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Taco4x4
12 hours ago
Straight Male, 56
0 miles · California

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I would think everyone on Lush enjoys reading erotica or engaging in "naughty talk." I'm interpreting that as "dirty talking."
I love talking dirty during sex, but I've learned you have to take baby steps to see how the woman reacts. Based on my experience, I'd say about 1/4 to 1/3 of women enjoy dirty talking with their partners during sex.

In college I hooked up with a divorced MILF at a hotel nightclub/bar. I was 23 and she was 45. She was a lot of fun at her place: kitchen, couch, bed, shower, and then bed again in the morning.

A few years ago I hooked up with a younger woman via craigslist. I was 60 and she was 39. We met Saturday afternoon and she didn't leave until Monday afternoon. We became FWB and would hookup about every 2 weeks. After about 7 fun weekends she wanted to "date like normal people." i told her, "You answered a FWB post. You knew what this was from day one."

Escort: I was 61 and she was 32. I had no idea she was that young. We were at a party of about 30 escorts and 25 men. We met at a dining table as several of us ate dinner. We flirted, we danced, etc. Next thing I know we're naked in her hotel room, lol.

I enjoy several different types of porn: #1- blowjob with cum shooting in her mouth, then in no particular order: prostate massage & orgasm, pussy eating. guy getting DATO with BLS and BBBJ, and FMF threesome.

What I'm sick and tired of is all of the step-mother or step-sister videos with the same five lame plot lines.

YES! Even "safe and sane" style. My town finally allowed "safe and sane" about 10=12 years ago, mainly so youth groups, service organizations, etc could do a fundraiser. Now we have fireworks going off from July 1st to the 10th, morning-noon-and night. Oh, and three houses have had fires.

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McKenna beach (aka Big Beach) Maui ,Hapuna Beach, Big Island

Both are really nice. My favorite is on Maui, up from Kapalua. DT Flemming Beach. I first went as a kid with my family in 1977. It is much different these days due to development (Ritz Carlton, Kapalua Golf, etc), but so is the entire island.

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Absolutely yes, i love to teach a lover new things

I agree about teaching new things to a new, inexperienced partner. Fifteen years ago, I had the chance to do so with a 35yo woman who had only been with two men and who had only had sex in missionary.

Yes. I was first introduced to meditation when attending a Chronic Pain program in 2003. I did it several times a week for a few years, then I started taking yoga classes and the instructor/yogi encouraged us begginers to also take the meditation class, so I did (plus there were some really cute MILFs in the class). Fast forward 20 years and I will usually meditate 5-6 days a week, usually in the afternoon when I get home from work. I have three playlists, I turn off the lights, and zone out for 15 minutes.

Rarely do I jerkoff when I'm writing, the exception might be when it's based on a real experience. I have played with myself as I've read an older story of mine. And, of course, YES, when reading a really sensual & erotic story I find my hand rubbing my manhood. Before you know it my shorts are below my knees and I'm stroking it.

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Anyone have any tips for eating cum, either your own or someone elses ?

Considering the first time I tasted my cum was a surprise snowball here are my tips. The initital shocke lasted one second, then i thought it was so hot and that I just went with it. I simply swallowed. It was a bit diluted with her saliva, so the taste wasn't bad. The texture was still rather thick.
About 2yrs later i was with a gal who said she was a spitter. I told her to snowball me. She thought that was so kinky. I told her "give me half" and we'll swallow together. She loved it!
I've never jerked off and eaten my cum. I have licked part of my splattered jizz off a few tits, usually while going back for more nipple play.

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For those of you that follow Lush because of an unhappy marriage, what finally caused you to seek intimacy or a release outside of your marriage?


It was a combination of several things. Most revolving about sex, intimacy, and the lack of communication about those subjects.

I was caught by others three times.
1) GF's mother caught us in the spa.
2) college roomie came home hours earlier than he told me and found me and a hookup on the couch.
3) Ex and I are on a houseboat trip with several of our best friend couples. We sneak off mid-afternoon, go into our lil room, and get busy. She's bent over and I'm going to town from behind, when we hear, "Hey, you're rocking the boat!" We turn to see two couples in the doorway watching.

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I can’t even begin to guess the number of times I’ve shared cum mouth to mouth. I can say with relative certainty that the next time I do it won’t be long from now.

I'd love to be that lucky guy.

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Probably a bit contraversial but consider visiting an escort. They are generally friendly ladies who are not shy and will help you get past that first hurdle. Dont expect a 'relationship' but might make it easier when you want to date not having the virgin tag in the back of your mind. Good luck

I know the original post is 5yrs old, but for any other male virgin...... I agree with seeing an escort. And, if you talk with her before and explain the situation, she will most likely be happy to give you tips on how to pleasure a woman, parts of the vagina, show you different positions besides missionary & cowgirl. And I would suggest multiple 90 minute sessions. One hour flies by in the blink of an eye.
You'll gain the confidence you need to talk with women in public.

I do try to come up with good names for each character. Certain names make me think of different types of personalities. Say, Cheyenne or Crystal, I think of as a stripper or hooker. While Sheri or Lisa are 'normal' women. Men's names like Grant or Chase seem upper crust/richy-rich guys.

WTS- i just read two stories, written in first person, where one or two characters were not named. How many times can you read HER and SHE or HIM and HE and wonder who the hell is this man/woman?

The longest is my fourteen chapter series "The Wedding Weekend" with 69K words.
I wrote this when I was fairly new to Lush and writing erotica. I had been a member about 3-4 months. It took me a full month to write and publish this series.

