I am Mary, and have been happily married for four years. My husband Thomas and I have a good relationship and sex has been generally good. Well, that is, apart from one aspect of sex that I never realized how much I needed until recently. This is the story of how I got just what I'd been missing.Thomas has always enjoyed sex, but if there was one area lacking, it was foreplay. It takes me a while to get going, but once hu...