I am a man of many tastes and interest. for instance i have a real fetish for wedding rings. over the 30 years that i have been having sex i have tried a lot of different stuff. the whole idea of trying everything at least once has been sort of a motto for me. this has of course lead to good experiences as well as bad ones but the good ones greatly outweigh the bad ones. in my twenties i dabbled in the bdsm scene and picked up a bouquet of fetishes from there. long before that i had started to play a rather elaborate game of truth and dare with my cousin which i have written up into stories that i will little by little post here.
there are of course other things i have done in real life or fantasy ... one never knows
Interests outside sex my main interests are mostly of a cultural nature: art, music, movies, literature. i also quite enjoy playing videogames and computergames. not much into sports with the exception of handball, which i used to play myself back in my youth.
in sex: i love to play around with all kinds of things when it comes to sex, genderroles, ageplay, crossdressing, consentual nonconsent, peeplay, and all kinds of roleplays that are more than just"a bit of spice". of course this does not mean there are not things i would not do, (how's that for a triple negation).
Favorite Books there has been quite a few great reads over the years. i suppose i could mention a few that i keep returning to. Crime & Punishment - Feodor Dostojevsky The Stranger - Albert Camus Don quixote (which was a dream) - Kathy Acker New York Trilogy - Paul Auster Written on the Body - Jeanette Winterson 1q84 - Haruki Murakami
Favorite Authors Kathy Acker, Paul Auster, Haruki Murakami, Jeanette Winterson, Angela Carter, Sam Beckett ... to name but a few
Favorite Movies this is almost harder. there are so many but the one movie that does come to mind which has been a favourite for almost as long as i can remember is Casablanca. been ages since i watched now though. something to put on the to do list for sure.
Favorite TV Shows at the moment i am really into American Horror Story and True Detective.
Favorite Music boris (japanese psych metalists not dutch rnbsinger), sonic youth, acid mothers temple,melt banana, sun ran, miles davis (mostly late 60s early 70s stuff), mahavishnu orchestra, weather report, don cherry, kraftwerk, pink floyd, sunn'o))), swans, khanate, nadja, jarboe, einstürzende neubauten, gorguts, pierre boulez, erik satie, steve reich, naked city ... the list goes on and on ...