Too bad to hear so many bi guys aren't reciprocal. If you let a guy suck you and you won't touch him, that's barely bi anyway.
Me, I'd reciprocate. I might even be MORE turned on by the idea of giving a blowjob than receiving one. Gotten plenty of them from women over my lifetime, so not as novel as giving one. Although I'd still be pissed off if the guy wouldn't do me in return. It's not like I don't want to get something out of it too.
By far I'm most interested in oral - true for my desires towards both women and men, actually ... I absolutely love eating pussy and have often done it until my tongue was too sore to continue. I love 69 with a woman even more, would love to have tried it with a guy - that is, someone intimately familiar with what they're doing feels like. A lot of my stories include 69, even though it doesn't happen as much in reality ... because they're my stories, right? I can do that.
Anyway, anal has never been that high on my list, with women or men, although I have always been a little curious. Does feel good to slip something inside there, especially if it hits the prostate. If I could have found someone who was, patient and gentle and well-lubed, back when I was single I'd definitely would have wanted to at least know how it felt to get one of those hot pulsing things in my ass. Wish it had been safer (on multiple levels) for me to try when I was younger, but that was the late 80s and early 90s. Just too risky then. Although I had no interest at the time, I now wish I'd also had the courage/ability to try other stuff too - kissing, body contact, frottage, maybe even docking with an uncut guy. I never dreamed about it back then (wasn't repulsed, just didn't seem interesting) but I would love to have dated a guy for a whole - the whole deal, going out in the evenings, sleeping over after fucking our brains out. Even back in those days, might have been a safe way to do it, but guys like me didn't have the Internet to find each other with. Even putting an ad in your local weekly was a real crapshoot.
Even though I'm not that much into anal, one of my ultimate fantasies involves it: having missionary sex with another guy while we kiss passionately, lost in rapture as the top fills the bottom with his cum, just like in straight sex. Could be me on top or him, could be me penetrating or him penetrating (holy shit! Guys can do missionary four different ways! Or is it cowboy if the guy being penetrated is on top? Any way, so many combinations to jerk off about!).
But to answer the OP's question: I'm fully committed and happy to not have sex with men. I have these fantasies, but I'm content to let them remain so. I suspect I'm far from alone. It is wonderful to have this site as an outlet for these feelings, too, since I can't share them with my wife ... I've actually been writing stories for about 5 years, but have only just started publishing them here a couple months ago.
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Jon, I don't know most of us are gay. Bi does not mean gay, even if calling themselves bi is sometimes a step on the long journey for guys who are actually gay. We've all got our own journeys to take, and they all go different places.
That said, yes been married over 20 years and bi my whole life. I shared my curiosity with her when we were younger: she felt pretty threatened by it, so I let it drop. Haven't brought it up since. Maybe that's why stories where a woman is turned on by bi guys are such a turn-on for me ... although actually, it was a turn-on before I met her, so nevermind! Anyway, I've only had one experience with another guy, sucking a cock through a gloryhole, and it was glorious (also written up in my "A Hole New World" story, which many of you have read). I'm glad I did that so I know what it really feels, smells and tastes like to have another filling your mouth with his hot, hard flesh and his hot, sweet cum. If I hadn't, I suspect the curiosity might have gotten the better of me, but that one experience was enough to keep me faithful to my wife for a lifetime. In other words, I'm not putting my bisexuality into practice, except in writing about it on this website.
And my wife is wonderful in every other way, and still turns me on. I have to say I love a woman's body, the curve of the hips, the breasts, the juicy pussy and in my case I also really prefer a full bush. The whole enchilada. Just because I have an interest in men doesn't mean I don't find women insanely hot too. I think if I only found a few more-masculine parts of my female partner I think it would be more challenge. Don't mean to single you out there Jon - hey, you've found out what turns you on most about your wife and use it. That works too!
NLC, you've got a great situation there, with a steady guy you can kiss, suck and fuck, without the risks of bed hopping, as you put it.
Those of you who have partners who understand and accept your bisexuality, and maybe even allow you to practice it. Mustang, that's in some ways an ideal arrangement: you each are allowed to have same-sex partners outside marriage, but opposite-sex sex is with your wife only? I could totally go for that, but never gonna happen. I suspect what Pete said is true, that it's vastly more common than most people realize. I've long suspected most guys are secretly bi but won't admit it, and most never act on it. Most women are, and everyone accepts that.
