important, but I do love a nice bush!)
As for the physically fit comment above, I know women who are thicker and very physically fit, and women who are thin but don't exercise. There is some correlation but it's a weak one.
Like I've been saying on every other thread about guys' preferences, if you have a body you are beautiful. Don't go asking these questions to validate (or not validate) your body type. Be proud of what you have. You are sexy.
(That said, you do have control over your body hair. Body type isn't that important, but I do love a nice bush!)
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I don't doubt that size matters, at least to some women, even if it's not the most important measure of a man. I'm sure the sensation of being filled by a really big one most be really enjoyable for some. There's a reason we have bigger cocks compared to other primates: women like 'em big. Read Sex at Dawn for a detailed explanation of this, if you want to know the science behind it.
That said, I'm right there in the middle of the bell curve. I've had women with whom I had to be careful because even my very average size was a bit much - either because they were really tight, or to avoid bumping their cervix. On the other hand, I was once with a woman who loved having me pull her leg up so I could get in at an angle to really bang on her cervix, so that tells you about the beautiful diversity of women and their bodies. Same goes for men. Viva la difference.
Anyway, it's not like we have a choice in how well endowed we are, so might as well be proud of what we've got. As I've just said on half a dozen threads about men's preferences of breast and ass size, you're sexy no matter your body type. That goes for us guys too. Be proud of your body, and of your cock. Regardless of the size, it's a beautiful and wondrous thing.
And if I like you as a person I'd be thrilled to suck your beautiful penis, regardless of whether it was 4" or 8". Cum tastes the same either way
That said, I'm right there in the middle of the bell curve. I've had women with whom I had to be careful because even my very average size was a bit much - either because they were really tight, or to avoid bumping their cervix. On the other hand, I was once with a woman who loved having me pull her leg up so I could get in at an angle to really bang on her cervix, so that tells you about the beautiful diversity of women and their bodies. Same goes for men. Viva la difference.
Anyway, it's not like we have a choice in how well endowed we are, so might as well be proud of what we've got. As I've just said on half a dozen threads about men's preferences of breast and ass size, you're sexy no matter your body type. That goes for us guys too. Be proud of your body, and of your cock. Regardless of the size, it's a beautiful and wondrous thing.
And if I like you as a person I'd be thrilled to suck your beautiful penis, regardless of whether it was 4" or 8". Cum tastes the same either way
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And are you a natural 32DDD with a little butt? Vanishingly rare, that.
In any event, although I'm not a butt man myself, I suppose my taste tends towards full-figured.
But ultimately it doesn't matter. Be proud of your body, whatever you've got. Sexiness isn't in the size of your butt, or your tits, or anything else. As I said on another thread, it's in your mind, your eyes and your smile. That's true whether you're on a date, just hanging out or going at it in bed.
In any event, although I'm not a butt man myself, I suppose my taste tends towards full-figured.
But ultimately it doesn't matter. Be proud of your body, whatever you've got. Sexiness isn't in the size of your butt, or your tits, or anything else. As I said on another thread, it's in your mind, your eyes and your smile. That's true whether you're on a date, just hanging out or going at it in bed.
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I am a breast man for sure, and I tend towards larger women (larger all around) ... but really, it doesn't matter that much. That might have been a matter of the randomness of who I happened to end up with, since looks and body type aren't the most important thing to me. I've been with thinner women with smaller breasts, and they were hot too.
Be proud of your body, however it is. Sexy is in your mind, your eyes, your smile and how you relate to people. The shape of your body might get you noticed more (or less) from a distance, but it doesn't really matter once you're one-on-one.
Be proud of your body, however it is. Sexy is in your mind, your eyes, your smile and how you relate to people. The shape of your body might get you noticed more (or less) from a distance, but it doesn't really matter once you're one-on-one.
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Quote by kumquat99Holy shit that sounds awesome. Wish I could have had an experience like that. I love the idea of sucking a cock in front of a woman (or more people) and having her turned on by it.
On multiple occasions, all in group settings. I find it very amazing, especially knowing that I was being watched, and watching others eating pussy, cucking cocks, fucking pussy and ass. Not too bad of a way to enjoy life. I do not actively seek males, but when the circumstance occurs, I will not say no. I love sex!
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Mostly not a turn-on. They may make a woman more attractive or get my attention from a distance, versus if she had a smaller chest, but up close they don't add to the experience. A set of implants would have to be awfully realistic (i.e., undetectable) for it to be a net plus.
I once was with a woman who had almost no breasts (although she did have very nice womanly nipples). She was plenty sexy, and didn't require augmentation. I've also been with a number of women who have big breasts, not because they had implants but because they were full-figured all around. And they were sexy too. Want big tits? EAT MORE! They'll get bigger.
I say this as a confirmed tit man: just run what you brung. If you have a body, you are sexy. You don't need to alter it.
I once was with a woman who had almost no breasts (although she did have very nice womanly nipples). She was plenty sexy, and didn't require augmentation. I've also been with a number of women who have big breasts, not because they had implants but because they were full-figured all around. And they were sexy too. Want big tits? EAT MORE! They'll get bigger.
I say this as a confirmed tit man: just run what you brung. If you have a body, you are sexy. You don't need to alter it.