I have just gotten off of work and decide to stop for a few drinks at the bar. You are already there and sitting a few seats away. I see you and you wave and say hello. We are both just sitting enjoying our drinks but occasionally glance at one another. There is a seat open next to me and you come and sit down and ask me how I am doing. I tell you I am fine and ask how you have been and what is new with you. We sit and ta...