Colin, you've got a great deal going with Jaq too - a woman who not only allows it, but is turned on by it and encouraged it? You're living the dream, man! Plus, she's hot. I've seen your pics of her: lovely generous breasts, naturally hairy womanhood down there, the whole package. Lucky guy!
That said, yes been married over 20 years and bi my whole life. I shared my curiosity with her when we were younger: she felt pretty threatened by it, so I let it drop. Haven't brought it up since. Maybe that's why stories where a woman is turned on by bi guys are such a turn-on for me ... although actually, it was a turn-on before I met her, so nevermind! Anyway, I've only had one experience with another guy, sucking a cock through a gloryhole, and it was glorious (also written up in my "A Hole New World" story, which many of you have read). I'm glad I did that so I know what it really feels, smells and tastes like to have another filling your mouth with his hot, hard flesh and his hot, sweet cum. If I hadn't, I suspect the curiosity might have gotten the better of me, but that one experience was enough to keep me faithful to my wife for a lifetime. In other words, I'm not putting my bisexuality into practice, except in writing about it on this website.
And my wife is wonderful in every other way, and still turns me on. I have to say I love a woman's body, the curve of the hips, the breasts, the juicy pussy and in my case I also really prefer a full bush. The whole enchilada. Just because I have an interest in men doesn't mean I don't find women insanely hot too. I think if I only found a few more-masculine parts of my female partner I think it would be more challenge. Don't mean to single you out there Jon - hey, you've found out what turns you on most about your wife and use it. That works too!
NLC, you've got a great situation there, with a steady guy you can kiss, suck and fuck, without the risks of bed hopping, as you put it.
Those of you who have partners who understand and accept your bisexuality, and maybe even allow you to practice it. Mustang, that's in some ways an ideal arrangement: you each are allowed to have same-sex partners outside marriage, but opposite-sex sex is with your wife only? I could totally go for that, but never gonna happen. I suspect what Pete said is true, that it's vastly more common than most people realize. I've long suspected most guys are secretly bi but won't admit it, and most never act on it. Most women are, and everyone accepts that.
Colin, you've got a great deal going with Jaq too - a woman who not only allows it, but is turned on by it and encouraged it? You're living the dream, man! Plus, she's hot. I've seen your pics of her: lovely generous breasts, naturally hairy womanhood down there, the whole package. Lucky guy!
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Porn actress working today? Lena Paul, hands down. Cute, thick, busty and above all naturally bushed. They even give her roles where she has to do some acting, and she does it believably.
I also like Erin Eden, another fully-bush cutie.
Have to agree with Desiree Cousteau back in the day, maybe the hottest of her era. Christy Canyon was also amazing, a big-titted, hairy wonder. I also liked Sharon Mitchell. And another Sharon (Kane) was smoking hot and gets an extra shout-out because she did some bi movies. I still jerk off to those scenes.
And honorable mention to Traci Lords. Seriously the hottest girl that worked in porn. I saw a bunch of her movies when they were new .. and before the underage scandal. After she had been making porn for two years (a LOT of it - she was prolific), just after 18 the news broke that she had only just turned 18. Only one of her movies (Traci I Love You) was made legally with her over 18. All the others were suddenly known to be child porn, and were either pulled or re-edited to remove her. Even the classic New Wave Hookers (which I saw, and loved, in its original form) had scenes re-shot without Traci. Nevermind that the age of consent in my state was 16, and girls could fuck all they wanted at that age, but porn involving 16 year olds is still a federal crime. What I can tell you, having had the now-forbidden pleasure of seeing a bunch of her movies before we knew she was underage, is that Traci had one of the most amazing bodies, and in particular the most special-looking tits, ever. And now there is only one movie you can watch her in.
I also like Erin Eden, another fully-bush cutie.
Have to agree with Desiree Cousteau back in the day, maybe the hottest of her era. Christy Canyon was also amazing, a big-titted, hairy wonder. I also liked Sharon Mitchell. And another Sharon (Kane) was smoking hot and gets an extra shout-out because she did some bi movies. I still jerk off to those scenes.
