Quote by KimmiBeGood
A needle in my left forearm throbbed the whole time. My acupuncturist said it was clearing a stress block. Now I’m yawning like crazy.
As to Milik and David’s points, my 2 cents:
I’d definitely think personality would be as important for a mod. Too many chiefs could be a problem. And I’m a people watcher. I’ve seen since I started here the competitive natures of writers. Which can be good and bad. Comparison is often a thief of joy. The happiest writers do their thing because they love creating and interacting with readers and don’t look for accolades in the form of comp wins, stats, or RRs to validate they should write. Sure, those things are nice, but you shouldn’t NEED it so badly that you become bitter towards the site or others. I’ve been called a friend collector behind my back when I maybe sent 10 friend request, I just don’t turn down any. Had RRs questioned. At times it’s sent me into hiding, but not as much now.
I’ve heard comp grumbles since my first one. Everyone wants to win. Authors want to call the process unfair if they don’t. Grumbles of mods getting preferential from judges have always been here. I have NEVER thought comps are unfair. And I’ve maybe Top Ten’d half, probably less. I don’t feel cheated. I don’t even think my story wasn’t good if I don’t Top Ten. I think other authors hit the theme harder, were hotter, or just appealed to the judges’ tastes more. I hate it Sprite said she wasn’t going to enter a comp again because of grumblings. If I was one of those grumblers, I’d be ashamed of myself. I wouldn’t feel good about being in the Top Ten if the best writers sat out.
And I think the best writers want critiques. I know Ensorceled (Verbal) shares his writing in critique groups. He talks about it on SS. No doubt that helps him be better. And although WannabeWordsmith has podiumed many, he has no ego. You’d think a man who has won so much would think everything he writes is perfect, but he doesn’t and welcomes critique if you work with him. I was pleasantly surprised when I co-wrote with him how open he is to change. No doubt that’s a reason he’s so good.
Bear—a best-selling non-fiction writer—is the same way. He accepts criticisms.
Yesterday, I had a lady PM me about my comp piece. She was hesitant to tell me, but told me of something I could have done differently to improve my story, something that disappointed her a bit. I was so thankful to her and would have changed it if not a comp entry. I totally agreed with her assessment.
So, as writers, we have some positive and negative tendencies. I remember being butt-hurt my first SS and Lush comp, but I need to feel joy writing, so I changed my outlook.
Anyway, I am thankful to the mods and all they deal with. I couldn’t do it. And I’m more a loner. I’ve always worked alone as a programmer, managed myself. My team is VPs and users, but I’m the sole programmer on my projects. And there’s still been drama with others at times with what projects I get. Always gonna be drama within any group I think unless those who hear it try to nip it in the bud instead of listening and passing the negativity along.
Anyways, I gotta get back to work.
Love you all! 
EPs your post. lol