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Guys, have you ever paid a woman for sex?

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simplyjohn
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No but I have been tempted to do so.
scottob1234
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No, it was offered to me one time even from somebody else and i said no, I just cant do that unless there's some sort of connection. I know,, wimp...
benawriter
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After my first threesome, ffm, which was my girl friend's idea, I was hooked but after we broke up, the only way to find two girls/women agreeable was to pay them, so yeah, hookers just to satisfy my fantasy.
Phil37
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Late teens I plucked up enough courage to try it. I was so nervous she asked if I'd been drinking and had to suck me to erection. Two other times I came away disappointed and concluded that masturbation was more friendly.
findmeat1016
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Yes and still am. I paid for my first in high school and from Vietnam, Thailand, Singapore, Philippines, Hong Kong, Korea, and every Asian massage place across the US.
piper0066
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Yes while in the service in Japan.
Guest
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When I was overseas, yes. Otherwise they would not let the lady leave the bar with you. It was usually $20 - $25. However I have always has a pretty good sense of direction and I could always make my way back to her apartment. They would almost always welcome you into their bed if you came knocking in the morning/early afternoon for free sex.
Guest
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My Sir pays me for blowjobs. A nickel. lol I really need to renegotiate our contract some day.
colin123
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Not in the sense, but get married and you are in a way paying for it for the rest of your life.
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What am I, RICH??? ha
letsgonow69
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In a strict sense, no. But in a more general sense, everyone pays for sex in terms of relationship, emotions, feelings, etc.
BradCarpenter
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Does a divorce count?
redcaramel01
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Quote by BradCarpenter
Does a divorce count?


I have never paid cash for sex, so no sex for 25+ years, but my divorce settlement cost me a lot of money.
Master_Jonathan
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Well that would depend on what you mean. Are you talking paying for it in cash? If so yes I have. But then men ALWAYS pay women for sex in one form or fashion!
simplyjohn
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Increasingly I am tempted. However my budget is small (thats budget not budgie)... not sure what I would get for £3.86 (less if she charges VAT).
JamesLlewellyn
da Bear
Yes, twice when I worked on a ship for a year.

The first time was in Dakar, Senegal, and it was horrible, certainly for me, and I suspect for her.

The second time was in Rio de Janero, Brazil, and it was pretty good, but more importantly, we spent the night together, and I got a chance to talk to her and get to know her. Like most men, I asked why she did it, and that led to a a long conversation about alternatives, her life, and how this was not only better than any alternative open to her, it also allowed her to go to a party with her girl friends every night.

I came away from it with an entirely different attitude towards sex workers. Bottom line (sorry, pun intended), they are people with problems, bills to pay, and just doing a job. She did it well, and we had fun.

I respected her, appreciated her willingness to just talk with me, as well as, uh, you know.

When she took me back to the port, she kept me from being mugged by a street tough. She didn't have to do that, she could have just kicked me out and let me find my own way back.

All in all, it was a very positive experience for me. I was 18, so I'm not sure how good it was for her.

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Alan505
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Never needed to !
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Quote by simplyjohn
Increasingly I am tempted. However my budget is small (thats budget not budgie)... not sure what I would get for £3.86 (less if she charges VAT).


Around here, that would get a kiss on the tip of your nose, I think.
Kinkme
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Don't we ALL "technically" pay for sex.....
Guest
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I have but it's been over 40 years. Best blowjob ever and I have had some really excellent blowjobs.
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She refused the money and told her sister what I had done.
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when I was a younger man I paid a prostitute for a blow job in my buddies fan. A few yrs later I a female bartender who asked for a loan told for one night of great sex she could keep it. She was sexy gorgeous and busty. She agreed, She did not disappoint.
GDad0321
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Once when I was in the Marines, I had done a particularly good job and I was rewarded by escorting some equipment to Okinawa with a 48 hours turn around. Had much to drink and allowed one of the bar girls talk me into paying to trip the light fantastic.
patokl
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Quote by Kinkme
Don't we ALL "technically" pay for sex.....

Isn't that a depressing thought? I believe in a good relationship, partners are sharing rather than exchanging. So no, I never paid for sex, I shared it as my partners shared it with me and even if I were to have sex without strings, it would still be because we both want it, not because of some reward system.
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Nope