And honorable mention to Traci Lords. Seriously the hottest girl that worked in porn. I saw a bunch of her movies when they were new .. and before the underage scandal. After she had been making porn for two years (a LOT of it - she was prolific), just after 18 the news broke that she had only just turned 18. Only one of her movies (Traci I Love You) was made legally with her over 18. All the others were suddenly known to be child porn, and were either pulled or re-edited to remove her. Even the classic New Wave Hookers (which I saw, and loved, in its original form) had scenes re-shot without Traci. Nevermind that the age of consent in my state was 16, and girls could fuck all they wanted at that age, but porn involving 16 year olds is still a federal crime. What I can tell you, having had the now-forbidden pleasure of seeing a bunch of her movies before we knew she was underage, is that Traci had one of the most amazing bodies, and in particular the most special-looking tits, ever. And now there is only one movie you can watch her in.
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For the record it can go the other way. I've known women who were grossed out by tasting their own juices on me. No sucking my dick, licking my finger or kissing my lips once they've been in/on her. One woman even had me go wash my cock off after I had fucked her, and then she sucked me. That was 25-30 years ago, maybe more rare now.
Both kinds of fluid are sweet and delicious to me!
Both kinds of fluid are sweet and delicious to me!
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Hey, Ddb when you say "I'm not bisexual" I think you're using a pretty narrow definition. Maybe you think it means 50-50, enjoying sex with both genders equally and in the same way? That describes pretty much zero people. What bisexual means is you enjoy or are interested in sex of some kind with both males and females. You can still love vaginal sex with a woman the most. Sucking cock and feeling "a big gushing load of sperm that I need" is definitely a type of sex. Nothing wrong with that!
If anything, enjoying women - with their emotional femininity, their soft bodies, their warm slick pussies - but wanting the occasional hard cock and sperm load, is probably one of the MOST common forms of bisexuality! I know it describes me. Own it, man!
If anything, enjoying women - with their emotional femininity, their soft bodies, their warm slick pussies - but wanting the occasional hard cock and sperm load, is probably one of the MOST common forms of bisexuality! I know it describes me. Own it, man!
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I'll be honest. Most of the women I've been with were a one-time deal, sometimes involving alcohol, and I may not have been tuned in to their needs as well as I should have been. I generally made sure to do plenty of foreplay and take my time - and genuinely relished the body of every woman I slept with - but when I finally came I came, and I didn't necessarily check to see whether she did. Which means probably not. We were young.
My first sexual experience was with a girlfriend who turned out to have major psychological problems - which I didn't figure out until after we broke up. Although she always pretended to cum, I don't think she actually ever did. Among other things she was a compulsive liar - a messy web to untangle after she dumped me and the pieces started falling into place. Not least her manipulative manner in and out of bed, which messed me up for a while.
Fortunately my second serious girlfriend was amazing and enthusiastic in bed. Even more fortunately, she was honest that she didn't always cum, which required her to be in the missionary position. She enjoyed many other positions - even 69, which a lot of women don't seem to be into - and loved having me eat her out, but that wouldn't get her there. She absolutely had to be lying relaxed on her back, matching the rhythm of her hips to mine just right. So I don't think she ever faked it. In fact she couldn't have. In her case, she broke out in a sweat all over, her skin instantly suddenly clammy and goosebumped at the moment of orgasm. No one could possibly fake that, and it happened dozens of times over our long relationship.
As for my wife? I don't talk about my current relationship on here. Suffice to say she wouldn't be my wife if we weren't compatible, and leave it at that.
So that's three women for sure, accounting for untold numbers of orgasms.
My first sexual experience was with a girlfriend who turned out to have major psychological problems - which I didn't figure out until after we broke up. Although she always pretended to cum, I don't think she actually ever did. Among other things she was a compulsive liar - a messy web to untangle after she dumped me and the pieces started falling into place. Not least her manipulative manner in and out of bed, which messed me up for a while.
Fortunately my second serious girlfriend was amazing and enthusiastic in bed. Even more fortunately, she was honest that she didn't always cum, which required her to be in the missionary position. She enjoyed many other positions - even 69, which a lot of women don't seem to be into - and loved having me eat her out, but that wouldn't get her there. She absolutely had to be lying relaxed on her back, matching the rhythm of her hips to mine just right. So I don't think she ever faked it. In fact she couldn't have. In her case, she broke out in a sweat all over, her skin instantly suddenly clammy and goosebumped at the moment of orgasm. No one could possibly fake that, and it happened dozens of times over our long relationship.
