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Her Royal Spriteness
Okay, Doll and i were having this conversation recently, based on someone insisting that oral sex is NOT cheating. so... what IS cheating then? is it only vaginal sex? what about anal? how about if you have vaginal sex, but pull out before you cum? rim jobs? how the hell am i going to know if ;m cheating, unless i get some answers? please, help a girl out here! 
Her Royal Spriteness
earlier today, the supreme court agreed that corporations with anti-birth control religious beliefs cannot be required to provide contraceptive coverage to female employees. corporations are people. women, apparently, aren't.
if corporations are people then why can't I punch one in the motherfucking face?
if corporations are people then why can't I punch one in the motherfucking face?
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Quote by SixtyMinuteMan
Was going to just leave this topic alone, but that "fuck 'em" bugs me. I clicked into this thread expecting it to be about how many people read without scoring and/or commenting. Last thing I expected was a discussion about whether authors owe readers thanks. Honestly, Ajax, I'm not sure where you're even coming from. I'll reply to a nice comment, especially if the person comments more than once, but even with the relatively few comments I get it would be problematic to reply to them all. Some stories get triple digit replies, answering them all would be a full time job. It would preclude more writing.
We spend many hours on these stories. My story "Samuel" has about forty hours of my life in it. Five thousand people have read it here and of that number, eight have taken two seconds to click a score. Eight. Of those eight I've made one friend, dpw, replied to I think three others, and clicked "like" on all of them. To me, freely sharing something that I put that much effort into is my part of the deal. Read, enjoy, please comment, but if you feel an author owes you gratitude for reading, do please stay away from my stories. The opening of my psyche and the full work week I put into getting you off was more than enough.
The readers should give the authors feedback and kudos, not the other way around. Goodness.
can i add my own
to this? Dancing Doll takes time to thank people for comments, and i think it's amazing. she also takes time to answer PMs about her stories. i used to do both as well. sometimes the comments or PMs are simple - your story was awesome, and it was easy to do. sometimes i'd end up getting lengthy PMs and i'd answer them back. and then i'd get another one in reply. at a certain point i realized that i was spending as much time saying thank you as i was writing - i even had one reader who'd send me daily PMs who got upset when i started lagging in my answers. at present, i have over 100 stories up, i verify stories and i'm one of the senior mods. here. i really do appreciate comments and thanks yous, but keeping up with them is impossible - if someone sends me something particularly touching, i WILL reply, sometimes it takes a week or too, but i will. the ones that simply say 'great story, thanks' tho, i don't. yes, i read them, yes, if someone does that repeatedly, i'll send out a thank you, but no, i don't thank each and every one - i just don't have the time. it would take away from my writing, my other duties here, and, frankly, the little fun time i do have chatting or using the forums...so, yeah, if you want to give me a big giant 'fuck you' and not read anymore of my stories, that's fine. consider this - on average, from idea so submission, i spend close to 40 hours working on a single story, sometimes less, sometimes more. that's writing, rewriting, editing, etc. i think that, putting out something fro other's enjoyment is thank you enough. if you want me to spend 1/4 of my writing time sending out little thank you notes, well, maybe you're asking a bit too much. btw, i work and i am in a relationship as well and at times, i even sleep.
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Quote by Magical_felix
LOL what... did you go to master college **Content removed by moderator. No name calling please.**?
Can someone please explain to me why someone needs to study like a huge nerd - for years - to learn something that should be an inherent trait because we are talking about sex here right?
I mean this dude studied - for years - to be a master...?
WHAT!?
Like studied what? Are there master textbooks n shit??? Like is there a master study group with quizzes n shit? Like is that an elective or can you minor in masterdom or what the hell? Can someone study - for years - to be a master and like fail? like, is there a head master to govern the study of masters and then they give out grades or what in the fuck? Can you get a BA in being a master or is it a BS as in bullshit of masterdom? Or do you like master in being a master. Like WHAT DO YOU STUDY TO BE A MASTER AND WHERE??????? Are some masters in student loan debt after studying - for years - to become a master? WHAT THE FUCK???
I'm sorry but this is just like one of the funniest things I have ever read.
i know there's a submissive course. i graduated Kittygirl Cum Louder just last year.
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Quote by HeraTeleia
Okay, this may be a dense question, but what is the algorithm used to determine who appears on the Top Authors list on the home page? It makes no damn sense to me that (as of this very second) I am at the top of that list, when I haven't posted anything since 2 June, and someone like Dirty_D, for example, who has two Story Picks up, is below me on the list.
no one has actually ever figured it out. not even Gav, and he created it.
