Stargazer!
[Up two. I was too slow]
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21 hours ago
Straight Male, 67
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Blowjobs I have had. Two women at the same time I have not. I have been married a long time, and it was at one time a fantasy to introduce a woman, but we have not got around to it in reality. I imagine it would be as pleasant as anything else, so I don't feel I am missing out. I would not turn down the opportunity to have someone change my mind.
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I've heard from women friends that they often "check the package" on a man they find interesting, and freely compare notes with their best friends. No harm in it, I would say, since men are always staring at women too. Sometimes nature provides a better angle, so to speak, than at other times. I have been "caught" in this situation a few times, but rarely in a very embarrassing situation. It has definitely led in one circumstance to a closer relationship.
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Not as good as usual. My first cold in about three years.
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I've sometimes heard almost nothing, at times. Moaning is good, if genuine. Screaming I have yet to hear.
If someone is too noisy, it reminds me of bad porn, or someone is faking it. It's a turn-off for me.
I appreciate the opportunity sometimes to engage in slow, quiet lovemaking, so as not to attract attention. Sometimes, it can be very exciting when trying not to make any noise (like in a more public setting, or when her parents are in the next room)
I am quite satisfied when the person I am with is satisfied, whether she made noise, or not.
If someone is too noisy, it reminds me of bad porn, or someone is faking it. It's a turn-off for me.
I appreciate the opportunity sometimes to engage in slow, quiet lovemaking, so as not to attract attention. Sometimes, it can be very exciting when trying not to make any noise (like in a more public setting, or when her parents are in the next room)
I am quite satisfied when the person I am with is satisfied, whether she made noise, or not.
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It's fun, a great way to warm up to orgasm, but rarely have I done it to simultaneous orgasm. I've always found that the orgasms are much better if both can take turns and focus on their roles as giver and receiver. It feels most relaxing on our sides, but being on the bottom works for me too.
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Meanwhile, back at the ranch... some of us Mac-users are still procrastinating about installing Yosemite to replace Mountain Lion! Should I, or shouldn't I??
Yosemite had a few issues when I upgraded. I was hoping for some things to get faster, but overall, I see no net change.
Spotlight just seems to be a total waste of time.
I would not rush to Yosemite. El Capitain will arrive around year-end. It might be worthwhile skipping over Yosemite.
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Ted Cruz actually makes me laugh he is so ridiculous. Sorry Canadians but he needs to go home.
We definitely do NOT want him back! We have our own asshat prime minster that has been screwing up the country now for ten years. With luck, we will send him packing too.
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A and B are a couple. A does C, without B knowing. Possibly A is cheating.
Would B be upset if B found out A has done C? Depends... If B is upset, then B probably considers A was "cheating"
But should B be upset? If A and B together have a solid relationship, and A doing a relatively minor thing with C actually somehow enhances more intense interactions between A and B, where's the harm?
If B is not fulfilling A's needs, despite all reasonable efforts to correct the situation, interaction between A and C to fill a gap may be reasonable, if not inevitable. Where is the greater harm in this case? B denying A completion can be pretty harsh, especially if B does not care to try to fix the situation. in that case, the lesser harm overall may result from A seeing C.
If only A and B could get together with C, everyone would be happy!!
Would B be upset if B found out A has done C? Depends... If B is upset, then B probably considers A was "cheating"
But should B be upset? If A and B together have a solid relationship, and A doing a relatively minor thing with C actually somehow enhances more intense interactions between A and B, where's the harm?
If B is not fulfilling A's needs, despite all reasonable efforts to correct the situation, interaction between A and C to fill a gap may be reasonable, if not inevitable. Where is the greater harm in this case? B denying A completion can be pretty harsh, especially if B does not care to try to fix the situation. in that case, the lesser harm overall may result from A seeing C.
If only A and B could get together with C, everyone would be happy!!
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Try googling "dual control model" to learn a bit more about current research on sexuality. I am certain you are not alone in having these issues, and there are probably things that can be done, and people that can help. Seek counselling, together. Best of luck.
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It varies, but whether it is super intense, or just so-so, it is always followed by a great feeling of endorphin bliss. It's an all-over feeling, before, during, and after, not just concentrated in your sex organs.
Leading up to it is always fun. The best lover I have had appreciated the tease, bringing me to the edge, feeling my cock twitch, swell, go super-hard, but knowing when to back off, not immediately letting me explode. Sensing when I am close, she stops, lets me rest a while, with a wry smile or a little giggle, while I back down a little from the cliff edge, knowing I will end with an incredibly powerful finale. The foreplay can go on for a long time, teetering on the edge. I am always eager to enjoy the feeling of edging by a skilled, sensitive lover. She enjoys the pre-cum, oozing, spreading it around with a finger tip, or gently licking it up. I like it when she calls the shots, so to speak. When she wants me to cum, she really goes to town, or if I am inside. she encourages me to thrust mercilessly, until I explode. I have shot for quite some distance sometimes - even over her head a few times.
Being the great lover she is, she knows not to let up, to keep pumping, humping, or playing until I actually feel a second orgasmic wave come on, about ten to thirty seconds after my initial dozen contractions. I am certain I have experienced multiple orgasms, and though I am probably low on ejaculate, I definitely remain hard during such great lovemaking, and I am more than willing to keep up the thrusting, if it will make her cum again and again.
