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martb40
1 month ago
Fluid Male, 54
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My own opinion is that if it's beyond mainstream it's kinky. That is, if it's not something that everyday people do on a regular basis. Things that would fall into this category for me would be. Voyeurism, exhibitionism, bdsm, electro shock, golden showers, etc, etc etc. There is a long list but that's my take on it.
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My current 'go to' fantasy right now is where my wife is being fucked by a well hung guy, doggy style, and I am under her, licking her clit at the same time. Of course I have a close up view and my tongue strays occasionally to lick her cum off his shaft. Then when he's about to cum I pull him out of her pussy and finish him off i my mouth. The thought makes me so hot it's uncomfortable.
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Depending on your backround, culture, religious beliefs etc you may have a very different definition of the word 'Kinky'. I'm interested to hear how people from different cultures and areas of the world differ on this as I'm interested in finding out if the girls differ from the boys. I also wonder if age is a factor. I don't want to influence anyone's answers by laying out my own thoughts on it but I will comment and elaborate about my definition when the question is closed.
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Heels are a work of art, if we're talking Jimmy Choo, Christian Louboutin, Miu Miu, Gucci etc. For me, they stand out on their own and are beautifully crafted eye candy. Of course they enhance the legs also. If you wear a beautiful pair of heels you don't need anything else.
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I've always been interested in the more exotic aspects of sex. I think that once I got over the romance idea of sex the possibilities became more intriguing. I can't say that I've always been interested in beam, that's a more recent development, but things that would shock the vanilla community were always to the fore in my mind. I like to push my limits and keep things interesting.
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Genuine question about anal play. I'm very new to this aspect of sexuality and I would like to know if there is a point that shouldn't be crossed in the size of anything you put in your ass. To explain further... I once heard that if you cross a certain point, your ass will stay stretched. I wouldn't want that to happen, though I wouldn't mind if it was a bit more accessible for playtime. Please, serious answers only.
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I'm fascinated by shemales/transexuals/transgendered, whatever the correct term is. I understand it isn't a lifestyle choice and that the emotional, psychological issues that these girls suffer is very real and unpleasant. I do find that the duality of female with male genitalia a turn on though. There are certainly lots of possibilities.
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I have a very limited sex toy arsenal and would like to expand... and by that I mean I have two very small vibrators. Lame. Ok, and arm/leg restraints and an eye mask. But that's it. I have been searching for days online to find highest rated toys, etc, etc, but I think it's easier to just ask people who have used them. What is your favorite sex toy? Does brand matter?
*I am particularly interested in getting one with a remote - one I can wear in my panties and give the remote to someone else*
Thanks in advance for the advice!
I have tried for a long, long time to get a wireless vibe for my wife and I to play with but with little or no success. The signal is always too weak or they just don't work. I am tempted to try one of those inserted into a special pantie or a butterfly.
That aside though, my wife's favourite toys are glass dildos. She always has the best orgasms when I use those on her g-spot. In fact she likes the glass ones so much that we have built up a collection of all different types, sizes and shapes. Edenfantasy.com is a good place to search.
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I think that maybe it's such a big deal for you, psychologically, that your brain has already accepted failure before anything even begins. You have orgasmed while drunk because you were relaxed and not so focused on reaching climax. The brain is the largest sex organ in your body and can delay or rush orgasm depending on how it's stimulated. Be assured that if you can orgasm while drunk you can orgasm sober. In fact, it's often far more difficult to orgasm after consuming alcohol. Try to focus on your favourite fantasy while your partner stimulates your clitoris. Try to relax, close your eyes and let your mind wander. The more relaxed you are and the less you focus on the negatives, the easier it will be for you to be sexually satisfied with your partner. I know this from having difficulty with reaching orgasm myself, through fellatio, with former partners. Only my wife has ever been able to get me there and it was a battle because I was convinced that I couldn't orgasm that way. Once she broke that misconception in me I had no problem and it's one of my favourite things now. I hope that this helps you to achieve your goal and have a far mor rewarding sex life with your partner.
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Agree with KatR. Walking is the best form of aerobic exercise other than swimming. It's low impact, exercises most of your main muscle groups and you can do it anywhere, with a friend, on your own, with strangers. And if you do it right and put in the effort you need a shower afterwards.... OK that sounds like sex. lol
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Robinsons is a massive horse supply store.
[url=]You can find them here.[/url]
Edit: I don't know if they'll ship to the states at a decent price, but there should be a similar provider in the states.
Thank you so much Moonlight. That info is great. I'll look here to see what I can find.