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anywhere i am is a party smile i think we're watching it next door with a gang of people, that way i can keep running back and forth and checking on my kitty. oh, and i have been told to root for NE by my wife - sorry Nikki - maybe secretly i'll wear giant colored underwear for you!
i have a zip up eye glasses holder in my glove box that i keep 4 or 5 tampons in and, if i'm around my time, i slip it into my purse, just in case.
don't treat people like they are objects placed on Lush merely for your enjoyment. all too often i get black boxes, chats requests, comments in the chat room or on my profile wall that make it clear that people think that i am simply a nameless, faceless vagina that they wish to stick their tongue or penis in. my advice? if you wouldn't say something overtly sexual to a stranger on the street, don't do it to a stranger on the internet. yes, i do get a lot of very racy comments on my wall or in private from friends - if you're unsure if a comment or a picture would be welcome, perhaps it would be best to err on the side of caution.

i find that trust, friendship, and like develop over time - give them space to grow and you will enjoy your experience even more. none of us "conquored" Lush in a day - we spent time creating a bio, a presence, posting on forums, writing stories, visiting chat rooms, being nice, fun, interesting, and sexy people - in the end, you'll get more out of the site if you don't look at it as a place for the random cyber chat with some faceless avatar - trust me, if you want sexy chat, it's way more fun with someone who knows what you like and whose tastes mesh with yours. smile
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Something like that. Ha, show you mine, show me yours? Don't write a check your ass can't cash!


my ass is not in the habit of cashing checks. mostly, it's there for comfortable seating and to look totally hot in a pair of tight jeans heart
anal sex. i know it's a big turn on for a lot of men and women, and i have tried it, and with certain partners i am comfortable with it, but it's not something i really enjoy or get off on - it's more me doing it because it's pleasurable for my partner, more of a 'taking one for the team' thing. oh, and there are issues involved, i am aware of that, but even before those became a part of my make up, it was never a huge turn on for me - that said, it can be fun, but it has never resulted in a climax for me in and of itself.
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I'd like to have a way to weed out the trolls and fake profiles. Men posing as lesbians just to gain access to the real lesbians here. Maybe some sort of nipple verification process. Sprite seems to love Lush enough, maybe she'll be the first test subject?


is that kind of like the thing where they photograph your retina or do a scan of it? and what about the girls who pose as gay men, LM, trying to score with the real gay men? don't we need some sort of a scrotum verification too? you show me yours, i'll show you mine! ;)
G spot squirting is a sexual phenomenon that has become a popular fetish over the years. This process involves a woman having an orgasm and then shooting a clear liquid out of her vagina. This is also known as female ejaculation, and it is a big turn on for a lot of men. How does it work though, and can every woman squirt? These are the kinds of questions that seemingly plague the minds of the sexually active. Here are some basic answers to frequently asked questions about squirting. They should be able to help you understand the process a little better.

There are some people that claim that every woman can squirt. The problem is that there are very few women in the world that actually do experience G spot squirting. Those that do tend to happen upon their abilities by accident, either through masturbation or through intercourse. At this time, it is not totally clear as to what the truth is. It is possible that all women can do this but only a select few know how, and it is just as possible that it is an ability that is hit or miss. You can form your opinion about it from there.

G spot squirting has become so popular because it is an obvious indication of an orgasm. Men and women alike like to watch this act in porn because it shows that the woman in the adult film is truly having an orgasm. That makes the sex seem much better and more realistic in the end. The squirting does look a bit messy, like the woman’s vagina is uncontrollably shooting water all over the place. You will just have to look at some footage of it to see what it is like for yourself.

If you are going to try to induce G spot squirting, the best idea is to get the woman involved highly aroused ahead of time. Then her body will be as ready as it can be for pleasure. You can then move on to actually stimulating the G spot through some form of penetration. If the woman has her G spot stimulated enough, her muscles will react and she will start squirting. Then you just have to worry about the cleanup afterward. Sometimes the best things in life are the messiest ones to take care of. This is no exception.
can we put in a species section? i'd like to be able to identify myself as feline!

oh, and yeah, Catnip's suggestion - it's a pain to change your bio and have to respace it every time - i stopped even bothering, but it still bugs *hits red button and gives Gav an anal zap*
after lots of careful consideration, i have decided that yes, i AM a racist. i plan on devoting my day to removing anyone from my friends list not of Norwegian descent. also, i have given my wife a 3 day notice that she needs to vacate and find herself a new girlfriend. we have two cats, one who is orange, and one who is brown. guess which one is going to the pound today. yep, you guessed it, brown kitty. thank you for opening my eyes.

