From my experience,
A person is bi-sexual when they get the same feeling, emotionally and sexually. with either sex. If they have the feelings but have never been with the same sex, I would think they are more "bi-curious". Until they have a few "meetings" with the same sex, they just don't know how to react to their feelings and needs.
A gay or lesbian is emotionally and sexually tied to the same sex exclusively. They have no desire to be with the opposite sex at all.
I have many friends that fit into all three categories and love them all.
It just comes down to "different strokes for different folks".
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Quote by HoneyBee000Quote by Dancing_Doll
Let's say that you're out at a bar, and you see a girl that you think you might be interested in, and she is there with a group of her girlfriends.
How much do you judge a girl based on the friends she keeps? (eg. whether the friends look high maintenance, or seem to be party-girls, or promiscuous, or conservative, or intellectual/business-women, or gold-diggers etc.)
Do you assume she is similar to her friends, or do you assume she is a unique individual no matter who she chooses to surround herself with? Does it affect your likelihood of approaching her?
I like your question. I can only answer this from a female P.O.V by asking myself; do I judge a man by the friends he hangs around with and the answer is no of course not.
I don't either. If I'm attracted to a particular female of a group, I'll just approach her, that is unless she is obviously with/attached to a female/male that is present. I'll just start a normal conversation, mostly by commenting about her hair/dress/shoes...etc. It works for me, and I don't mind a brush-off or a no... It's all part of the date/pick-up game.
It's the dumb guy that is afraid to approach a beautiful woman. I ain't no dummie!
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I too, have had trouble with the Lush editor, but discovered the following:
1. When using the editor, do not, repeat - DO NOT - hit enter at the end of a normal line, let the word-wrap control the width of the sentences.
2. When you have a short sentence, that would be obvious, hit "enter" and it works ok.
3. Use paragraphs for story line.
4. Use quots to signify a person speaking within the paragraph.
5. Always use a double space after normal punctuation, except the comma.
6. It's ok to use individual lines for dialog.
I think the problem is with the Avatar and adds placed on the right side when actually published.
If I'm wrong, I stand corrected, but I found it to be true during my 4 stories, which had to be edited.
I don't use "cut and paste" for those reasons.
Thanks....
1. When using the editor, do not, repeat - DO NOT - hit enter at the end of a normal line, let the word-wrap control the width of the sentences.
2. When you have a short sentence, that would be obvious, hit "enter" and it works ok.
3. Use paragraphs for story line.
4. Use quots to signify a person speaking within the paragraph.
5. Always use a double space after normal punctuation, except the comma.
6. It's ok to use individual lines for dialog.
I think the problem is with the Avatar and adds placed on the right side when actually published.
If I'm wrong, I stand corrected, but I found it to be true during my 4 stories, which had to be edited.
I don't use "cut and paste" for those reasons.
Thanks....
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Quote by sassycheergirl
Why do I click on these threads........
I am so not touching another persons hand unless i have hand sanitizer
And here, I thought all women carried hand sanitizer in their bags....
By the way, chances are your last waiter didn't wash after pissing....
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Quote by SavannaQuote by iceman
I get extremely turned on by the following accents (in order of preference)
BRITISH
SOUTHERN (American)
IRISH/SCOTTISH
AUSTRAILIAN
you left out mine damn and here I was all cute to you
me hard and send me to bed without any 
or 
To be truthful, I've never talked with a woman from Isreal before. My profound
apologies!
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Thank you GAV!
I know you have so many other things to do and worry about, so I'll just throw one more at you....
How about putting a "Friends" button at the top of the Forum page
along with the Inbox, Search... etc...
This will allow people to jump to their friends listing without going
back to the "Home" page...
Just another idea...
I know you have so many other things to do and worry about, so I'll just throw one more at you....
How about putting a "Friends" button at the top of the Forum page
along with the Inbox, Search... etc...
This will allow people to jump to their friends listing without going
back to the "Home" page...
Just another idea...
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Quote by thepainter
Interesting thought provoking topic again.
Is javier breaking the lush guidelines of proper conduct? Then by all means, ask him kindly to refrain from posting these types of questions.
Why do you feel the need to psycho analyze javier? I happen to know another Spanish guy who addresses similar questions concerning women. His name is Pedro Almodóvar, a well-known Oscar winning movie director. Would you say he also has "issues with females in general"?
Maybe he does, maybe both do, but making bold statements doesn't make it any more true than anyone's wild guess. And even though you say he should ignore your mod status, that's easier said than done so it's a bit unfair imo.