As for my wife? I don't talk about my current relationship on here. Suffice to say she wouldn't be my wife if we weren't compatible, and leave it at that.
So that's three women for sure, accounting for untold numbers of orgasms.
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Quote by NoLongerCuriousAbsolutely! The swallowing part is without question. I only had a penis in my mouth once, and of course I swallowed the load. Couldn't imagine not. I can imagine the gooey stuff swirling around in my mouth and slipping down my throat like it was yesterday. Lucky you to have a regular cock to suck.
Only one but I have sucked it many, many times and yes, I always swallow.
By the way, I love how right now six of the threads on the front page of this forum are about same-sex activity, either kissing or sucking other guys. I love that I've found a forum where guys can actually talk openly about craving other men in addition to the women we love. I always suspected it was more common than most people would let on, but this place is proof.
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I was sometimes like that when I was younger. Would have this crazy desire for cock and cum when I was horny, then it went away the instant I came. I often tried to suck myself, and would masturbate with my cock an inch from my lips. Sometimes I'd cum into my mouth, but sometimes I'd pull back the instant I came, suddenly not being into it.
Guess what? It went away as I got older and more comfortable with my bisexuality and my cravings for penises and cum. Now I eat my own cum more regularly, even though I can't get my dick to my lips anymore. Still enjoy aiming it into my mouth, or cumming into my hand and licking it off.
Be patient with yourself and acknowledge your desires, both when you're horny and when you aren't.
Guess what? It went away as I got older and more comfortable with my bisexuality and my cravings for penises and cum. Now I eat my own cum more regularly, even though I can't get my dick to my lips anymore. Still enjoy aiming it into my mouth, or cumming into my hand and licking it off.
Be patient with yourself and acknowledge your desires, both when you're horny and when you aren't.
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During the day? Never. Not even when I was a teenager.
Only once even had a nocturnal emission. We had houseguests for several weeks, and I was super busy with work and went something like 12 days without masturbating. Woke up from a sexy dream to find a mess of cum in my pajamas.
From that you can infer that 12 days is the longest I have EVER gone without masturbating. Certainly have never let that happen again.
Only once even had a nocturnal emission. We had houseguests for several weeks, and I was super busy with work and went something like 12 days without masturbating. Woke up from a sexy dream to find a mess of cum in my pajamas.
From that you can infer that 12 days is the longest I have EVER gone without masturbating. Certainly have never let that happen again.
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Quote by joe71The forums here have inspired me to actually write up my experience. My story is posted in the Bisexual category, entitled "A Hole New World."
First and only: sucked a guy through a gloryhole. Didn't realize the gloryhole was there. Not planned. Loved it.
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Did once, through a gloryhole. Loved the taste, smell, feel, everything about it. And yes I swallowed his cum, and loved that too. Dude bailed and didn't reciprocate, so maybe he was an asshole but I got to taste his cock and cum. And nearly 30 years later I am still so glad I did it, because I know what it's like, and it makes my man-man fantasies (involving people I do care about) soooo much better to have done it that one time.
Listen to me, OP and bishyguy25 and any other lurkers who are fantasizing about it, DO IT! While you're single. Don't find yourself married and 40 (or 60!) kicking yourself for never having tried it. You're lucky: HIV is much less threatening now (pornstars were using condoms for blowjobs when I was a young man) and you have the Internet to find cocks to suck. Much easier and safer than the old days. DO IT!
OK, these conversations have inspired me to write up the full story of my one experience with another guy's cock. It just got posted in the Bisexual category, story titled A Hole New World. Please go read it. It's one of the few 100% true stories I will ever get to post here.
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Quote by absolemWere you actually able to get yourself far enough into your mouth to cum without touching it with your hands? That would be awesome
2 actually. One not in my mouth but was sliding my mouth on the side of the shaft. He came too fast. Other one, I used to be flexible enough to get mine in my mouth. I sucked myself until i came in my mouth. Loved the feel of my cock throbbing on my tongue and the taste of my cum.
I never quite got there ... could get the head between my lips, but had to use my hands to finish the job. Still was able to shoot directly into my mouth with my lips barely touching it, but I can't quite say I ever truly gave myself a blowjob. And not for lack of trying, when I was flexible enough to at least make lip-cock contact.
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Quote by Jam_Wil_MacI don't see it quite that way. There are analogs between male and female parts.