btw, if you think by this post i don't take racism seriously, Summa, you are sadly mistaken. i think the issue here is that you are either a troll or sadly misguided. if you really want to fight racism, put your money where your mouth is - posting some snarky accusations on a thread at a sex site isn't going to do a damn thing, especially when the people you are trying to educate probably have a firmer grasp of the subject then you do and have seen the effects of real racism first hand.

and that, folks, is my last word on the subject.
@ Summa - thing is, i'm still confused as to what statement i made that somehow defined me as a racist. i understand that i voiced my opinion on what i got out of Bambi's post, but i don't recall ever stating that was my belief - in fact, if you read my initial post, i distinctly voiced my opinion that, to me, the color of someone's skin makes absolutely no difference to me. That's what's got me scratching my head, quite honestly.
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but i think that the attitude that being accused of being a racist is the worst thing that you can be accused of is toxic and unhelpful.


Why? personally, i have huge issues with racism, bigotry, homophobia, and their ilk. in my book, being accused of such is, quite frankly, offensive. perhaps it is unhelpful, but if you'd accused me of being a homophobe, should i also have sat back and said 'yeah, you know? you're right, i'll re-examine my views and work on that. see, my point was, you don't know me - you say i should work on becoming less racist, on stamping out racism where ever it exists. how do you know i am not already on that path? you're painting some pretty broad strokes here and people tend not to fit neatly into catagories. 'racist' is a dirty word to some people.

i am just saying that you might want to re-think about how casually you throw it around - it's insulting, ugly, and polarizing. if that's your intent, fine, but i have found that most people tend to put up walls when they are branded as such, and i think that you're not servicing your argument by turning people off to the messenger, if not the message.

is there a small seed of racism inside of everyone? perhaps. that said, calling some one who doesn't act upon that seed, who doesn't let it color their thoughts or actions or beliefs, a racist, seems rather ungenerous and, quite frankly, rather rude. there are better ways to get people to examine what's inside of themselves then what has amounted to accusations, no matter how gently they've been administered.
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I'm sorry, but the certainty that you are not a racist, combined with the idea that you have already had all the education you need on racial issues, indicates that you are almost certainly a racist.

Fighting racism (especially that which we have internalized and which we don't notice) is a lifelong task. We will never be done, we can never relax our vigilance or assume that we are now free from racial prejudice.


ok, so, based on my interaction on this thread, you feel you have the right to brand me a racist? ok, cool. so be it, not really going to try to change you mind. i know better, my friends know better, that's really all that matters to me. must be nice to be able to accuse someone of something as reprehensible as racism with such certainty. obviously, i'm a racist. dammit, Lady X, it was nice being your friend while it lasted! hasta la vista, baby!

oh, crap... going to have to break up with my wife now, too... fuck... gotta go give her the bad news...
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i did not come into this thread looking for things to get upset about. if you did not notice the racism in the posts in this thread, i suggest that you are not nearly as sensitive as you think you are, and i would like to remind you (and everyone) that being aware of racism to some degree does not mean that we are always the ultimate arbiter of what is or isnt racist. everyone has blind spots, everyone is going to miss things, and at some point in their life, everyone will be confronted by someone who recognizes racist behavior where they dont. it is how we respond to these situations that define whether or not we are committed to anti-racism, and i invite all of you to learn and grow, as i try to do in my own life.


ok, i am going with sort of the view that, by racism, we are talking the negative aspects, the bigotry, the hatred, all that nasty stuff that i have experienced first hand from several perspectives growing up in a predominately black neighborhood - i have experienced it as a minority, and as a white girl looking seeing how the real minorities around me were treated. i think i have a good idea of what racism is. now, if you look in the dictionary...

rac·ism/ˈrāˌsizəm/
Noun:
1. The belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, esp. so as to distinguish it as...
2. Prejudice or discrimination directed against someone of a different race based on such a belief.

now, if you're going for the 'that you even recognize someone is a different color then you is racism' argument, then yeah, we are all racists - when i see a black man, i identify him as such - that said, i don't tack on characteristics to him because of his color, i simply identify him as black - now, i might use adjectives, like hot black man, tall black man, fat black man, just as i would expect someone seeing me to describe me as short white girl, blonde white girl, green eyed white girl. nothing wrong with that - now, if they's made an assumption about me because of my color, like unemployed uneducated white trash, then yeah, THAT is racism.