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Quote by vines
**Content removed by Rage Patrol for a multitude of reasons. But mostly because this is some sick shit.**
for the record, and before Rage Patrol come in and has a word with you, you're pushing it, buddy. read the fucking rules, for starters. lucky for you i'm a mod, otherwise i'd be less polite.
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Quote by jackie42
Why on earth would a woman want to mutilate the most erotic parts of her ?!!! of course natural is by far better.
how is that mutilation? for the record, it's not about looking good. it FEELS good. i have a hood piercing which enhances my physical enjoyment of sex quite a bit. it's not ALWAYS about the guy, you know ;)
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Quote by Candylips1960
People the don't post pictures brother me if they have something to hide they should not be here. I might have a avatar but the pictures on my profile pictures r real.
lol - how does not revealing yourself to the entire population of lush translate into having something to hide? ever hear about selective privacy?
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
3 of the guys who do maintenance for our company agreed to remodel the kitchen in one of my rentals. After they were done, they offered to not charge me for all their work if I would fuck all 3 of them. It worked out to $900 and some per guy. My only experiment in 'prostitution'.
can you PM me their number? we need our kitchen done too.
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Quote by SeahawksFan
So damn glad and downright appreciative that my point was upheld and justified by the powers larger than this big haired bitch who thinks her shit don't stink. Overturning an unjust sentence is easy when the just don't fall into the hate and allow the hater to hang their damn selves with their own rope.
It takes a real piece of work to think they can bring someone down, and would actually attempt to bring someone down, based ONLY on their narrow-minded, power-coated ego, twisting of the truth and apparent thirst to have the last word.
Today, I have the last word and its the one that matters. Today - basking in the warmth of validation. Let that be a lesson to the the hater.
Bold/italicized/vividly colored font DOES a valid point make.
The venom has now - and finally - been purged!
How is that for the last word - BITCH!
did you not read the rules posted on page one, very top of the page, where you can't miss them? are you stupid, or just an ass? just curious.
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i wear a choker which is public friendly and a lovely reminder that i am owned. there are plenty of collars, in fact, that don't scream BDSM that you can wear in public. and, if you want to be less subtle, i think, in this day and age, i most places, that's certainly an option. personally, i don't care what strangers think. now, if it's friends or family, that's a whole nother conversation. sometimes that's tricky.
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frankly speaking...
i used to be in insecure writer and the scores bothered me. they also bothered my when i knew (and you can tell) when they were being malicious and just doing it to knock you down a bit. not sure exactly when, but at some point, i stopped caring. do i like the high scores? sure. we all like our egos being stroked. do i think i deserve them? nope. i can pick out several stories of mine that i deserve 4s or even 3s on. i hope that the 5s are honest representations of what people think and just not part of a popularity contest or fear that they will piss me off. when i get low scores now, i pretty much just shrug, or even laugh them off if i don't think i deserved them and then, they are forgotten. i don't do the forced comments thing, btw.
so yeah, i really don't care as long as you give me an honest opinion or an honest vote. 3, btw, is average. that's not a bad thing. there's a lot of average stories here. some of them are probably mine. anyone who blocks people or unfriends them or starts drama over a score of less then 5 probably needs to grow up a bit. lush is, and i am saying this as a mod, over generous with scores. it's part of the culture here, and that's great - it's supportive of it's writers. it's also very unrealistic. if most of us where writing for a editor or for another site, we'd have our eyes opened a bit when those 5s became a rarity rather than the rule.
i used to be in insecure writer and the scores bothered me. they also bothered my when i knew (and you can tell) when they were being malicious and just doing it to knock you down a bit. not sure exactly when, but at some point, i stopped caring. do i like the high scores? sure. we all like our egos being stroked. do i think i deserve them? nope. i can pick out several stories of mine that i deserve 4s or even 3s on. i hope that the 5s are honest representations of what people think and just not part of a popularity contest or fear that they will piss me off. when i get low scores now, i pretty much just shrug, or even laugh them off if i don't think i deserved them and then, they are forgotten. i don't do the forced comments thing, btw.
so yeah, i really don't care as long as you give me an honest opinion or an honest vote. 3, btw, is average. that's not a bad thing. there's a lot of average stories here. some of them are probably mine. anyone who blocks people or unfriends them or starts drama over a score of less then 5 probably needs to grow up a bit. lush is, and i am saying this as a mod, over generous with scores. it's part of the culture here, and that's great - it's supportive of it's writers. it's also very unrealistic. if most of us where writing for a editor or for another site, we'd have our eyes opened a bit when those 5s became a rarity rather than the rule.