Absolutely not. I am proud to have a foreskin.
I believe circumcision for anything other than medical purposes amounts to genital mutilation, no better than the religious and ethnic FGM that has taken place in Africa.
Male circumcision is akin to labiectomies that (sadly) I hear are starting to become more common practice among plastic surgeons. Unfortunate perhaps, but not extremely damaging to a person's sexuality.
FGM as widely practiced (including clitoral removal) is analogous to removing the head of the penis. That is highly damaging to a person's sexuality.
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Oblige? I don't think I'd wait for her to ask for it. My flexible tongue would be down there dancing with her clit as she drops herself on his cock with hammer-like blows so she can cum faster and I can hold his cock down my throat and taste her cum soaking into my taste buds as soon as possible
Same here. It wouldn't be a matter of her begging me, it would be a matter of me begging her. So many possibilities!
- I would love to suck a guy's cock and a woman's pussy while 69ing with her, and have his cum ooze out of her pussy into my mouth (or, he pulls out and cums directly into my mouth - also good).
- Or, I would have a woman on top of me, riding me like a bronco and then the other guy sticks his cock in my face.
- Or, I would love climb between a guy's legs while the woman does the same, and we take turns licking my buddy's (or her partner's) cock.
-Or, I would love to have her start riding him reverse-cowboy, and I move in and start licking them both: I suck on his balls, then pop his cock out, suck on it for a minute until he's almost ready to cum, then have him cum inside her, then I slurp it down and lick it off her pussy and his shaft as it drips out.
- Or, I would love to 69 with a guy while she watches, diddling herself silly with excitement. Either a prelude to us double-fucking the woman, or the guy and I can cum in each other's mouths as long as she kisses us afterward. I'd still be down to fuck her even after that.
- Or, I would love to suck a cock while she blows me.
- Or, I would love to be kissing a woman while the other guy titty-fucks her, cumming into both of our mouths.
- Or, I would love to suck a guy, take his load in my mouth and share it with them in a three-way kiss while my fingers reach deep into her pussy.
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Circumcised here. Only had contact with one other cock, and it was also circumcised - so like many guys I don't really know what uncut is like.
I don't know why anyone would think either one is ugly. Maybe I didn't use to think uncut ones were attractive - I have to admit the curve of an exposed cockhead makes my own cock jump - but you know, the head's still there when you pull back the skin, and that seems to do the same thing to me. Admittedly, the last couple years seeing more uncut dicks in porn has got me curious about them.
I'd sure like to know what it is like, and I'm sure it would be wonderful to suck one. Would like to play with it of course, and would LOVE to try docking if they guy has enough skin. But I would just as much like to explore the folds with my tongue, feel all that skin squirming around between my lips ... sounds great. Somehow can't imagine the taste or smell would be issues as long as the man has bathed reasonably recently. (The cum tastes the same, amiright?) If the aroma and taste are a little stronger, well hell that might just make me cum without even touching myself.
By the way, I do know that hygiene is not an issue for uncircumcised people. That was a bullshit excuse parents gave themselves for doing it. There's nothing wrong with either choice. NEVER put down others just to help you feel better about yourself - something is wrong when you do that. Love your body. And love the body you're with.
Myths on both sides ... somebody above speculated that being cut makes masturbation more difficult. No, that's fake news too. I can tell you I can jerk myself just as easily as you can (wouldn't I LOVE to compare with an uncircumcised guy? YES! Of course that would quickly lead to my mouth on his cock if he let me). Even fully erect, there's enough loose skin left on my shaft that I can grab some and slide up and down most of the length easily, no lube or lotion needed. Have cum tens of thousands of times this way.
I don't know why anyone would think either one is ugly. Maybe I didn't use to think uncut ones were attractive - I have to admit the curve of an exposed cockhead makes my own cock jump - but you know, the head's still there when you pull back the skin, and that seems to do the same thing to me. Admittedly, the last couple years seeing more uncut dicks in porn has got me curious about them.
I'd sure like to know what it is like, and I'm sure it would be wonderful to suck one. Would like to play with it of course, and would LOVE to try docking if they guy has enough skin. But I would just as much like to explore the folds with my tongue, feel all that skin squirming around between my lips ... sounds great. Somehow can't imagine the taste or smell would be issues as long as the man has bathed reasonably recently. (The cum tastes the same, amiright?) If the aroma and taste are a little stronger, well hell that might just make me cum without even touching myself.
