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Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by vanessa26
Also I actually have to have to feel some sort of connection
this is actually key for me. i do cyber occasionally, and it's always with someone i know, and have a connection with and am just as happy chatting with about non-sexual things on a regular basis. i won't do it with strangers or people i don't know well or simply don't feel connected too. not at all a silly answer.
Her Royal Spriteness
few things.
1) when i first joined, i got the new girl treatment, which means i got pestered by stranger men to cyber constantly. first three days, it was fun. then it got old and i stopped. mostly, it was boring. i was just a thing for most of them to get off on. there was an exception to that, but still, it lost it's appeal quickly.
2) not too long after i got involved with a girl here, so we cybered. it was the connection, tho, and that's key. i was 'monogamous' during that time period. eventually it ended and i stopped.
3) connection, remember? i do cyber - no, i am not naming names. if they wish to, i won't mind, but i know them all well enough to know they won't. they're all writers, but it's not because of that, it's because it's people i have a real connection with, (and most of my friends here are writers) - let's call it friends with benefits, emphasis on "friends". usually, we just talk. sometimes, it turns to more, sometimes it doesn't - no expectations. i enjoy it. i enjoy just the talks, too. if there wasn't that, the chats, the mutual affection beyond lust, i wouldn't do it. so yeah, there you go.
1) when i first joined, i got the new girl treatment, which means i got pestered by stranger men to cyber constantly. first three days, it was fun. then it got old and i stopped. mostly, it was boring. i was just a thing for most of them to get off on. there was an exception to that, but still, it lost it's appeal quickly.
2) not too long after i got involved with a girl here, so we cybered. it was the connection, tho, and that's key. i was 'monogamous' during that time period. eventually it ended and i stopped.
3) connection, remember? i do cyber - no, i am not naming names. if they wish to, i won't mind, but i know them all well enough to know they won't. they're all writers, but it's not because of that, it's because it's people i have a real connection with, (and most of my friends here are writers) - let's call it friends with benefits, emphasis on "friends". usually, we just talk. sometimes, it turns to more, sometimes it doesn't - no expectations. i enjoy it. i enjoy just the talks, too. if there wasn't that, the chats, the mutual affection beyond lust, i wouldn't do it. so yeah, there you go.
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Quote by Palidon
Can anyone give me instruction on how to observe the appearance of my Profile/Home page/Wall through the eyes of a non friend...the casual observer if you will..
When I make changes...I see the end result...but don't know if some things are hidden....
Please and thank you..
log off and then go to your page as a non member.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by GoNE68
Well said!
But I guess as long as we understand each other where's the harm.
However there are a lot of common usage Americanisms that I have no fucking idea what they mean. Mostly to do with schools and universities I think.
i have a lot of friends here on Lush from the UK as well as modding stories from English writers and as time goes on, i've adapted a lot of Englishisms by osmosis, including spelling.
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Quote by mranonymous7
why is American English wrong?...it maybe wrong in England...but not in the Good Old US of A....its like the difference between Spanish & Mexican...both are correct in their on countries...
it's called English, rather than Americanish, for a reason, ya know.
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Quote by Adagio
I was ask, why I didn't buy a gold and get pushed to the head of the line? Its not that I don't want a gold. The short of it all being, I promised my mom as she lay dying that I would never buy porn again. I was in the xxx business for a number of years.
you could always just consider it a charitable contribution to all the mods who you work so hard, Al.
congratulations on your accomplishment. now, start working on 2 million, okay? 
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Quote by mranonymous7
I'm sorry but the story looses its effect without the names being spelled out. anyone of reasonable intelligence will know from the story content the readers intent. I once wrote a story taking place in the 50s where NOT to use the word ' ' would have spoiled the intent of the story. a black web-site owner read the story took the word as it was meant & wasn't offended. he even invited me to start posting my stories on his web-site. which I did for almost 10 years. only stopped because his web-site got a virus that would lock down my comp & require me to call an 800 number & pay to get it freed. 3 times I went into my senile old man with heart trouble routine & talked them into freeing it up for nothing...the last time I got so 'up-set' I was having a heart attack on the phone. the poor guy thought I was dying. he down loaded an anti-virus program on to my comp so if it happened again I could remove it myself.
and that, folks, is why we don't allow the 'n' word on lush.
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Quote by Myamibi
I've just got 10 counselling appointments through an women's agency. I get tired of going over my story, but I am going to try again. I am strongly resisting meds, but as I seem to cry at the drop of a hat, I wonder if I should.
i have done meds a few times in my life, and done them until i felt strong enough to quit, and quit. treat them like a bandaid - when you're bleeding, you need them. when it's healed a bit, you can think about easy off them. i hate them, honestly, but at times, they keep me 'sane'. *hugs*
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Quote by Simmerdownchick
I guess there is always someone who's suffered more. My abuse ended at 14, but I build it a long time. I still have blank spots in my memories. Ah to have the eternal sunshine off a peaceful mind...
Still, night time sucks. I never knew the extent of your violation and betrayal. I mean, I just didn't put it all together before. If I had a daughter, she'd be inTai Kwan Doe (sp?) for sure. I'm okay, but I often wonder who Lynda would be if she'd have been shown love and been nutured...
That's it..I want a clone!
Too everyone that has suffered in shame. We are not alone. Together we are a force to be reckoned with!
i don't know, i think Lynda's pretty awesome as she is - that's a lot of shit to go through, and yet, here you are and you kind of rock. that said, yeah, the what ifs again, right? i get them too - how would my life have turned out differently? thing is, there is no answer, so i'm just going with 'my life is pretty awesome as it is, with the slight and occasional hiccup'.
doing better today, mostly it's about keeping busy. 