sorry, you're trying to hard here. either that, or i'm a racist. and no, i won't to around making statements that i have black friends, gay friends, asian friends, etc, cause it's beneath me - that said, my friends are my friends because of who they are, not what color they are. i am very certain that i am NOT a racist and i really don't need to be educated on the subject - been there, done that just - it's called life experience. smile
ok, wow. this has gotten interesting. i think Bambi's point is valid. most of us have a certain type of guy or girl that excites us visually. come one, look at all the sites or even threads here for hot redheads, blondes, black girls, latino girls, asian girls... so, if someone has a fetish for asian girls/guys, that means they are racist? sorry, that doesn't cut it. now, if someones says i won't date black dudes, that's one thing, but if someone says, i find indian men HOT and if i'm out scoping out guys, and there's a hot looking indian dude next to a hot looking black dude, i'm going to be undressing the indian dude with my eyes, not the black guy. nothing wrong with that.

we are attracted to who we are attracted to - that doesn't mean Bambi might not find a black man who just sweeps her off her feet and end up falling in love with him, it just means that's not the guy she's fantasizing about when she turns off the lights - nothing wrong with that.

for the record, i am very sensitive about racism, but Bambi's post didn't even registrar as such. sometimes we are looking way too hard fo things to get upset about, you know? smile

just my opinion.
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How old is Helen Mirren? That old.


Yeah, but dammit, Helen Mirren is HOT! seriously!
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What's wrong with pi? I'll bet yours is quite stunning!


i do bake a mean pumpkin pi for the holiday season smile
depends on the rules. if your partner knows about it and has given you their blessing. no. if you are lying about it, then yes. it's that simple. i'm not judging, btw, but it's pretty much black and white.
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Sad news on LMB's dog. She found it's remains in the house. They didn't realize the dog had been left inside.


give her my love and condolences. pets are family. i know how hard it must be on top of everything else sad
i like to dip mine in guacamole or add a twist of lemon. oh, that gives me an idea... semen martini... really, it's not that different from dirty martini's, is it?
i don't have a solution for you. however, i do have this to say. it's not a woman's job to pursue her husband. nor is it a man's job to pursue his wife. it should be done because you want to, it shouldn't be a chore, and it should be mutual - i can't imagine ever being in a relationship with both of us weren't thinking of ways to get the other into bed, or finding reasons to touch, kiss, flirt or tease on a day to day basis. no, i don't think it should or has to be constant, but it should be there in the air between you - yes, we all get stressed, tired, sick, or distant at times, but that should be something that lasts for days, not weeks, months, years sex should never be something that you have to get her a little drunk for her to enjoy. she should want you, just as you should want her. if that is missing, then there's a problem, not a minor one, but a big one, that needs to be addressed.
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The square root of 69 is 8-something, right? 'Cause I've been trying to work it out.


oh... i thought it had to do with Pi... see what i mean?
true story. while i was growing up, i wanted to be black. black girls were so beautiful and cool - white girls were kind of boring. now, well, i know a lot of cool, beautiful white girls, so that's changed a bit, but omg, i still love black girls *sighs* oh, and there's a certain korean girl at my bank who i am totally in lust with... i think she knows it too *blushes*

oh, i should mention that i feel the same way about black guys as i do girls - omg, there are some HOT black men out there *bites fingers to keep from embarrassing myself by moaning out loud*
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Sad, how utterly sad.
I'm almost ashamed to be human watching things like this.

Guns are no fun in the hands of humans, they're not more fun in the hands of an animal.


my thoughts exactly.
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Your methods are radical, Rachel, but I'll give it a shot. What rewards do pussies enjoy?


most pussies really enjoy fresh cream.
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But sometimes my pussies are bad and it's the only way they'll learn!


you should try rewarding them for good behavior rather then punishing them for bad.
Adventure man!

You scored 65% masculine, 35% athletic, 64% exotic, and 50% refined!

You like a man who doesn't need the crazy muscles to prove he is a 100% man. He is mysterious and his pictures make you want to jump into his head to see what is going on in there...or his pants I suppose. You like a little bad-ass in him and you may like someone like.....Jude Law.

mmm... Jude Law... heart
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Dancing_Doll wrote:


Ahhh... the amnesia you sustained after our dramatic cage-fight in the womb has clearly worked exactly to my plans... Muahaahaa!

Yes! I am your long-lost evil twin sister! And the internet has reunited us at last!





damn... now i feel a little dirty flirting with you... *giggles* and for the record, you may be the evil, pretty, clever, smart, talented twin but i am... damn... that doesn't leave much for me... i'm... well... my girlfriend is hotter then your girlfriend?





You girls "play nice" now....

Rick


Doll and i always play nice. that's all i am going to say on the subject. smile