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DakotaKid
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 39
0 miles · Sioux Falls

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My wife was a slut in college and has basically denied and lied anytime I would ask her if she slept with guys she dated. She would say no but I said I didn’t believe her and eventually she confessed. It kind of rubbed me the wrong way that she lied to me, I still don’t know her entire sexual past and I’m sure I never will. Too bad because I told her it would be fun to talk about and build our sex on but she apparently doesn’t see it that way and continues to not want to talk about her past. So I feel for you. Basically I feel that any guy she was friends with she fucked.
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Has anyone been to or going to YSW in March? My wife and I are going and it’s a blast. 7 days at all nude resort partying as long as you can. The age limit is 45, this is the best and really only party of its kind. It would be fun for more hot young couples to sign up before its sold out.


https://www.youngswingersweek.com/
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My wife and I are traveling to meet a guy we have been talking to for a potential threesome. We are planning to either meet athe the hotel before we go downtown or just meet at a bar. We got a jacuzzi suite room that we have stayed in before and said how fun it would be to bring someone else to. I am looking forward to sitting in the jacuzzi and lots of flirting, sex talk, and slowly easing into some wild hardcore sex. I'll let you guys know how it goes if anyone is interested.
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Thank you for the response. We actually went to Desire RM last December and had a great time. We are looking for something in the US. An event or party
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My wife and I would like to attend a swingers or lifestyle party and are willing to take a mini vacation to travel to one. Does anyone have a website or online source where you can find them? Thanks
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I have also tried to think of some fun group sex icebreaker games. I enjoy foreplay and therefore would enjoy a fun sexy game to get the ball rolling. One game I came up with but haven't had group sex yet to try it out;

This is a truth/dare/sex question challenge game that is sure to get the juices flowing. It is meant to be played with partners but could individuals. All you need is a die and a bunch of random questions, truth or dares. You can ask everyone to bring their own truths or questions and dares pre written or just come up with on the fly. When it's your turn you draw a card from a bowl that says truth, dare, or question. You choose the another team to do that task. They can roll a die and if they complete it they get hose number of points, if not then your team gets to keep them. You could omit the die and points and just have fun.

Also let me know how to make the game better. Here are a few things I came up with.
Take a body shot off of an opponent of the opposite sex

Go into a different room and flash an opponent of the opposite sex

Females You must be blindfolded and have both members of the challenging team lick each of your nipples at the same time, if you choose who was on each nipple you earn the points.

Males while blindfolded have one member of opposite sex from each team lick your nipple and guess who it was.

Say one sexual act you have done that nobody in the room knows - including your spouse or gf/bf

When was the last time you masturbated and where?

Guess the color of underwear of your opponent.

Have your partner stick their hand down your pants until it is their turn

Tell your opponents what sex position to act out for 30 seconds

Name a fantasy you always thought would be hot

Male - Have your female partner get their finger wet and lick it

Massage your opponents butt for 30 seconds

Have you ever had any contact with a member of the same sex? If so tell the tale.

Females- give a lap dance for 1 min to your opponent of the opposite sex

Feel your opponents boobs or crotches for 10 seconds

Flash the group

Do you shave or all natural?

Name one thing you would have each person in your threesome do to you.

Do you like to be spanked?

Do you like the taste of the opposite sex?

Tell one non traditional way you have masturbated.

Males lick your opponents clit on the outside of her underwear

Females receive a group massage for 2 min

Have your opponent write down their favorite sex position and try to guess it

While blindfolded have members of the opposite sex lick you for 10 seconds and try to guess who it was. If you guess incorrectly they get the points.

Males lie on your back blindfolded, have female opponents kneel overtop and lick them for 20 seconds each and try to guess who it was. If you guess in correctly, the get the points.

Have sex with your partner for 30 seconds whichever way your opponents choose.

Female while blindfolded get in doggy style position and have each man stick their dick inside for 5 seconds and try to guess who, your wrong and they get the points.

Put whip cream on your nipples and have your opponent lick it clean

your opposing female must lie on her back and put whip cream over her clit with a stemmed cherry on top (or another small piece of fruit). You and your partner must decide who has to grab the fruit with their teeth and who has must lick the cream off.

You must masturbate for 30 seconds

Tell everyone the dirtiest thing you have ever done

Your opponent must guess how dirty you are by writing down a number from a scale of 1-10, 10 being real dirty. You must tell the group. Everyone who guess correctly gets points and for everyone who guesses incorrectly you get points.

Female Everyone in the group must guess if you spit or swallow and write it down. Then you must tell the group. Everyone who guess correctly gets points and for everyone who guesses incorrectly you get points.

Female You must tell us about all of your sex toys. If you choose not to your opponent can steal your points.

Tell the group how much of a porn junkie you are; never, back in the day, occasionally, a true Hugh Hefner

Male. You must finger your opponent for 30 seconds. If she refuses you get the points. If you do it, you both get the points. If you refuse, she gets the points.

Tell the group about a one night stand

Tell the group someplace you would like to have sex

Male While blindfolded lie on your back, all females will ride you cowgirl (with clothes on) and you have to guess who each person was. Wrong they get the points, right and their yours.

