i am 100% against animal cruetly! spanking, slapping, kicking or otherwise harming cats is just mean and there are laws against it!
ok, honesty time. i love my girl. she stays in shape, she looks good, she's hot. that's not why i love her, but it's part of why i love her and it's her. if that changed... it would mean she's changed. i don't think i'd love her less, but it would bother me, for her sake, knowing she'd be unhappy about it, and for mine. sure, a few extra pounds - notice i said a FEW - wouldn't make me love her any less, but if she put on a lot, if it effected what she could do, what we could do together, how she looked, how she felt about herself? yeah, i'd put my foot down, help her with whatever is going on, and get her back to where we are both happy. she's a beautiful girl, inside and out, and the inside is why i love her, but the outside can be a reflection of what's going on inside, and i am just shallow enough to no want to be with someone who just let's themselves go.
i have always dated good looking men, slept with good looking girls, i am attracted to physical beauty in both sexes. sorry, but that's me. if that makes me shallow, then so be it, i am shallow. doesn't mean i think less of people with those extra pounds - honestly, i feel sympathy for them, and would do anything in my power to help them get themselves back into shape. like i said, i am not talking a few extra pounds, i am talking about people who push the envelope, falling into the obese catagory, or nearing it - it's hard to see past the weight, the health issues, the mindset that lets them get to that state, and it would be frustrating to be with someone who can't do things because of their weight or health or being badly out of shape. plus, it would show they don't care about themselves or their relationship with me.
i didn't have to think about this one - i'd wish for my cat to be restored back to being 100% healthy and never regret the use of my one wish.
turn into jell-o and stutter a lot.
want to hear a serious answer? my first instinct is to say 'controlled'. i identify as a submissive, after all, but truthfully? i am always, in a way, in control. that's the appeal to me, i sometimes think - i can choose to give myself to someone, but i control the situation, i insist upon rules, i have a safe word to stop things, i have a lot of control in my relationships, in some ways i am a control freak. not sure how i feel about it, but i recognize it.
both are wonderful, but i prefer giving.
are you a morning person or a night person?