Again, if he's violating the site guidelines then by all means take the appropriate action but please do so in private messages.
I agree. If guidelines were violated, all you have to do is remove and ban him. I see you haven't done that.
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My one time girlfriend was getting ready to make apple pies for the next day's Thanksgiving Dinner when she discovered she was out of fresh apples, but had a can of "store bought apple pie filling" in the pantry. I told her that rather than use the can, I'll go get some fresh and left for the store. When I returned with plenty of apples, I found that she had opened the can. I just set it aside and started cleaning, peeling, coring and cutting while she prepared the dough. "What are we going to do with that can, I don't want to toss it out," she said. I just told her I had some plans for later. After the pies were all fixed, cooked and set to cool, I warmed the pie filling in the microwave. When warm, I took her by the hand, to the bedroom, undressed her and laid her on the bed. I spread that pie filling all over her body, tits, and even inside her pussy. Then proceeded to lick and eat them all off and from inside her. I don't know how many orgasms she had, nor can she remember. Even to this day, although we aren't a couple, I'll make a remark about pie filling and she'll blush from head to foot. Her new husband doesn't and won't ever know, he's a super jealous type of guy, but we are friends.
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I know there have been questions and complaints about a story not being on the front page when first published. I recently had one published that was relegated to the 2nd page! I know everyone loves to read just a little bit about a particular story before clicking on it, but if just that part... about 3-4 lines... were deleted, leaving the title and comments line... the front page listing could be doubled. I certainly wouldn't mind that with my stories..
Comments??
Comments??
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Quote by nicolaQuote by icemanQuote by Island_Breeze
I would like the ability to be invisible when online. Sometimes people tend to bother you and you just want to be alone or just to keep on chatting privately with out any disturbance.
That's what the little "away/online" button is at the top of the page...
I think this needs to be more obvious, I set mine to "away" when I was testing it months ago, and totally forgot about it ever since! Perhaps follow the IM lead, with Available / Away / Appear Offline, when you mouseover that link on the front page, it says "Set your current status."
How about just having a person automatically go to "online" when they log in, but with a pop-up asking for your status, "Available" or "Away" or maybe "Busy, don't bother me". The cursor could go there like it does when you log in and have mail, it asks if you want to go to mail.
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Quote by Island_Breeze
I would like the ability to be invisible when online. Sometimes people tend to bother you and you just want to be alone or just to keep on chatting privately with out any disturbance.
That's what the little "away/online" button is at the top of the page...
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I see a lot of wonderful ideas from people!
1. How about adding the "send an online message" or "send IM" to the dropdown on the friends list so a person
doesn't have to go to the profile first.
2. When a friend comes online, the little black "online message" window should last a little longer and maybe
add a "door bell" to it, along with a "poke" and possibly "send IM"
3. Add "send IM" to the "signed in pop-up.
4. Let a person select and mark pictures on their profile as "available to friends only" so people can make
personal pictures available without showing them to any that look at that particular profile. Once a person
is added to the "friends list", those pictures are visible. I've seen this on other sites.
5. On the category list: put the number of "readers" in the little red window. That would show the number of
readers currently in a category at any particular time. If a person switches, that number changes to the
new category.
I love the idea of having instant messaging. I do love the online chat window, but it is time consuming to get
open, not everyone has a fast or new computer.
Keep up the good work, Gav.... "YOU THE MAN!"
1. How about adding the "send an online message" or "send IM" to the dropdown on the friends list so a person
doesn't have to go to the profile first.
2. When a friend comes online, the little black "online message" window should last a little longer and maybe
add a "door bell" to it, along with a "poke" and possibly "send IM"
3. Add "send IM" to the "signed in pop-up.
4. Let a person select and mark pictures on their profile as "available to friends only" so people can make
personal pictures available without showing them to any that look at that particular profile. Once a person
is added to the "friends list", those pictures are visible. I've seen this on other sites.
5. On the category list: put the number of "readers" in the little red window. That would show the number of
readers currently in a category at any particular time. If a person switches, that number changes to the
new category.
I love the idea of having instant messaging. I do love the online chat window, but it is time consuming to get
open, not everyone has a fast or new computer.
Keep up the good work, Gav.... "YOU THE MAN!"
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Quote by Lady_Lydia
Alright, it's obvious that we're probably all masturbators here.
Guys, (and possibly women interested in commenting):
1. Do you like watching women masturbate?
2. What turns you on about it?
3. Do you get interested in joining in or are you content to just sit there and enjoy the show?
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YES! to all of your questions!