I (55+) have been with much younger women the past eight years. One woman I met on Craigslist for a hookup was 20 years younger than me. She was a lot of fun and could go for hours. This FWB went on for a few months, meeting several times a month.
Two women I've met on online dating sites (match & bumble) were ten years younger.
I have also been with several escorts who were about 25 years younger than me. These women were a lot of fun because they would allow me to explore new adventures: face fucking, face sitting, new positions, anal toys......

5.5 to 6.0 inches depending how hard I get (I'm 55+).
What I lack in length I have a nice mushroom head.

I have masturbated in front of women to climax. If the stranger was a female, yes! I'd never jerk it in front of another guy- its not my thing.

I have never tasted my cum after a masturbation session. I have tasted and swallowed my jizz after being snowballed several times (depending upon the woman, I'll ask her to do it when I cum in her mouth). It's kinda hot/kinky/ . Meh, not a great taste but not horrible either.

Yes, as she just rimmed me (for my first time). And I returned the favor. She then asked me to lick her starfish and finger her pussy. I had her moaning in pleasure, bring her to the edge, stop, and then start again. She eventually had a huge orgasm. She told me she gets more feeling when her ass is licked vs her kitty. All I know is that i enjoy getting mine licked.

No real process. I can the featured covers to see if something catches my eye, or if there is a continuing chapter from a story I've read. Otherwise I simply scroll through about ten stories and see what looks interesting. I know I've missed follow up chapters of stories I've read and "liked."

Sure. If the covers lead female character catches my attention (she's beautiful, or super sexy) I can envision her as I read the story.

Several years ago I met a younger woman via Craigslist. We met at an Applebee's at 9pm for drinks. I'm horrible with guessing ages, but I was thinking she was 45ish. I was 57 at the time. I finally asked her age when we were leaving to go to my place to have sex. She was only 37! I didn't care as an older horny pervy guy, lol. Thankfully we clicked sexually.

Yes, many times now, with about ten women.
The first time was when she first rimmed my ass and drove me wild. i figured if it felt that good I wanted to return the pleasure. And then, as I was licking she told me to finger her ass too! Also a first. This was in 2018.

I lost my virginity in the back seat of a 1976 Mercury Capri (hatchback). I was 17, 6-0 tall and she was 16, 5-10, and it was difficult. The following weekend I had a blanket and we fucked in the middle of a cherry orchard. While the first time was glorious, the second time was AMAZING

Highly doubtful. Especially if I knew the guy. If it was a super hot and erotic experience and she requested it I might do it briefly just to keep the fuckfest moving along, but I honestly don't see myself sucking cock. But, never say never. I think I'm more likely to suck a hot sexy shemales cock for sure.

1. Cum in a women's pussy - many times
2. Cum in a women's ass - once
3. Cum in a women's mouth - many times
4. Cum in a man's mouth - no and never will
5. Cum in a man's ass - no and never will
6. Have a man cum in your mouth - no and never will
7. Have a man cum in your ass - no and never will

With all of the squirting videos I thought I'd be prepared for when I experienced my first woman who soaked the bed. to be honest, I had a range of emotions varying from initial shock, the hot/ feeling of making a woman loose control, and then a tad of regret as we had to clean up the wet mess and peel off all of the bedding.

I had went out with the woman on Thursday for dinner off a dating app. Ended with a nice passionate kiss at her car. We flirted via text on Friday, talked that night, and picked it up again Saturday. She finally asked me over to her condo. I knew she had been drinking already, it was 8pm. I was out and told her I'd have to go home get some things to spend the night, and I'd get there by 9pm. By 930pm we were naked on her couch and she led me to her bedroom. After going down on her and bringing her to climax I expected her to suck my cock, but when I moved back up next to her she asked me to "finger bang my pussy hard and fast, I'll get off again."

After about two minutes she was moaning like crazy as i banged her cunt and sucked on her titties. She shook and then sprayed three powerful blasts of liquid from her pussy, soaking my hand. She had obviously done this before as it didn't seem to faze her, so I kept banging her and sucking her boob. She finally begged me to stop. Her comforter was soaked, as was the mattress. Be both had to sleep on bath towels with a sheet over us (it was summer). In the morning, I noticed the towel I slept on had become damp, absorbing liquid from the mattress.

I was divorced about a year and a half when I placed a "missed connection" ad on craigslist trolling for pussy. Several women replied, but none really wanted to hookup. Then, a month later, one of the ladies emails me again. We end up meeting the next day, Friday, 9pm, at Chili's. The bar was almost empty at that time of night. After two drinks each and an appetizer I asked if she'd like to go back to my place. She was highly orgasmic, and she had at least six releases while I had two over the next two plus hours before we passed out. In the morning, I made us breakfast, and thought she'd be leaving. She didn't leave until Monday afternoon when she had to go to work. We hooked up several more weekends, she "took over" my guest bathroom, leaving various items there. Then she wanted to get serious, like being a "real couple." This problem was that I was 21 years older than her, and, I was even a year older than her mother. We fucked a couple more weekends but she kept up with "dating" and such. I finally told her, "we met on craigslist, I thought we were on the same page that we're just 'friends with benefits." That afternoon, after a good 90 minute romp, she showers, packs up her bathroom stuff (unknown to me), kisses me goodbye, and never returned. In a text she said, "You wouldn't commit to me. I want a real boyfriend." I replied, "We started a fuck-buddies, but due to the age gap I don't think we're a long term match. Good luck." I haven't heard from here since. I've mailed her birthday cards, a Christmas card, and sent a few texts the next couple of years, but no response. I did Google her a year ago. I found that she filed bankruptcy in year or two prior.