I think a sex worker is a better option for people who may want to experience their first time without fear. The reality of an organic sexual experience is that it can go badly. At least with a sex worker you know what to expect and she/he is a pro, they would make you feel comfortable and able which is what a first time should be like. There is no shame in paying for it, sex rehabilitation is a valid form of therapy. We need to step away from the prudish idea that paying for sex is embarrassing. It’s so common and should do nothing but boost your self esteem.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
For a huge portion of the human race striking up a conversation is as easy as anything. It becomes harder when people go into it with the goal of ending up in bed with someone. Saying hello, acknowledging someone's existence isn't rocket science, it isn't a Nobel acceptance speech...it's only as difficult as you make it, with impossible expectations. Professionals remove the pressure from most situations and certainly an escort would remove a lot of pressure from a sexual encounter. Consider that it is the worods oldest profession.
A lot of women would be surprised how many men lost their virginity to a hooker. I did. As ca young kid, who did not know what to expect and what to do, a hooker was good for a first time.
The romantic bi guy.
Stay horny my friend.
I agree with Ls63563. Escorts can be lovely people. Some advertise what they call Girl Friend Experience. In my experience they are very likely to understand that people have difficulties. I would also say go for it. If you find the right one she can really look after you. I wish you all the best.
1977 - I was 14 - in a massage parlor in Jakarta, my father's girlfriend picked the girl and my Dad paid. Boy, I was "Superman" when I returned into my boarding school, back home in Europe. And, before anyone asks, the massage was about 20 minutes, the shower 5, and the final act - I assume - 35 to 40 seconds. Too short to take any harm or mental damage. It happend more than 40 years ago and I never needed any therapy, at least not from doctor or therapist.
How many men have done this? Many. Guys in the military act like they're sexual studs. Once they get to go overseas, they go off alone and pay for it. They go alone because they know that they won't last more than a few seconds. Let the hooker/escort laugh, but no one else. Then once back on base/ship, they act macho. Just use protection. Some of these guys trade virginity for the clap!
Good idea. A good escort will be professional and give guidance for maximum fulfilment. The experience will be very valuable for when you find that right person for you .
loosing your virginity is too much wrapped up in some monumental moment to remember forever lol
It's been almost 3 years, any update?
Why don't you try online dating first?
Really, so much time has passed. Has your life changed somehow?
I did . I was in the military, a late bloomer . I had never really had an interest in women . 3 of us got together and got a prostitute. I lost my virginity that night .