I love orgasms, but I love them best when shared with a friend.
Leading up to it is always fun. The best lover I have had appreciated the tease, bringing me to the edge, feeling my cock twitch, swell, go super-hard, but knowing when to back off, not immediately letting me explode. Sensing when I am close, she stops, lets me rest a while, with a wry smile or a little giggle, while I back down a little from the cliff edge, knowing I will end with an incredibly powerful finale. The foreplay can go on for a long time, teetering on the edge. I am always eager to enjoy the feeling of edging by a skilled, sensitive lover. She enjoys the pre-cum, oozing, spreading it around with a finger tip, or gently licking it up. I like it when she calls the shots, so to speak. When she wants me to cum, she really goes to town, or if I am inside. she encourages me to thrust mercilessly, until I explode. I have shot for quite some distance sometimes - even over her head a few times.
Being the great lover she is, she knows not to let up, to keep pumping, humping, or playing until I actually feel a second orgasmic wave come on, about ten to thirty seconds after my initial dozen contractions. I am certain I have experienced multiple orgasms, and though I am probably low on ejaculate, I definitely remain hard during such great lovemaking, and I am more than willing to keep up the thrusting, if it will make her cum again and again.
I love orgasms, but I love them best when shared with a friend.
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We get our patriotic rocks off on July 1st.
Missing below: Poutine, Curling broom, back bacon (as opposed to mystery meat that looks like bologna)
Missing below: Poutine, Curling broom, back bacon (as opposed to mystery meat that looks like bologna)
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Yes, both inside (with a very sexy short GF who could ride cowboy without banging her head) and outside (Totally deserted country lane, she splayed on on the front hood, and me standing and thrusting while holding on to her legs). It's kinda special, but it is generally better under other circumstances, except when you just can't wait to get home.
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I have fixed friend's computer problems, but I try to do it with them present. I am able to get them to enter their admin password without me having to know it. I then have no opportunity to pry into their private business without them being in the room.
Only a few times have I ever had to take hardware away for an extensive recovery attempt, using a tool that does something fairly low-level, not requiring access to an admin account. If they do not have a backup (all too often), I make one using a spare drive, and I hand the backup disk over to them with a recommendation that they should maybe do backups more often.
I have rarely seen anything unusual or surprising. I've seen things people would probably not want to share with everyone, but not much surprises me any more.
Only a few times have I ever had to take hardware away for an extensive recovery attempt, using a tool that does something fairly low-level, not requiring access to an admin account. If they do not have a backup (all too often), I make one using a spare drive, and I hand the backup disk over to them with a recommendation that they should maybe do backups more often.
I have rarely seen anything unusual or surprising. I've seen things people would probably not want to share with everyone, but not much surprises me any more.
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Are all the men using centimetres? Or, using the measuring tape also used for fishing?
I have not heard any complaints - perhaps the only meaningful measure.
I have not heard any complaints - perhaps the only meaningful measure.
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Depending on the venue, anything from very casual to semi-formal. I would hope to match up with the person in terms of attire, so we feel relaxed, and like we belong together. There would, I hope, be a chance to hang out in cutoffs and tees, and also don formal dress for fine dining and a show.
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Yes, definitely has happened to me. A long time ago. I think maybe more than once...
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I think it is natural to look around, flirt, and engage in lusty thoughts about others you are not married to, even when in a successful long-term and long-lasting relationship. We are more like bonobos than we want to believe.
Thoughts are not criminal. The only potential problem occurs when it goes beyond thoughts and becomes reality. And then, to each his/her own, in terms of what is tolerable. There seems to be a wide spectrum of what is considered acceptable, and that level of acceptance seems to vary throughout a longer relationship, so I will not pretend to have the right answer.
However, one should always remain cognizant of what might be put at risk by engaging in sites like this, or in extramarital dating sites, and any of the associated activities that relate to others outside of an established relationship. Your SO may be OK with what is happening, while someone else's SO is opposed. Probably, many justifications are founded on two principles: 1. It makes me feel good, better than I would feel otherwise; 2. I don't want or intend to hurt anyone else. In the ideal world, all things can be communicated freely and openly, so everyone is at least aware, if not also in agreement. It is the communication that is often the most difficult, and not undertaken because it is quite likely that someone will feel hurt.
Thoughts are not criminal. The only potential problem occurs when it goes beyond thoughts and becomes reality. And then, to each his/her own, in terms of what is tolerable. There seems to be a wide spectrum of what is considered acceptable, and that level of acceptance seems to vary throughout a longer relationship, so I will not pretend to have the right answer.
However, one should always remain cognizant of what might be put at risk by engaging in sites like this, or in extramarital dating sites, and any of the associated activities that relate to others outside of an established relationship. Your SO may be OK with what is happening, while someone else's SO is opposed. Probably, many justifications are founded on two principles: 1. It makes me feel good, better than I would feel otherwise; 2. I don't want or intend to hurt anyone else. In the ideal world, all things can be communicated freely and openly, so everyone is at least aware, if not also in agreement. It is the communication that is often the most difficult, and not undertaken because it is quite likely that someone will feel hurt.
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I'd be OK with a drink.
Is a period allowed, as in "Fuck no. Passing!" ?
Is a period allowed, as in "Fuck no. Passing!" ?