Tell the group of a good college story

The female must be in doggystyle position, have a shot glass put in her pussy and the guy must take a shot.
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Money talks! Get the $5,000 and then take her out for a date. Ha ha
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Too drunk to get it up and didn't have sex!

Ever been to a lifestyle party or resort?
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I would try it. My wife and I recently tried dvp by inswetince vibrator during sex and she really liked it. We have had two mfm threesomes and did dp in her pussy and ass and it blew her mind. She also sucked both of us at the same time. It really wasn't a big deal to be touching. We never did anything sexual to each other. Very fun experience.
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My wife stopped taking bc pill because she is trying to get pregnant. Since then her pussy defiantly has a different smell that isn't as sweet. She had even noticed and keeps apologizing and is embarrassed. I can imagine that it has to do with changing of her hormones. Is there anything she can do to make it better even if it's for sex? I thought I saw someone type of product made for that at one time. Thank you.
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My wife stopped taking bc pill because she is trying to get pregnant. Since then her pussy defiantly has a different smell that isn't as sweet. She had even noticed and keeps apologizing and is embarrassed. I can imagine that it has to do with changing of her hormones. Is there anything she can do to make it better even if it's for sex? I thought I saw someone type of product made for that at one time. Thank you.
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Does anyone know what oil or lube pornstars cover their bodies with and can use for lube in anal and pussy sex and not have it burn? Im thinking babyoil? I have given my wife massages with oil and she says it burns her ass when we had sex after and then had to go shower mid sex to wash it off. I want to be able to finger her and rub her ass while i massage her and not have it burn. Thanks
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Does anyone know what oil or lube pornstars cover their bodies with and can use for lube in anal and pussy sex and not have it burn? Im thinking babyoil? I have given my wife massages and the massage oil says it burns her ass when we had sex after and then had to go shower mid sex to wash it off. I want to be able to finger her and rub her ass while i massage her and not have it burn. Thanks
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My wife and I are going to Desire Riviera Maya resort in December for 1 week. Has anyone been to this resort or one like it and what stories would you like to share. There is a rooftop 20+person hot tub where you can have sex along with a sinroom. They sound fun as hell.
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I know my wife was real naughty in her teens and in college
She has told me a few things and says that's all. I think she is embarrassed to tell me but it turns me on to hear. I have told her this numerous times but she just changes subjects. As naughty as she was with me when we first got together,
No way she only gave 2 handjobs in college. Ha ha how do I have her open up?
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We are going to meet up for a foursome with another couple we met online. First we are going to meet at a Bar for drinks and then take it from there. Either go back to our hotel or their place. What would be a good icebreaker to start things off when we get back from the bar? Any experiences in how it went for you guys? I would greatly appreciate it.

Cards?
Drinking game?
Truth or dare?
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Let's start a game of would you rather

Your in a threesome with two members of the opposite sex. Chocolate syrup and whipped cream gets brought out. Would you rather cover them and lick it off or have them lick it off you?


Would you rather pose for Playboy, everyone will know but you'll be famous. Or make a porn video and hope no one finds out?
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We live in a small town and not real convenient for having a third person without the entire town knowing. We have never been to Vegas and are thinking of going sometime is winter. I think this would be a opportune time to try it out. Any tips or places we could go (bar or club) with same minded people? Thank you very much.
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Paul, I read your response to thinking your wife had sex with her coworker Ken. I was recently in the same situation. My wife came home from going out for drinks with her coworkers on her last day at work before she started a new job. She came to bed and was drunk. We had tak previously about sex with another couple or guy. So that night she told me she new a guy at work who would be perfect for a threesome. We talked about why she thought that while we did foreplay. She ended ho confessing he gave her a ride home and she asked him on the way home if he would want to join her and me in the bedroom so she could try dp. She told me she didn't do anything with him but I have no way of knowing and I can't get it out of my head that she did. We had a talk about this night and how she went behind my back and talked to him about it with ought me knowing. So when I read this happened to you I wanted to see how things turned out.
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Let's hear your best questions. My friend told me to think of some good questions for the jacuzzi this weekend. Here are a couple of mine for a lady.

Would you rather...
- have two guys give you a massage
Or
- have two guys lick whipped cream off you


Would you rather in a Truth or dare game
- hold a vibrator on the other chick
Or
- have the other chick hold it on you
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I enjoy hearing about peoples sex lives and that's why I like reading them on Lush. Do any of you guys enjoy hearing your partners past? Perhaps when they were in college? How have you gotten your partner to tell you their deep secrets? I have asked mine in the past but i know she was holding back because I think she was embarrassed to let me know the truth. I know she was wild in college. But it is a turn on for me
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I enjoy hearing about peoples sex lives and that's why I like reading them on Lush. Do any of you guys enjoy hearing your partners past? Perhaps when they were in college? How have you gotten your partner to tell you their deep secrets? I have asked mine in the past but i know she was holding back because I think she was embarrassed to let me know the truth. I know she was wild in college. But it is a turn on for me