About:

I am a forty-something woman in a happily monogamous relationship. My partner and I have really worked at normalizing kink in our relationship and are currently in a ‘what’s the worst that could happen’ phase, trying all sorts of new things we’ve always wanted to. I am so grateful to have found such a creative, open minded, and supportive partner, and I have never had so much fun!  

I am open to enjoying good conversation with like-minded people. I am not open to meet people for sex, cam, or cybersex. No unsolicited photos, please.

I love reading erotic stories. I love hearing people’s passions and gleaning inspiration from what they create. I am new to writing. I have found it’s a nice way to visualize things I want to try and to catalog encounters I want to make sure I remember.

Interests:

I love listening to things. My favorite podcasts are any that normalize, educate, or shamelessly celebrate sex like Sex with Dr. Jess, Sex Stories, and The Plug. In the non-sex category I like This American Life, Women Who Travel, and my guilty pleasure podcast is Girls Next Level.

My favorite sudiobooks are any narrated with a Scottish accent.

Musically, I have been really into Rosalia, Maggie Rogers, Amy Winehouse, Bill Withers, Peter Gabriel, and, inexplicably, ABBA as of late.

I have two dogs and three cats; the beagle and two cats are retired laboratory research animals. They are now justifiably spoiled and living their best lives.

I love slow travel (train, RV, or road trips). I would much rather spend time with locals at trivia night in a pub in Cornwall than at the Eifel Tower.

I enjoy chess. I always have 5-10 online games going, and if I have an extra couple of minutes, you can usually find me staring at my phone, making my moves.

We don’t watch a ton of TV, but, I really loved Ted Lasso, Reservation Dogs, The Good Place, The After Party, and Acapulco.

There are so many good books out in the world but the ones that have really impacted me lately are 4000 Weeks, A Prayer for Owen Meany, You Could Make This Place Beautiful and The Sun Also Rises.