By the way, I do know that hygiene is not an issue for uncircumcised people. That was a bullshit excuse parents gave themselves for doing it. There's nothing wrong with either choice. NEVER put down others just to help you feel better about yourself - something is wrong when you do that. Love your body. And love the body you're with.
Myths on both sides ... somebody above speculated that being cut makes masturbation more difficult. No, that's fake news too. I can tell you I can jerk myself just as easily as you can (wouldn't I LOVE to compare with an uncircumcised guy? YES! Of course that would quickly lead to my mouth on his cock if he let me). Even fully erect, there's enough loose skin left on my shaft that I can grab some and slide up and down most of the length easily, no lube or lotion needed. Have cum tens of thousands of times this way.
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Quote by chastebob
Especially if she has lots of natural juices and scents. It honestly can get me hard when Cialis seems to be failing me ... I'd pick eating her pussy until I was just too tired, and then a little rest and I'd be ready to go again.[/QUOTE]
I hear you! Yes, the combination of taste and smell that comes from a pussy as you dig into it! Love it. If I absolutely had to choose one favorite activity with a woman, it would be a tough choice between vaginal fucking or going down on her. For pussy eating (or ... mmmm ... 69) you don't have to be absolutely hard. Could do it any time, even after (especially after!) I've already cum in her pussy and my dick is done for the time being.
Okay, if I had to choose ONE thing to do with a woman, it would be 69. If for whatever reason I can't or am not allowed to put my cock in her pussy, I'd gladly "settle" for 69. Absolutely love the feeling of giving oral affection to a woman while she does the same to me, bringing each other to climax with our ministrations. Even better: the sloppy kiss afterwards.
Truth be told, if I were allowed do one and only one thing with another man, that would also be 69. Guess I'm pretty orally oriented.
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I also love a hairy bush. I have no trouble parting hair and getting some in my mouth from time to time.
Absolutely. I have loved the variety of bush across even just the modest sample of women I've been with (not to mention in hairy porn): some have fine hair, some coarse, some honey colored, some brown, some black. Some just have mostly a triangle, with a few hairs next to the pussy. Some have a thick strip along the pussy lips, and on some women it extends onto the thighs and maybe a few faint hairs up towards the navel. ALL ARE HOT! Women, if you need to trim it to fit it in a bikini, I understand - but don't think you need to trim it just to please a guy. In the winter a lot of us would love to see you grow it out.
And getting the occasional hair stuck in your throat while you're consuming a cunt (just think - a lot of young men today don't even know what that's like?!) is the price you pay for the beautiful work of art that is a natural pussy. Worth it.
One of the hottest bushes I ever experienced was on a woman who had darkish red hair on her head. She had a very full, thick rich bush, including below the triangle, not quite onto her thighs. PLUSH might be the most descriptive word. But the most magical thing was the color: dark, almost black but with a glint of red in it. Not just a redHEAD. Absolutely heavenly to behold.
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Remember the Black Jeopardy episode on SNL 4 years ago with Tom Hanks?
A: "What a skinny woman can do for you"
Doug hits the button
Q: "What is ... not a damn thing!"
I don't feel quite that strongly, and don't mind thinner women, but overall I like them a bit thicker. Never understood the overemphasis on thinness. Has caused so many women so much pain. Let your body be what it wants to be. If you're naturally thin, fine. Be proud of your body, but don't think it makes you better than heavier people. Naturally heavier? Be proud of that too. A lot more guys dig it than society would lead you to believe.
A: "What a skinny woman can do for you"
Doug hits the button
Q: "What is ... not a damn thing!"
I don't feel quite that strongly, and don't mind thinner women, but overall I like them a bit thicker. Never understood the overemphasis on thinness. Has caused so many women so much pain. Let your body be what it wants to be. If you're naturally thin, fine. Be proud of your body, but don't think it makes you better than heavier people. Naturally heavier? Be proud of that too. A lot more guys dig it than society would lead you to believe.
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Like colin, hasabrain and bleueyed, I prefer a full bush, though trimmed for bikini season is fine. Bald is a turn-off. Would feel like I'm with a little girl. I like women with pretty much all body types, hairstyles, skin tones and even genitalia (trans okay with me) but a shaved pussy is a hard pass for me. Just not sexy.
