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Quote by MoonlightSerenity
I don't know if others will agree with me on this, but have you tried riding crops that are meant for use on horses? They tend to be more durable than the kind you get out of a sex store (Well I've not broken my one yet on myself).

If not, they can be picked up relatively cheap. (Robinsons do whips from just £3)


Thank you for your reply Moonlight Serenity, and thank you for your suggestion. I am certainly willing to try a real riding crop but I don't know what 'Robinsons' is.
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My wife really likes to be spanked and so to please her in any way I can I bought a riding crop. Alas it was a piece of crap that came in 2 pieces which would come apart any time I used it on her. This, as you can imagine, was rather frustrating on her and only served to leave her disappointed. Of course I could always use my hand, and have been, but now I would like some advise on what crops or paddles work best and where I can buy them without taking out a second mortgage. Thank you in advance for your help.
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I would say bi-curious until you've actually experienced it - especially if you're just fantasizing at this stage and have mixed feelings about it (eg. wanting a blindfold etc.).

You might also have a sexually submissive side that you want to explore too (the blindfold and taking advantage bit). If your current sexual experiences have you in the traditionally dominant role with women, maybe you're more interested in experiencing a sub role. Like would a woman wearing a strap-on while you were blindfolded be a turn on, or is it specifically a guy's cock that excites you in that scenario. The first would be desire to be in a sub role and the latter would be bi-curious leanings. Or, it might be a bit of both.

I also agree that sexuality is fluid and can change to a certain degree with time and experience.


The strap-on thing isn't a turn-on for me Dancing Doll. It's more the thought of sucking a cock and making it cum in my mouth. Penetration isn't in the mix at all. I guess I want to be used but not to the point where it's painful.
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I would say that if you liked to dress as a woman then you'd be a crossdresser (not sure if that's technically a sexual classification though) if not then I think you are straight, but probably with a few fetishes such as women's perfume or clothing. That being said, as long as you (and hopefully your wife) are both sexually satisfied does it matter? Just do what pleases you most.

You're right indyguy, that it doesn't matter and we have a very satisfying and varied sex life. I ask the question because sexuality is an ever evolving thing for me and, I think, most people i.e. it changes as you progress through life. Maybe not in huge ways but over time there can be a huge shift from where you were to where you are. Tastes change, fantasies change, appetites change etc. Because I have fantasies about sucking cock, does that make me 'curious' or does it mean that I have a vivid imagination?
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I love all things feminine. I love women. I love how they look, feel, smell, taste. I don't like men at all. I think we're visually, emotionally and sexually inferior to women. Saying that though, if I were blindfolded and couldn't hear I would want to ease who's ever was there to take advantage. I think I could suck clock as easily as eat pussy in that case. So where do I fall in the sexual classification? I've always thought of myself as very open-minded her to but what's your opinion?
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I'm Irish and living in The U.S. I find that I get lots of positive feedback from people here, though I don't see why. To me it's a real rough accent. I love accents too though. Almost anything that is different than your own accent seems to be a bit exotic.
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1. Jealousy
2. Low intelligence
3. Prudishness
4. Bad hygiene
5. Poor grooming.
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As long as the neighbour kids are not around it's fine. Don't cover up for anyone else
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I like Wet Synergy. It's a blend of traditional and silicone that can be used with any other material. It outlasted pretty much everything else out there and stays wet longer. Best place to buy in probably Amazon, where you can make big savings from time to time. Or you can check out their website for more details and other products.
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