Hair down there is natural for women. Even in porn they only started shaving in the 90s. Full bush wasn't just a 60's/70's hippie thing when women let all their hair grow. For pretty much forever, women shaved their pits and legs, but let their bushes alone. Not sure why that suddenly changed about 25 years ago. I do notice that bush is starting to make a *little* bit of a comeback in porn the last year or two.
Hair down there is natural for women. Even in porn they only started shaving in the 90s. Full bush wasn't just a 60's/70's hippie thing when women let all their hair grow. For pretty much forever, women shaved their pits and legs, but let their bushes alone. Not sure why that suddenly changed about 25 years ago. I do notice that bush is starting to make a *little* bit of a comeback in porn the last year or two.
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@jem3 ... weird that would only start when you were 38. My cock has always been that way, shrinking down to an inch or two at times. Maybe you don't remember the Seinfeld episode where a woman George liked saw him in the "shrinkage" state?
"I WAS IN THE POOL!"
What you're describing is perfectly normal.
"I WAS IN THE POOL!"
What you're describing is perfectly normal.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
Did once, and loved it. That was many years ago, and I am still grateful that I had that random encounter, so I don't spend all my time wondering what if. I KNOW what if. I don't feel the need to stray from my wife to find out, and my fantasies are better and more vivid than if I hadn't done it. If I didn't KNOW what it feels like to have a beautiful cock erupt into my mouth, I might have been tempted by now to go and have the experience. Better I did it when I was single.
At the time, it was kind of imperative that no one else know. Now people are more accepting of bisexuality, if I were a young man today I might have been a lot more willing to "try something" with a buddy.
At the time, it was kind of imperative that no one else know. Now people are more accepting of bisexuality, if I were a young man today I might have been a lot more willing to "try something" with a buddy.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
For the most part I don't envy women, and I'm glad I'm a man.
I think the only thing I envy about women is that bisexuality is more accepted, and even considered normal. No one bats an eye at a "straight" woman going down on another woman occasionally. I would probably have had a lot more experiences with other men if it weren't so looked down upon (carrying with it the real risk of getting beaten, or ostracized by your friends) when I was a young man.
It does look like things are finally changing, and male bisexuality is much more accepted than it used to be. Hooray. And having just discovered LushStories, I'm also thrilled that it's particularly accepted here, and that we bi guys can talk freely about our fantasies and experiences, even away from bi/gay forums, and not be judged for it. This is the only place I've ever been able to express this side of my sexuality - and you WILL be rewarded with stories soon. Thanks everyone!
I think the only thing I envy about women is that bisexuality is more accepted, and even considered normal. No one bats an eye at a "straight" woman going down on another woman occasionally. I would probably have had a lot more experiences with other men if it weren't so looked down upon (carrying with it the real risk of getting beaten, or ostracized by your friends) when I was a young man.
It does look like things are finally changing, and male bisexuality is much more accepted than it used to be. Hooray. And having just discovered LushStories, I'm also thrilled that it's particularly accepted here, and that we bi guys can talk freely about our fantasies and experiences, even away from bi/gay forums, and not be judged for it. This is the only place I've ever been able to express this side of my sexuality - and you WILL be rewarded with stories soon. Thanks everyone!
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
Did once, through a gloryhole. Loved the taste, smell, feel, everything about it. And yes I swallowed his cum, and loved that too. Dude bailed and didn't reciprocate, so maybe he was an asshole but I got to taste his cock and cum. And nearly 30 years later I am still so glad I did it, because I know what it's like, and it makes my man-man fantasies (involving people I do care about) soooo much better to have done it that one time.
Listen to me, OP and bishyguy25 and any other lurkers who are fantasizing about it, DO IT! While you're single. Don't find yourself married and 40 (or 60!) kicking yourself for never having tried it. You're lucky: HIV is much less threatening now (pornstars were using condoms for blowjobs when I was a young man) and you have the Internet to find cocks to suck. Much easier and safer than the old days. DO IT!
Listen to me, OP and bishyguy25 and any other lurkers who are fantasizing about it, DO IT! While you're single. Don't find yourself married and 40 (or 60!) kicking yourself for never having tried it. You're lucky: HIV is much less threatening now (pornstars were using condoms for blowjobs when I was a young man) and you have the Internet to find cocks to suck. Much easier and safer than the old days. DO IT!